Signs a guy likes you but tries to hide it?

[Anonymous]

His late in his 20's - brother in laws younger brother

[genericname85]

if he hides it, there is no way for you to know... the only hints are if he kind of gets nervous if you tell him stuff about other guys or if he is kind of conspicuously nice or rude. but if you are interested you tend to misinterpret stuff anyway so don´t be too hasty about assumptions.

[Asker]

Well he teases me and picks on me sayinv haha but i love u etc. He flirts with me so yea. Caughy hjm looking at me steals glances

[genericname85]

yeah as i said it´s hard to tell if you have feelings yourself. why don´t you just make a move and try to find it out for sure?

[Nicoerr]

Well, that is pretty easy for my

When i like a girl i try to hide it, i can't look at her, talk to her or interact with her, and I avoid her, but maybe it depends of the guy personality...

[LittleSally]

He will avoid eye contact, he will avoid you in general...
These might also just be signs he actually doesn't like you... so...

If he's trying to hide it and he's in his late 20's then that means he doesn't want to be with you. And you should let it go.

[Creeper1o1]

@LittleSally is right.

[GeoffreyCrayon]

Sign 1. He makes it obvious
Sign 2. He tells you
Sign 3. He fucking sucks at hiding it

by the way your info is so vague it's paining my brain to try to make sense of it

[Asker]

His my brother in laws younger brother and he turned 20 last year. Im 18. He stares at me. Teases me and picks on me and calls me names. Also he calls me mate cuzz and bro

[GeoffreyCrayon]

Okay I'm gonna put this as simply as possible. The brother of your brother in law IS ALSO YOUR BROTHER IN LAW. So you're crushing on your brother for doing everything a brother does ie. tease you, pick on you, call you names. He's not flirting he's just treating you as a sister because that's what you are.

[Asker]

Hmm you might be your right

[ArchivalMars2]

Well if he's terrible at it it's pretty much obvious so hey, second if he can't look you in the eye and says he doesn't like you.

[Asker]

Your right! Well he teases me and picks on me. Steals glances. Caught him looking at me but turned his head really quickly. Calls me mate cuzz and bro.

[Metlahead]

A man in his late 20's should have no business with an 18yr old girl. If he does like you, I would find that alarming.

[Asker]

Well it does seem like he is interested. He flirts with me. Teases and picks on me. Finds reason to talk to me. Although he calls me mate bro etc.

[Metlahead]

I wouldn't pursue it if I were you. Seriously.. If you were 28 or 29 would you date an 18yr old?

[Asker]

He just turned 20 last year

[Metlahead]

Oh, well then that is no problem. You said late 20's... All the signs are there, just ask him, don't play games. Games suck, even if he is playing them, just be up front and honest :)

[Asker]

Thankyou and i made a mistake by writing in the 20's i meant his 20 sorry about that. Why would he play games though? Dosent that mean his uninterested? Or he actually likes me but acts like a kid around me?

[Metlahead]

No it just means he is immature. Games are immature. If you just ask him, he can't really play though lol.

[Asker]

Well what should i do in this situation? He is immatue and I don't even know why lol

[Metlahead]

Just tell him you like him...

[Asker]

Nah that would be awkward and i dont know if he likes me back so yeah

[Metlahead]

Yeah, see that is the problem. If he likes you, he is probably thinking the same thing, therefore playing childish games. Blah, so annoying. Awkward? Grow up...

[Asker]

Your right he should grow up and stop acting like a kid. I guess that's how he shows interest by playing childish games which is weird and immature.

[Metlahead]

You don't have to tell him you like him, but you can ask him if he likes you, but then he can still play games, but maybe he won't?

[Asker]

Why is he playing games though whats the other reason other than being immatue and childish? Or thats the only reason i guess and i'll try asking him

[Metlahead]

I would say it's 90% immaturity, and 10% Other things I could not possibly know with such little knowledge of him.

[Asker]

Your right thankyou for your feedback :)

[SavageTruth]

you might try asking him about a different guy, someone made up. if he takes the high road and tells you something like you deserve better - he probably likes you. if he's real and honest or just cold about it, move on

[Turkshboi96]

Doesn't make eye contact
Tries to be distant from you
He would stare at you while you are not looking at it
He gives a smile

[Asker]

Well i did catch him looking at me but he turned he's head really fast, steals glances. Does make eye contact here and there when we talk

[d3f3cted]

if he likes you i dont know why he would wanna hide it, wouldn't he try and show it.

[Asker]

Well it seems like to me he does show in a way like he teases me and calls me names. Steals glances i caught him looking at me and he turns his head really fast. Calls me mate bro and cuzz. He came and sat nect to me and called up his friend saying were going gym tonight were doing legs u dont even know how to squats anr that night he didn't go gym at all. He said but i love u in a teasing way when i said i hate u to him

[d3f3cted]

i guess everyone has different ways of showing it cause i wouldn't go about it that way.

[Asker]

What do you mean "you wouldn't go about it that way"?

[helpman]

I do it qll the time

The only. way to. find it is
he will. not like u taking about other guys in a conversation
and he will try to drop the conversational about that guy towards him and you

[romanguy]

I hide it and no one except my bestie knows it... i am good at this shit...

[Asker]

Do you show any interest?

[romanguy]

I am intrested but i dont show it :)

[Williaaaaam]

he acts all shifty and messes around and stuff

[Asker]

Well his behaviour is close to your answer. He messes around with me. Teases me a lot, i catch him looking at me. He calls me mate bro etc.

[Williaaaaam]

to be fair my answer was not totally serious