What do guys secretly do when they like a girl?

Question

Just curious if guys are similar to girls in this aspect. Does he think about her all the time, reread text messages she sent him, talk to his friends about her, etc? What are some of the things you do secretly that might embarrass you if your crush found out? Nothing sexual please!!!

nickbrick · Accepted Answer

There is the usual look at instagram, reread text messages... a lot. We over analyze everything to the point that it is unhealthy. Oh she said you're so sweet! does that mean she likes you?, does that mean she thinks you are just nice? wait! She wants me to respond with something back! no... she wants me just to smile? Stupid stuff like that. Everytime we see her we want to immediatly run up to her or flee the room. We always pay attention to clothes and hairstyle! Generally we have a favorite that makes you look hotter, cuter, smarter etc. MAybe he will compliment you on a particular style. We always like smiles! Smiles are the best! With my crush I love her smile! Anyway basically you will take up a lot of time in our heads :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

-think about her
-look at her pictures on Facebook
-semi stalk her on fb
-fantasize about her
-look at every little thing she does or says to other people to see if it is different from how she acts around me in order to come up with a conclusion to her feelings towards me

AnggieGirl · Accepted Answer

Everyone is different :) He may be wondering how your day went, what your favorite color is, what he would like to cook you for dinner or how you like your coffee. Perhaps he wants to phone you to say hi but doesn't know what to say so he avoids calling you all together because he is nervous and likes you. As women we are curious about what a guy thinks about us when he isn't around us. But if he is creeping your FB or walking past your house, then I would not give him any signs that ur interested. Even though it can be flattering when a guy is all over us, it can become very scary. There's a type of 'obsess' thats a healthy form but be careful how you choose to find out.

BrokenButBeautiful · Accepted Answer

Once a guy told me before after I texted him goodnight he would just look at pictures off instagram and jack off to them cause he liked me and said I was really hot. xD

tocutetobereal · Accepted Answer

Well one way to see if she likes you or not is if she always looks at you and smiles. I she tries to avoid you she is probably not into you.

TripleAce · Answer

Think about what we normally like and do, how much better it would be with her there. Start listening to sappy romantic songs in hopes that our first date can be perfect.

Her clearly being the highlight of the day, thinking about her at least once before bed and mornings. That's a clear sign

AverageGuy415 · Answer

Well, in my oipinon at least when i like a girl i try to meet her standards, like, Does she like guys who compliment on how cute they are, or are they just too used to hearing that type of compliment... i become interested in a girl easialy if she is smart and looks good, and i keep thinking about her and how she looks amazing and so on, we try to find them on face book.. and etc, jsut met a girl last week... she looks amazing, and i know there are probably a lot of guys trying to go on a date with her so i dont even bother... she looks really smart and i dont think she'll date just any guy, but would be able to date her, So smart so pretty, so understand that sometimes we like you more than any other girl but, you probably get that all the time. So bottom line... We keep thinking about how wonderful you are, how smart, we think about ways to see you again.. and we ask questions about you to anyone who knows you!!!

jokery56 · Answer

personally if i like someone im gonna blabber and get my words mixed up, probably talk really low, try to sound cool and fail miserably. or ill be super silent. if im texting my crush its kinda like the same thing, ill start talking about really dumb stuff that makes no since.

yourfriendforever · Answer

All that you mentioned :p From the texts and thinking about em all the time Browsing their profile on all the social sites possible going through the pictures :) And a lots more

Ryosanada · Answer

I think about her, and what I'd like to talk with her about. I call her just to hear her voice.

Homebakedcookies · Answer

We think about her constantly, we smile towards her when we see her, maybe say "hi" or "hello" after a while to see if we get a good response so we can get a chance to talk to her.

The_Technomancer · Answer

Talking with friends. The closeness of the friends talked to is indirectly proportional to how cocky the guy feels.

Yc2K15 · Answer

I normally give them small gifts or do things that I would do if I were their partner already and compliment her (not too much lol).
Otherwise I would just stop being a pussy and flirt with her obviously and openly.

JackPack · Answer

Just think about her. Worry about what he will say if you have the chance to talk Desperately try not to seem like an ass

bobjonesies · Answer

Well, the "nothing sexual" takes away a decent amount of things we do. We try and conjure up the nuts to ask you out, we think about what it would be like to live with you, we stare at you, etc.

posted · Answer

Think about her now and then I guess. Definitely not rereading her shit.

Ghassan · Answer

Trying to find her favorite interest and try making it his favorite.

Unit1 · Answer

I think about her periodically but I do not do suspicious moves or those silly under-radar signals. Note: I'm currently stabilized and not in love.

rondon06 · Answer

think about her a lot stare at her a lot look at her pics of Facebook  talk to my friends about her jack off while thinking about het

abundantlyrich · Answer

Wet dreams masturbation I'm sure there's more..

Internationalplayboy · Answer

If I secretly like a girl, I walk up to her and tell her, then we can discuss the options later

Klaatu51 · Answer

they'd try to find a way to ask her out obviously

TheCloud2 · Answer

they search her on Facebook to masturbate to her picture

Rajeshmeena · Answer

Always thinking about her blindly and wasting his time and his bright future.

slavekimmy · Answer

They try and fuck her

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NiggaInTheField · Answer

Jack off to their pictures 😂😂😂

Anonymous · Answer

I secretly plot to stop liking her. Usually works.

caesarcnc · Answer

Go diamond shopping.

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