What would be the reason why women wouldn't want to sign a pre-nup?

[marish01]

The fear of not getting his money after divorce

Their man not believing love lasts forever

Your variant

[Unit1]

This is a very good question. This question makes me ask myself "if its supposedly not about the money that women object to a prenuptial agreement, do women Even love and respect their man and his concerns and fears related to being one more case of losing his money when forever today has lost its meaning in the future?". In societies filled with males using women merely for sex and females being skilled in pretending to be in love in order to get to men's money it is uneasy to distinguish who is in it for the real deal.

[abc3643]

Ask that same question in quotes that you wrote, but to the man asking for the pre-nup.
I'll answer it very directly: He doesn't love her, period.
If he loved her, he would have no fears of her.
If you do not understand this, then you have not yet been in love.

[Anonymous]

I figured it's offensive to them, their man being mindful of the fact they might not be together forever when theyre supposed to be hopeful they do stay together. Which, in my opinion, is understandable. But I think you can be mindful of a break, and hopeful of happily ever after. I do think prenups are a reasonable thing to do and I'd hope my future wife can understand and put emotions aside.

[Opinion Owner]

Of a break up*

[marish01]

After divorce women don't hesitate to take their ex husbands' money lol

[KrakenAttackin]

I think divorces should be pre-funded just like a college savings plan. Upon marriage a certain amount would be put in an account in the woman's name every month, and properly invested. This monthly amount would be agreed upon by both parties. Should they divorce, all she would get is whatever is in the account. Period. Full stop. If they don't divorce, she can draw the assets out and contribute toward whatever. But bottom line is she only gets the assets in the account.

[Anonymous]

Because they understand that divorce is essentially the lottery for women.. If they sign a prenup, they get no pay check when the inevitable divorce, which they will initiate, happens. Bottom line, unwillingness to sign a prenup strongly suggests they are a gold digger.

[Sleeper07]

Because they're interested in what the man has instead of who he is. This is predominantly the biggest reason, they know they're not attracted, and down the line want financial security from a guy.

[TrueConfection]

I'd say both of those things. I know I wouldn't benefit financially if my husband and I divorced and many divorced women do end up in public housing and on some sort of public assistance.

[marish01]

But that doesn't benefit divorced men. It makes perfect sense why men want to sign pre nup

[TrueConfection]

I agree, it makes perfect sense why men would want a pre nup.

[KrakenAttackin]

Tough shit. Do better in your marriage.

[TrueConfection]

@KrakenAttackin Hey! It's the Kraken! 😂😂😂

[OfMiceandMen]

A prenup protects both parties, so not sure why a woman wouldn't want to sign it. It could be worded to cover her assets, also. Prenups are not just one-sided these days.

[Anpu23]

The biggest argument I have heard against a pre-nup is it's assuming a divorce. That the person proposing it isn't fully committed to the marriage and is assuming the worst. The heart isn't always practical and the document is a practicality.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Anpu23. Are you shitting me?

[Anpu23]

@KrakenAttackin nope that's the argument that is most common.

[genericname85]

because she plans to fuck him up financially which a pre-nup would prevent her from doing.

[motownplayer2000]

Because they want half the man’s shit.. mostly they want to be taken care of in a relationship. The guy doesn’t matter usually. It’s rare you find a girl that wants to be with a man just because.

[LiamJHayden]

Could be either, or maybe she is simply offended at the idea.

[KrakenAttackin]

Even prenups don't mean anything if she says she "was pressured" into signing.

[Ms_Facesitter]

A combination of the two.

[notwoke]

because women are in it for the money

[normalice]

No one knows the future.

[AmeerX]

It's mostly about money