Would you blame a girl's weight insecurity on men or women? Why or why not?

[Anonymous]

Men

Women

[FunkyMonkee]

Who else makes and buys al those goofy women's fashion magazines that present to them what THEY think women are SUPPOSED to look like, according to them, instead of what women REALLY look like? Who else thinks they have to impress other girls and look like all those Photoshopped supper models?

[Asker]

That's why I think women return the favor, but in a worse way! By pretending to care about height, something you can't even change!

[Asker]

Is that why you think women objectify men based on height? Vengeance?

[FunkyMonkee]

Is that what I said? Is tat what we're even talking about? What does one have to do with the other?

[Asker]

I'm saying that I think women don't actually care about taller guys. They're just being vengeful because they think men care so much about their weight (and height) as well.

[loveslongnails]

Men are likely to make a bigger point out of weight than other women, from what I've observed. That said, any insecurity is yours alone. You own it. You nurtured it, you fed it, you fought to keep it, no matter what anyone else says. Other people can throw bullshit at you and try to convince you you're "less than", and yes I know, if you've heard that all your life, it's difficult not to believe it. But there comes a time when you have to stop believing it if you did.

[FireGodGoesSeeknFire]

Certainly not heterosexual men. The thin ideal comes from the fashion industry and is against the natural preference ls of most men.

[sheenagwapa]

i amstuck because of a ficking asdhole so yeah i blame men

[DarkLegacy]

LMFAO

[Asker]

So I guess that's why many women like you lie about caring about men's height.

[Asker]

Well that's hypocritical because women care just as much about a guy being overweight. Probably even more so.

[Nikki1989]

People bring insecurities onto themselves. Blaming others is just weak.

[Skylarlight]

It can be bother but it really just depends on who made a comment to them

[opheeowlscout]

I chose men because of influences in my life, but women also contribute a LOT to this insecurity

[Anonymous]

Women. Specifically her! To be alive is to be judged. If she hasn't found a way to deal with that then the problem is with her.

[BarryLiverstone]

Neither

[Asker]

How is that even logical?

[Asker]

Then what's the reason?

[Asker]

It has to be men because they are the ones that are attracted to women. Same with vice versa and a man's weight insecurity.

[BarryLiverstone]

People own their insecurities. Can’t blame groups for them

[Asker]

Ok I should've clarified. You took the question literally. By "a girl's" I meant "women in general".

[Anonymous]

On women.