Does anyone think black girls are cute?

Question

I always see guys mentioning how Asian and Hispanic girls are cute/hot. What about black girls?What would be your ideal black girl?Like what hair, skin color, body type, personality, etc?

PennyLane09 · Accepted Answer

I have to say I'm kind of sick of seeing this question...I've seen it rephrased and asked several times in the last few weeks. Maybe it's not my place to answer as I'm not a black girl, but I just wanted to give a little perspective. All women have the potential to be beautiful, they just have to know how to accentuate their best features. Eyes, lips, cheekbones, legs, hair, what have you. And beauty isn't only skin deep...I know I sound like I'm speaking in a lot of cliches but personality is just as important when it comes to attracting anyone, male or female, to you. You could be the most gorgeous woman on the planet, but if you're a complete bitch, people aren't going to stick around. They might initially worship you for your beauty or act as your followers, but if you're a cruel, cold hearted bitch, they either going to split or complain to everyone behind your back. Personality is just as important as looks, you have to be bubbly and fun, or warm and friendly, or a combination of these & other positive aspects to get people to want to be around you. Black women can be as beautiful as any other race, Tyra & Rihanna are gorgeous women, so is ANTM winner Saleshia. Its not just celebrities that can be beautiful tho. I've been friends w/pretty black girls, one of my college roommates was a very pretty black girl, but, she wasn't a very nice person/didn't have a very good personality so she didn't have that many friends. Its not that there aren't cute, pretty, attractive (whatever word you want to use) black girls, it might just be that guys are initimidated by them because of the way that bi-racial relationships have been viewed in the past in different areas, or just personal preference. But remember, looks aren't everything, you should show off your best personality to attract guys as well. :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I get what you're saying. I am like you, minus the long hair and colored contacts. But I am thin (with average sized curves) and speak properly and have been called "white" all my life. My hair is medium-length, straight, and I flip it up at the ends and wear bows in my hair. I am innocent and sweet. This debunks several stereotypes. Despite all this, it seems no one other than black guys are attracted to me, though everyone is nice.

In all honesty, there are a lot of guys who don't mind being friends with African-American girls but they just aren't attracted to them. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Everyone has their own preferences. I myself don't mind befriending black guys, but (unfortunately for my parents) I am just not attracted to them. It's not a conscious decision. What becomes a problem is when a guy assumes all black women are one way so he rules out all. Note to Guys: Just because you have encountered a certain type of personality from a woman (of any ethnicity or color) all your life, doesn't mean there isn't a girl out there who is different.

Birgitta89 · Accepted Answer

I think black women are SO BEAUTIFUL. My ideal woman or man would probably be : smart, sensitive, beautiful, caring, loving, faithful, honest, good smile, has to have respect for her/himself and others, trustworthy, a good listener, passionate, confident, understanding and has a good sense of humor. What if I couldn't smell, touch and see. The only thing left is the chance that my significant other can still make me laugh! The only true charisma someone can have, is the ability to have people WANT to be near you.

Black girl that doesn't like rap/hiphop music, speaks proper English and has long straight hair and blue/green colored contacts = Black girl that doesn't like rap/hiphop music, speaks proper English and has long straight hair and blue/green colored contacts. I personally think black women with their natural beautiful hair, their natural eye color are the most beautiful.

What about white girls that tan like there's no tomorrow?

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nonyabiz2002 · Accepted Answer

Black girls can be just as cute as any other color/nationality.

About a year ago I met a black girl on here (half black I guess, but she says she looks more black). She is an extremely nice girl, very smart, soft spoken, very soft and cute voice, and fun to talk to. And boy have we talked alot! lol

But she told me she thought she was ugly. I am so thankful that she felt comfortable enough to send me pictures of her. And when I saw her pics... all I can say is WOW! Honestly one of the prettiest and cutest girls I have ever known. I really think she's smokin hot. I would be lucky to marry a woman like her.

Her looks bother her, and to be honest it bothers me that she doesn't think she's pretty. And when I tell her that I think she's pretty she doesn't believe me. I wish and pray that she would.

But I am afraid I've messed what we have up. I was being stupid, and said something that I shouldn't have.

Sorry... back to your question lol:

Hair- She has some hair. Prefer straightened or light curls, but "frizzy" or stereotypical "black" hair is perfectly fine too.

Skin color- Does it matter? lol Any color of brown or pink is cute. :-D

Body type- Not obese, but not anorexic. I prefer a nice butt and smaller hips, and breast size isn't nearly as important. But it's certainly not something set in stone.

Personality- She's nice. She's a bit more softspoken, and she thinks about a lot of things. She can be open with me and how she's feeling. Personality is more important than looks.

