Polls: Girl's Behavior

Context : My friend and I are arguing, I feel like she's settiting higher expectations aswell as not taking this seriously. Below are 2 texts.

Me:"Okay so I know Ur busy and I know that u can't respond all the time. I also understand that u don't want deep convos all the time and I get that. However I can't be understanding to the point that I ignore how I feel. I feel that we do only talk when u have a college question or issue. I feel that when I speak about "chill" things that u don't want to ask me more. I know that everyone should priorize themselves but at the end of the day if everyone did and I'll use an example :like a road with a give way sign, if no one let the cars into the road and put others first then we would all be in a traffic jam. l think my point is that sometimes Ur too wrapped up in Ur stuff to be aware enough that other things are going on too. I think we do have polar opposite views and that we are at different stages. But it goes beyond that, you need to improve from the inside out too. I think my points are valid and that if I do make mistakes I own up to them, this isn't one of them. I think u need to reflect "

Her:"Like it is valid I haven't been saying they haven't been but I just say my views and how it think it's been a long time since I haven't been able to be who I am and just changed and I really like this me not being a kiss ass or scared to sac speak to someone. Like I'm Not to the point of not acknowledgingp ppls feelings it cuz I don't want to deal with it and don't care and domt hv the time to care or just don't care in general nothing personal I just don't atm but it's still valid. I don't think I hv set expectations like I've just been having convo with u like doesn't mean u hv to look into it deeply. Like nothing for me rn is deep and don't want to think about it. Like I haven't feel like it has changed and idm cuz I don't feel like anything has chnage and we can still just talk about anything literally idm"

I think most women around me would consider any guy even a year younger than her as a "little brother" and not consider him as a possible love interest.

Do you find yourself ruling someone out when you find out he's actually younger than you? Say, 4 or 5 years younger

It's obviously not my fault. Nothing is, as I'm a woman.

So Don Lemon of CNN got sent to sensitivity training for saying that a woman has a "prime." When do you personally feel a woman is in her prime? VOTE BELOW!

So back story, This childminder was recommended by an another mum at my nursery so i asked her to childmild while i had a night out, when I was going through everything she refused to use my bottled breast milk and said either from her own breast or formula milk.

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Should a woman exercise her options in her youth. Should she have experiences. If single, should she flirt with the men she’s attracted to. Knowing that attractive men don’t tend to settle and stray away.

I’ve gotten responses of all sorts.

(You’ve dodged a bullet)

(You missed out)

(You didn’t take a chance at something fulfilling)

(You’ll regret not going out with him forever)

( You’ve avoided STDS from Chad )

( He’s just gonna use you )

It goes back and forth, back & forth… and no clear answer, it’s so confusing. What do you suggest. Do you regret turning down some of the most favorable men? 🥺 Cause right now I’m regretting turning down some of the most favorable men who asked me out 🥺