Does it matter to you guys if a girl has uneven breasts?

[Anonymous]

Does it matter if a girl has uneven breasts? But not like a small difference but like 2 cups size difference? Cause i feel like it does matter. I have uneven breasts and the one is 2 cups bigger that the other... I am scared to get intimidated with a guy that i am in a relationship with, because he might find out and i dont want that because i feel like when he finds out, he will be horrified by it or even disgusted by it and wouldn't want to do anything with me because of that..
Also what would you do if you had a girlfriend and she had the same breasts as me? How would you react? And what would you do?

[trentbent]

Seriously, no. Because I know it's impossible and like we can't even imagine boobs no matter how hard we try, they're all different which is what drives us so crazy and makes it hard to stop sweating girls on the street even if you're with someone you love lol. so we're not like 'damn that's not the kind I was hoping for', maybe there is this awareness that the girl might be self-conscious or feel embarrassed about it. I had a girl who was super flat chested and she apologized when I first took off her shirt and it nearly crushed my soul and made me cry like, baby your flat tits are so fuckin beautiful and you smell good wtf. I've never been with a girl who had identical boobs. They're like snow flakes ya dig?

[trentbent]

And I noticed you said about 2 cup sizes and that's your specific question. You will need an understanding kinda guy, but like, in the long run, hopefully, you'll benefit from this, because you don't want a guy whose not understanding and would diss you for your natural body anyway. tbh I'd be happy with the variety. I'd be super into your bigger boob one day, and the next day I'd let the smaller one fit right into my hand. Sorry to use the word 'you', I just mean like hypothetically. A sense of humor might help more than shame, ya know. If it really makes to depressed you could have surgery, but I strongly encourage you to accept who you are and you will be happier. Sorry, I can go on and on with my preachy answers. And then replying to my own answers because you can't edit on this website lol. Be love, girl. Peace.

[Asker]

I feel like if i find a guy who is understanding and sweet and i feel comfortable about opening up about the subject and i really like him have been with him for a long time i feel like when i tell him he will be "no i won't mind, its okay, its a natural thing" and when i do show him he will be horrified and "run away" and show me a whole new side of him...

[trentbent]

Only one way to find out.

[Asker]

Its hard enough to tell a girl about this. Telling a guy would be so much harder

[trentbent]

You're right. You should just give up and never try. There are a lot of good books! You can never read them all. Them's the breaks, kid.

[OldDinosaur]

Real men don't think like that. Let me explain how the male mind works.
left breast A (Yeah baby) and right breast B (Hell yeah)
left breast C (Oh yeah) and right breast F (I love you?)
left breast B (Hell Yeah) and right breast G (Will you marry me)

That's how we think especially if we have feelings for the woman.

[Asker]

From what i see you are older and you think more maturely than guys my age. (Im 17) I dont know.. its hard to believe that guys think so. Cause i always hear guys talk about breasts looking big and perfect and just only that. So i really find that hard to believe. But it can also be that i am more insecure about this and i feel like everything will go downhill..

[OldDinosaur]

By the time you hit your early twenties I guarantee you will meet men who will think like that. Boobs are great but a woman and more specifically a person is whole lot more than just boobs or a body part. You are a young lady. Your going to go through all that insecurity stuff. Boys do it too.

[Asker]

I know.. but wouldn't the guy prefer if they were more even? To just have a girl with "normal" beasts?

[ybenax]

My girlfriend has uneven breats and oh my god... she turns me on so bad. There’s stuff I like and she sending me nudes <3 , so yeah, I guess it depends on the guy but some of us feel lucky of having a girl that feels that natural with us.

[swirls]

When you let a guy get you naked, he really won't care about that, he'll just be like yay :D

[Asker]

Its going to be the first thing he sees.. And he won't be all ''yay''

[swirls]

Of course he'll be excited, don't be silly.
If you have a guy who cares about you and genuinely likes you, it isn't just sex, then he DEFINITELY won't care.
But honestly, if a guy is going to get to have sex with you, he really won't care, he'll just be happy he's getting some.
You could always keep the lights off if you wanted to.
All of our bodies are different, even some guys have 1 ball bigger than the other.
A guy will not get you naked, see your breasts and want to stop what he's doing. And he most definitely won't be horrified either, it's a minor thing. I know it doesn't seem like a minor issue to you, but don't worry, it is a minor.

