Why does my boyfriend fantasize about me having sex with other men?

[Anonymous]

He tells me he fantasizes about watching another man have sex with me.
Is this a typical fantasy men have? And why?
Does this mean he is bored with our current sex life?

[Anonymous]

My bf is the opposite lol but I tell him that I love picturing him with another girl.
It would be like my own personal p*rn starring my favorite guy :) I think it'd be so hot just to see what my guy looks like from other angles, to see his stomach or back as he's thrusting, to see his face and arms... jsidifnxkskd!!

Its not about wanting him with another girl or cheating on me and watching being a form of sexy humiliation... I just want to watch him do sexy stuff :)))
Some people just like different things, if your guy wants to be cuckholded (is that the term? Cuck'd) in real life that may be a problem if you're not into it, but for most its just a fantasy for them to think about and would be completely different if they actually had the opportunity.

[xxxHolicxxx]

Some people just have (unusual) fantasies. I should talk about it with him. Ask him if he's bored and if he has had this fantasy in previous relationships as well. Just remember that just because it's his fantasy you don't have to do it.

[bang678]

I doubt he's bored with you.
Some people just have those kind of kinks.
If anything, talk to him about it.

[FourTwentyHippie]

nope lots of men share this fantasy... ask him to invite a guy friend over and see where it goes... never pick the guy yourself... that can cause problems

[princessmethteeth]

Does he run an escort business? Maybe he thinks you'd be profitable.

[PistolPetePetite]

Is this a typical fantasy men have? Yes, it is much more common than you think and thats just those that have admitted it (for many others it's a hidden secret)

And why? This is much harder to answer and I would love to hear a psychologist/psychiatrist on the subject. One reason for the escalation in more recent times is the easy access to porn now.

Does this mean he is bored with our current sex life? Possibly a little but it will not be the main factor for his fantasy. On the bright side, should you ever do this in reality, your sexlife with the boyfriend will rock. Males are competitive and he will raise his game not to mention the frequency and passion as he does what they call "reclaiming"

[Anonymous]

I think my ex had many similar fantasies. Where did this originate?

[Tegin]

Lol sounds like he is a pimp