He kissed me and then left me confused, why?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy in my class, he kissed me for the first time a couple of weeks ago but since he acts as if it never happned because he hasn't brought it up. However, he still flirts with me and always looks at me. He doesn't have my number because he never asked for it and I don't know what to make of any of this. Should I just leave it alone?

(The kiss was a french kiss and there is physical contact when we flirt)

Updates

+1 y

We "made out" again and after we did, he told me that he's not a good guy and he doesn't want to hurt me. If that was the case, why bother kissing?

[faruine]

The same thing basically happened to me. But I gave him my number because he was picking me up and all that jazz. But after he kissed me and we made out, we never brought it up and he didn't technically avoid me after either...

I'd say just ask him to hang out and see how it feels. Go see a movie or do soemthing together alone.. and if he doesn't make a move or if you make a move and he rejects it.. then you know how he feels.

[Painkeeper]

Maybe he just wanted to make you think over him. You really should try to talk to him about it. It's OK being shy, but don't be too shy.

[lightingrod]

It might have been a mistake, you know us boys get carried away in the moment and stuff happens or maybe he feels ya should be dating before he continues to keep kissing you.

[shadowlegend]

Just ask him about it.