[Anonymous1122435]

I don't think so, at least I wouldn't. No ones perfect and all boobs are uneven. Maybe a bit more in your situation.
But I guess it's okay, for me.
Just post some pictures and I can judge better. lol jk :)

[elbena]

My girlfriend has uneven breats (she’s 18) and oh my god... she turns me on so bad. There’s stuff I like and she sending me nudes  , so yeah, I guess it depends on the guy but some of us feel lucky of having a girl that feels that natural with us 😖💕

(posted this with another account as a girl first cause as soon as I seen this I had the urge of answering and picked girl instead of guy by accident xD )

[Anonymous]

At first I though the question was asking about an uneven number of breasts, like 1 or 3 or 5. I did see a picture once of a girl with 3 breasts, the third one being in the middle. I'm sure she had a hard time finding a bra in the stores.

[Asker]

No its not about uneven number of breasts its about the size difference of my breasts. That they are not even. Yes i know no girl/woman has even breasts and one can be different that the other but i am talking about 2 cup sizes of difference..

[Opinion Owner]

It wouldn't bother me. In fact, I might like 2 different sizes on the same girl. That could be really awesome. You really have nothing to be scared of. You are the way you are and you obviously have things about you that are different and special, to be appreciated. If a guy finds your different breasts a turnoff and he's not interested in you, great! You just eliminated someone who you really don't need anyway. You really need a guy who likes you 100% the way you are.

[truthbeknown]

It wouldn't disgust me, or turn me off, but I love boobs. Would you be insulted if I offered to help pay for surgery?

[Asker]

I wouldn't i think.. because its something i want to do so i can feel more confident about myself and so that i won't have to worry about them being uneven most of the time

[truthbeknown]

I think any guy would love you no matter what, but if you both can be happier and more confident about your body with a little surgery then go for it! Pretty common and safe medical procedure too.

[Asker]

I have thought about it a lot but i also seen a lot of people judge girls/women who had breast surgery and most of the time they where not nice comments and it makes me feel unsure. But then i dont want to live the rest of my life on how the look and how uncomfortable i feel.

[truthbeknown]

Your case is 100% legitimate reason for surgery. Just don't get triple D's and you'll be fine!

[Asker]

Oh god no. If i did get surgery i would choose a size that isn't too small but isn't too big either.

[llorando]

Doesn't bother me on bit as long as it's not like one breast really small and the other breast really huge like your looking at a baseball and basket ball side by side.

[Asker]

Well the left on is a full b cup and the right one is a full DD cup... So i guess it would bother you..

[llorando]

I doubt it would bother me. Their are massage techniques you can do to transfer fat form other parts of your body to your breast. mustgrowbust.com/.../an-all-natural-fat-transfer-massage-technique

[Asker]

I dont think that really works cause if it did then girls like me wouldn't have surgery but they would do this instead

[CasaNorba]

dont all women have uneven breast?

but oh well if its uneven to a major extend then i would find it kinda weird but its not a deal breaker

[Queenofdasrot1414]

All women do.

[Asker]

Yes all girls/women have slightly or more noticeable uneven breasts but im not talking about that.. im talking about hole different cup sizes.

[interraciallove]

Hell no, boobys are great no matter the size difference , pluss a guy would have to have to have microscopic vision so notice such

[Asker]

He wouldn't need a microscopic vision because the left on is a full b cup and the right one is a full DD cup.. So he would notice it..

[interraciallove]

Oh that is noticeable. I don't believe he wouldn't be that shallow.

[Asker]

Well i wonder about that too..

[interraciallove]

y'all gonna make it. Were stupid about different things but I can't see that being an issue

[Keyspirits]

If u dont care about uneven ballz, than maybe we might not care about uneven breast.

[Asker]

I dont care if the is a difference but it might be easier to "hide" uneven balls than "hiding" uneven breasts. And the reaction of the other person. And yes maybe the uneasy feeling might be the same.

[Keyspirits]

Lol its easily notice when u go down on a guy. If u think it matters, than isn't it the same for guys?

[Asker]

Well yes it could be. But i do believe its more noticeable on a girl. A guy can "hide" his uneven size with pubic hair and well his underwear. But a for a girl its harder. She has to find a good bra for the big one and then find a way to fill up the small one. And when you can't find the right bra it can get so emotional cause you can't wear want you want and maybe nothing fits. Then she can't wear tight tops. And when summer time comes and you have to find the right swimsuit it is the most horrible, sad, depressing and stressful thing ever. And if u do find one you feel then same emotions cause u always worry if anyone noticed or if it "even"

[Keyspirits]

If uneven ballz doesn't matter to u, than im sure sum guys won't mind it either.

[jacquesvol]

If I like the girl, that's really of secundary importance.

[Anonymous]

Of course not. Unless the guy had some OCD or something

[rodcassidy]

It's not that big of a deal