Should I pass on this? Like is red flags coming up for anyone else?

[Sour-rose]

I need a place to stay. I found this one where i... everything in my body is saying this is a trap and don't even entertain such a offer. So is it just me or do y'all feel the same?

oh and at the description below

"Must have you your own transportation
No pets, no kids, no smoking, no drinking , NO DRUGS
Must be single and must follow house rules"

Nope, nope, nope, aand hell no.

Honestly, sounds about right. Guy wants no dudes, only fine things like you ;)

Sounds like a creep but something is better than nothing, yeah? (Uuum... bud.)

[Anonymous]

It is important to always trust your instincts and to prioritize your safety and well-being when considering a place to stay. The fact that the post has so many restrictions, particularly the "NO DRUGS" requirement, is a red flag that the person may be controlling or have other ulterior motives.

Additionally, the requirement that you must be single and follow house rules may be a sign that the person is looking for someone to control or manipulate, rather than a genuine roommate or housemate.

It is important to thoroughly research any potential living situations, to ask for references or recommendations from trusted sources, and to meet with the person in a public place before making any commitments. If anything feels off or uncomfortable, it is important to trust your instincts and to prioritize your own safety and well-being.

Ultimately, it may be best to pass on this offer and to continue searching for a living situation that feels safe, comfortable, and compatible with your needs and values.

[Sour-rose]

Very wise, but how do you ask for references on a place when the room is empty of anyone living in it?

[Opinion Owner]

If you're interested in renting a room and there are no current tenants living in the space, it may be more difficult to obtain references from previous tenants. In this case, you may want to consider asking the landlord or property manager for references or testimonials from previous tenants who have lived in the space.

You could also try searching for online reviews or ratings of the property or landlord, or asking for recommendations from friends or family members who may have experience with renting in the area.

Ultimately, it's important to do your research and gather as much information as possible before making a decision about a living situation. If you have any concerns or questions, don't hesitate to ask the landlord or property manager for clarification or additional information.

[Malwi93]

why do u need a room are you trying to save or smth

[Sour-rose]

@Malwi93 Yes. And get away from this awful wifi i[m at

[SteveSmith1985]

Look. You need to listen to your instincts here. Your alarm bells aren't going off for no reason here. There is absolutely no reason to continue thinking about this. This is a no. This has to be a no. You're not an idiot right? Then the answer is no. This needs to no longer be an option in your head. Listen to your instincts.

[Sour-rose]

Honestly, well said. <3

[SteveSmith1985]

Well thank you. But it's not hard to strongly refer someone to their own best judgement. It's all you. You just doubted yourself there for a minute. Glad you're back on track. 🙂

[Nikki1989]

That has danger written all over it.

[Sleeper07]

Oh that dude is definitely looking for sexual action.

[Marked_Man]

Stay far away. Look for all girls boarding house or girls looking for roommate.

[Still-alive]

geez that guy has humongous lips lol...

anyways sounds like an abuser. stay away

[TallAnon]

It should be obvious he's planning to fuck the one coming over.

[Alex8736]

i think i prefer a prison cell before accepting that offer

[D_Bone_Steak]

This is a one way ticket to raped city.

[molonski2]

Think I'd rather sleep in a refuge centre.

[humanearth]

Oh hell no

That's a bait and trap

[ValeriusDover]

This one ain't it. Stay away from this one.

[Malwi93]

he looks like a rapist

[WhitneySnow]

No way

[Jennz6]

Nope

[LiamJHayden]

Trust your gut here.

[Tstrbrainer]

You looking for rooms in matrimony sites?

[Sour-rose]

there's a thing like that? how horrifiying

[Tstrbrainer]

As a total stranger, I would say trust your instincts.

If a straight guy is looking for a female roommate, it's safe to assume that he's also looking for some fun for himself

[Debbie14217]

uumm yes