Why does he seem to hate me all of a sudden?

[BrunetteBabe1005]

It really is hurting me. I feel like my guy friend hates me all of a sudden. He has seem moody and disinterested. He hasn't called or texted me, so I was goofing around and texting him, saying funny things and he said he was "annoyed" he barely texted me then I was telling him how depressed I was about how everything is going in my life and he didn't respond. He doesn't seem to care and that's all I got from the text convo and him recently.

He would always try with me constantly. Trying to kiss me date me, whatever he tried and I denied, but I love him as a friend. So I don't know if he feels like I toy with him? And he's getting fed up? I asked him if he's angry with me and he denies it, but yet he doesn't treat me well. Do guys do this girls if they feel like they are being toyed with? Or is it something else? I told him I was sorry if I hurt him in anyway and he didn't respond. It just hurts me cause I don't understand.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I know one girl who I had crush on she would do things like you
i was so in love with her i wanted her so bad it came to the point
i would fake my death on her... I can guarantee you the guy friend
doesn't hate you he loves you and could be crushing over you
but he needs to control his self he is in deep over you seriously
I've done this same exact thing and finally had to man up

Some girl used to hang out with me, she would flaw her self turning me on
but she was teasing me I really loved her too , her name Richelle
when she teased me very mean i would be depressed , i would give
her the silent treatment and she would cry it was so horrible when
i loss contact with her i felt like i was dying inside also Richelle showed
me her hairy P**y turned me on i loved it and i liked her camel toe too

But you see what we do to each other in relationships whether we
are best friends, lovers , etc but all these girls were just female friends
nothing more than that no sexual contact some tease that was about all

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Oh my I am so sorry about that! I feel you on that. I don't like to toy with him though, it's just I love him so much as a friend and it's hard for me to let go of the bond we have. I feel really really bad if it's because of rejection. That's the only thing I could think of, I really don't know he could just hate me cause he hates me for all I know, cause he won't tell me why he's upset with me but that's the only logical reason I could think of. I'm sorry those girls did that to you buddy! Sometimes I think girls don't realize what they're doing. I know I don't. LOL! I am sorry about the hairy cameltoe and puss comment hahaha, oh my! Haha. But thank you for commenting! :))

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're welcome:)
i hated i was teased i wanted feel and taste ooo god i'm starve
for hairy kitty ( Hey sorry for TMI don't mind me i like like)
Sorry i am Bipolar today for sure i do apologize hahha

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I do agree these friendships can get deep for us all

[BrunetteBabe1005]

LOL! Hey we all have our Bi-polar moments, haha, no worries! :) And yeah I guess this friendship will end, but it hurts me a lot cause I really do like him and it would feel like im losing something great in my life. But oh well. Thank you and I hope some kitties comes your way buddy! lol.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're welcome and hope things get better for you:))

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Thank you :)

[HandsomeRaj]

1. More than hurting him, his acceptance is hurt
2. It's only natural for someone to feel 'toyed' with when they mention their preference while you go the other way. Even though you've not led them on and it's wrong of them to perceive it that way, it's a common way of feeling things which most people will say that guy's right but don't believe them ;-)
3. He just wants you to be with him the way he wants it to be, your feelings not taken into consideration. He may not even realize the latter
4. On the other hand it's judicious and prudent of you not to follow him cause you like him as a friend cause in that case you become the former as described in point 2 :-)
5. Here either he thinks you will give in the way he wants if he abstains from you or that that's his way of not hurting himself by being around you. But if it were the latter he won't state that 'he's annoyed' :-)

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Yeah I see what you mean Raj! I am just upset cause I do love him and I would date him, but he's a little bit of a womanizer and I have way too many guys who are like that lol. I am not into that, so I would rather just have him in my life than to not have him at all. I wish he would communicate with me and tell me why an how he's feeling, and if he is angry with me. I just feel really bad and honestly the rejection thing is an assumption, I have no idea what he's really mad about. That's the only logical thing I can think of why he would be mad at me cause nothing happened, so I don't know what his problem is and it saddens me. You do have good points, but it still upsets me. I am still upset cause I considered him to be my best friend, and it would feel like a total loss if he drifted out of my life. Oh well. I guess I brought that on myself. Thank you!

