Polls: Girl's Behavior

So ever thought you live your life just fine. And all of the sudden you get this drunk girl outta the club and just wants to pick at you. She doesn't get physical but she says the line above. You think "she's just drunk, she ain't making sense."

But if you were to entertain such an idea, you think such person would be onto something... or that's just plain ridiculous?

It seems like men think that women are dressing up just to seek their attention. When in reality we are usually dressing a certain way for comfort, fashion and or to feel good about ourselves. Very rarely has anything to do with seeking attention from men.

Main that make me say he's lying... Just a few days ago he'd made a quip about he didn't think he was relevant to company so why would boss bother to call him for that long.

There's also the fact he usually texts good morning when he gets up. Has not yet texted. You can see activity on WhatsApp. I'm not texting him good morning as to me for all his claims about how he can't stand people looking for the "next best" (to date) he's doing just that.

By "show more skin" I mean stuff like tank tops and short shorts, and by "cover up more" I mean stuff like long sleeves and long pants/jeans. As you can see in the attached photos.

I don't know why, but to me it just seems like women who show more skin are often more warm/friendly than women who cover up more. I often associate the former with smiling more often, generally hugging more and being more touchy feely, and displaying overall more extroverted and outgoing traits... and the latter more with smiling less, disliking hugs and physical contact, and displaying overall more introverted and reserved traits.

Another thing, women who show skin seem to not care when another woman decides to cover up... at most they'll ask them "aren't you feeling hot" if the temperature is high, but they'll leave it at that. However, women who cover up often seem to be quite judgmental of women who show more skin, and seem to think that they are morally superior to them. They seem to think women who show more skin are "dressing wrong" or "being slutty."

I'm not sure if this is just me/a coincidence, or if it's actually a common pattern that exists in a lot of places. Which is why I'm asking.

If it matters, I myself would usually dress something in-between the two photos. Like a t-shirt and shorts that are closer to knee-length. Though I occasionally may adopt the style shown in the photos as well, depending on the weather.

I would definitely hide it, people already treat me like trash because they think I’m better off then them, if I became better off than now, I get even more enemies.

So last night I met up with boyfriend, we were supposed to spend the night & Saturday morning / evening together.

Unfortunately my brother (paramedic) got called into work & he was supposed to help our father with an appointment on Saturday morning. Dad is disabled so us kids take turns on who goes with him to appointments as we're both in the medical profession.

I told my boyfriend this & apologized a number of times for the short notice. I told him you know I'd have to not stay the night but we can continue on with the rest of the plan for Saturday.

Anyway come the morning he's left where he was (he comes from another city, was at a hotel). He didn't even bother telling me he was leaving or saying goodbye. I only learnt about it by asking what was he doing & a text back of "driving".

He said he was annoyed & had woken up at 4am with "nothing to do", etc. Honestly, in all the back & forth, it seems all he cares for is the sex (why else leave)

Yes I get it but honestly it was a minor situation on my side. It's not like I waited until he was asleep after having sex & walked out on him... he knew why I left and had been okay with it that evening (he'd agreed to Saturday).

.

I won't be involved with him much beyond this. I am not someone who takes kindly to emotional manipulation / abuse which, in many ways, his antics are.

So olivia and the gang are looking for a black rapist. Nice, thicc looking white lady is heading home and this kid in the dark (like me but I don't wear a hoodie, i walk in the dark) is approaching her. She tells him to get back, and she claims he got about one foot close to her before she "defends" herself by shooting him. Police get there and the kid is out cold and lady is holding the gun.

So, here's the game. You asked this kid if he wants something, he says nothing and you can't see his headphones. He enters your personal space by pushing the gate separating you two and now he can practically touch you. Sooo, how you gonna handle this?