Do women really like seeing a mans soft side or was my friend just being nice?

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I have been pretty down recently and my friend noticed and my friended wanted to hang out with me for a day. I never really open up to people but for some reason I did here and I ended up crying in her presence when we went to her house. She kept rubbing my upper arm and put her arms around me and told me she liked seeing me serious and opening up then said she thinks its cute. I was taken off guard and laughed it odd but i felt so weak at the same time.

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Cloud91218

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I personally love it because than I feel like you really trust me and it's nice to see guys with their guard down and than we can be the one they lean on. and it makes for a stronger bond.

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Well were longtime friends and it was like a sibling moment I don't know though theirs that part of me that didn't want to show that.
Cloud91218

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It's for that reason that girls like seeing a guys soft side because we know if you could honestly help it you probably wouldn't but you trust us enough to do that it or at least there is a part of you that needs us... girls like to feel needed too and even sister-brother thing it creates a deeper bond.
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It got weird when she gave me a back rub while I fell asleep I don't know its like I'm theirs that part of that want to talk about it then I hesitate hoping its forgotten.

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Asker

Well were longtime friends and it was like a sibling moment I don't know though theirs that part of me that didn't want to show that.

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Cloud91218

It's for that reason that girls like seeing a guys soft side because we know if you could honestly help it you probably wouldn't but you trust us enough to do that it or at least there is a part of you that needs us... girls like to feel needed too and even sister-brother thing it creates a deeper bond.

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Asker

It got weird when she gave me a back rub while I fell asleep I don't know its like I'm theirs that part of that want to talk about it then I hesitate hoping its forgotten.

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Marialuvsyouuu

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Personally I love when a guy shows his feelings. It is cute and it makes the friendship or relationship stronger when u open up more.

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Well were just friends lol but I felt weak sitting in the arms of a girl knowing I needed help.
Marialuvsyouuu

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Nah girls like helping with that stuff. Don't feel weak.

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Asker

Well were just friends lol but I felt weak sitting in the arms of a girl knowing I needed help.

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Marialuvsyouuu

Nah girls like helping with that stuff. Don't feel weak.

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Ihav2fart

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They like it dude, they don't want a emotionless robot that is me.

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So am I minus that one moment lol.

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So am I minus that one moment lol.

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Mookinsx

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Well yeh, I mean it shows us you have feelings

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I like women to show feelings but I didn't women like to see men open up.

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I like women to show feelings but I didn't women like to see men open up.

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_IMAGIRLSOYEAH_

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Girl love it!

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