[HandsomeRaj]

Well young lady you sure seem to attract a lot of bad boys around - fact is I'm a bad boy too lol and here we are albeit on a different level. Some things are best accepted in life, this well may be one those lol but that's on a serious note.

Well young lady guess you need to make up your mind on how you want it with him. Expecting him to change completely isn't practical. Maybe changing your expectations to an extent may help.

He's probably not going to hang around you cause your disallowing him when he tries to cozy up to you or not responding when he says 'I love you' can be quite a bit messing with his head too :-)

[Anonymous]

Yeah... Im a girl and I've been crushing on this guy for a couple of months now... He found out but nothing really changed between us... Be would tease me and be so cheerful around me.. He would look at me a lot and woild always find some reason to mess with me.. I found out that his friend, who transfered, started to like me and the guy started acting different.. Not too different, he would still tease me and look at me.. But i found him avoiding me at times ... just recently he started to be really mean to me and would avoid as much eye contact as he could... He avoids me all the time... one day a couple of weeks ago he asked my friend for a dollar and she told him to ask me... N he goes “i dont want to ask her" its like he find every reason to not talk to me... He would even give me annoyed expressions when i haven't done anything to him!!!

[CrazyMinta]

He likely doesn't want to hurt himself anymore. I know its hard for us girls to understand, but guys more likely then not only spend time with you because they likely and think that at some point you will give him a chance. This guy clearly gave wich I don't blame. Imagine being with a person and wanting to be with them in the same room and having to resist all the time. He likely is just trying to move on...

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Yeah :( But I wish he would tell me so I know why. I will respect his decisions and I will respect him if he wanted to distance himself form me cause he's hurt by me. It hurts for me but oh well, I can't be selfish, but I think what's bothering me the most is that I really don't know. It might not even be about the rejection it's just that that's the only logical thing I can think of why he is angry with me, cause I can't think of anything else that set him off. He just might hate cause he hates me for all I know. It sucks. I just wish he would communicate with me. Thank you for your input! I udnerstand! :)

[googlyPanda]

I have the same problem as BrunetteBabe1005 and this sounds like the most likely explination... will he ever talk to me again? what should I do to make it better?

[googlyPanda]

This is my EXACT situation, I mean EXACT, every little detail. But if crazyMinta is right... then what should I do? will he EVER talk to me again?

[Mooooo]

He's just mad that you rejected him that starts ending friends. If you wanted to say some thing that you know he'll say could've said I feel like our friendship is good id want to lose you as a friend he would understand. Guys handle rejections in different ways. But being nice and kind makes it smother

[BrunetteBabe1005]

smother or smoother? I tried to be nice and I asked if he's mad at me, and/or hated me and he say no, but yet he treat me like crap so it makes no sense at all. I see what you mean but it's just an assumption that he's mad at being rejected, cause I really don't know, it's just the rejection thing is the only logical reason I could think of why he would be mad at me but who knows he might be mad at me by something else for all I know. But thank you for your input! :))

[NerdInDenial]

He's definitely frustrated with you; he doesn't want to be just friends with you. This friendship will end because he wants something more, but you don't. Just being friends will not work for him.

[BrunetteBabe1005]

I don't understand though. I don't understand why he just can't tell me that? He denies that he hates me or is angry with me yet he treats me like crap. It just hurts a lot, and it seems like he has a girlfriend, so I don't know he would be so upset anyways. Unless he just generally hates me. Who knows. But thank you for commenting! i appreciate your input! :))

[PhoebeCaulfield]

He is f**king with your mind and you are falling for that tactic.

[BrunetteBabe1005]

But why would he want to do that? :(

[JgMvp12]

Maybe he likes you more than just a friend & he's pissed bc of the guy you're currently banging. This is just a Random guess but I've been the hated guy being slammed by dudes girl/friend