Lately my butt has been a magnet towards my boyfriend! Why does he keep doing this?

[Anonymous]

I've been weight training lately and i really can't tell any difference between before and now of how my body is. Other than i am starting to get definition in my thighs and legs plus my arms are starting to have muscles. Yet lately my boyfriend has been touching, squeezing, and slapping my butt like there's no tomorrow. I must say few weeks ago i didn't really have a butt but with weight training -i guess- it has gotten bigger. I honestly dont see it but he tells me it has. Its starting to get annoying that he keeps touching, slapping, and squeezing my bottom because he does it at the most innaporiate times. He does it infront of my friends, infront of his friends. And while i am trying to make a conversation with him sometimes he completely ignores me and slaps/squeeze my butt and walks off. He tells me it feels "jiggly" and it has gotten "bigger" but i honestly dont see it. Is this really normal?

[DivineAliah]

Of course its normal. I have a big ass too. Guys love a little junk in the truck. Its even better if he finds out how well you can shake it 😂. I suppose guys like a nice jiggy ass. No body likes a stiff cardboard butt. It gets annoying I know but he likes it. Sometimes my boyfriend annoys with the whole ass slapping thing. He likes to palm my ass and is fascinated with it because it has that crease underneath the cheeky area. I turned the tabled and started slapping his ass so he knows how annoying it can be. I've concluded that not only doesn't he like it but he hates me smacking and squeezing his butt.

[Anonymous]

Why is this a problem
He's attracted to your butt?
As long he isn't touching other girls butts

[Asker]

I dont have a problem with him touching my butt he just does it at the most innapporiate times. Think about trying to talk to your boyfriend about something important and all he is thinking is slapping your butt and walking away. Think about being in a room full of your friends and family and he constantly smacks your butt like you two are the only ones there. It is embarrassing. Its okay if he does it in private and isn't ignoring me while talking.

[linkywinky]

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[matheus_mb]

Think that it's better if he touches your butt than the butts of other girls. If he's doing it he's feeling much more attraction for you and I think it's a very good sign. However, as you said, it's not good to do it at inappropriate times. Tell him that you don't feel comfortable with thim doing this in the situations you described, he has to understand it that it's not always appropriate.

[Asker]

So the fact that he's been touching me more often means he feels more attracted to me? I have notice he would hold my hands out the blue too. More than before actually. While sitting down he will reach for my hand, while watching tv, and etc.

[matheus_mb]

Yes, it does. I mean that touching the girl we like is a natural thing and the girls should be really happy if their boyfriend does it. So, you should be happy he's doing it, but also he should understand that there are appropriate places and times to do it.

[IAmCluelessToo]

That man loves you so much right now

[Asker]

Haha i dont get what you're saying? He loves me so much because he keeps touching my butt?

[IAmCluelessToo]

He loves you because you've given him something to grab onto and play with

[Asker]

Haha

[theCatcherintheRye]

lmao at the title!
it's normal