But the most important thing about any girl is that she likes me.

And really, everything listed above goes for any color/nationality of woman. :-)

(BTW, I"m a "token white guy" lol)

G-Daz · Accepted Answer

i don't think I really have an ideal black girl because it varies. but I love really dark skinned black girls to really light skinned black girls just as much as I like any race of women but I prefer girls that are natural so id prefer it if she had her natural hair but if she was comfertable with it other ways I won't mind. for her body, I can liek them all but its not the msot important thing in the world, if she looks good she looks good, big butt small butt whatever lol. I personally like black girls and there are a lot of guys that also do, it just depends on the person. some guys will not like black girls just based on the stereotype and usually prejudge them based on that without actually getting to know them. it usually isn't anything to do with her being black but more so of what they think she is like. if the girl has a great personality then that is my ideal girl regardless of race. I wouldn't think of things any differently. yes though I think black girls are deffinitly cute :)

Good Luck, God Bless

Anonymous · Answer

i'm a 29 white male 6,2 155lbs from lancaster PA,i love black girls,thats the on;y girl I will go out with I i want a black girlfriend again so bad,i had one and I she was the coolest girl ever,all black girls I've know have been cooler then white girls,but I find black girls so beautiful,i get so turned on,i won't even watch porn if its not with a black girl in ita black girl and a white guy,trust me guys like and want black girls a lot of times there not around or friends with any and to scarred to ask them outmmmmmmm  I like black girls who dress down just tshirt and jeans,and besides that it doesen't matter,well I have to say I go nuts if I see a bllack girl with dyed hair and I don't mean blond any other color,like red green or purple and I like any skin ccolor but darker the better,don't ask me why,i've alwasys found black girls more attractive then any other type of girls,and after haveing one I won't ever want anything else,and any body that is in shape that's another thing about black girls,there body is so stunning if they are in shape,i mean,i'm sorry for going so much into detail...but I have to get it off me,but for me I love and would want a black girl over any other so there is guys out there who think your beautiful,and yes I am a good looking guy who could have a white girlfriend now but I don't want one,i'm on to different interracial dateing sites because I haven't been able to meet any black girls lately,so yes we want you

Anonymous · Answer

In response to the update, I think she's trying to avoid association either to other vlacks in general, or just to what she views as sterotypical blacks she looks down on. Part of how I came to that conclusion is that you mentioned speaking proper English, and hating rap/hiphop which is generally associated with that sub-culture of "thug."

The further people distance themselves from that sort of sub-culture the more admiration I have for them, so honestly, to me I see it as them trying to be something more and I can respect that instead of seeing it how other people might see it (not happy with themself), I don't see it that way at all.

As for the rest of the question, it's not that I'm not attracted to black girls, I just haven't met one that I have been attracted to, most every one I've met either just hasn't been my type, or has had a very poor personality "thug mentality," I think it's probably just the area I've grown up in, it's difficult to find classy people regardless of ethnicity in this area sadly.

Anyways, best of luck to you and I hope this answers your question =)

rocketship · Answer

Get rid of the contacts because you don't need them, the rest is your personal tastes. The long straight hair is fine, most black girls do it anyway. I posted answers to similar questions on here but nobody took them seriously. Most people consider black women to be too masculine. Black features such as a broad nose, thick lips, nappy hair, broad shoulders, thick bones, etc to be masculine traits. Black women have a very masculine bone structure, that's a medical fact. Most women consider black men to be the most masculine based on their physical features, so since black women share those features, they are considered masculine as well. This is why most IR relationships involving black people tend to be ones with black men with other women, rather than the way around. This is the reason why black women are rarely seen in magazines, but black men are advertising Gatorade with their shirts off on every page of any fitness magazine.

BTW, the majority of black women are vastly overweight, look up the stats.

Curlyfries316 · Answer

I LOVE black girls! the ones I like tend to be really dark, curvy and thick is good. (not too heavy though) I don't really like the girls from the "hood" but I have met lots of smart, beautiful, sexy, and funny black girls that make me want to drool! :0 it would be better if she was quieter so our personalities would be similar.

Another good thing is that they seem to like me back 99% of the time. (idk maybe it helps that I have really curly hair for a white guy?)

anyway, I think black girls are a gift from god. THANK YOU GOD!

EarlofPuuding · Answer

The long straight hair and colored contacts is way too far, no thank you and don't come again..

I like a tall darrk girl with C-D cups, no bones poking out. Athletic built with muscles that say I can survive without yoy, but with a nice coating of feminine fat to keep her feminine. I like west african eyes on black girls, like asian but somehow more exotic. Hair gotta be natural nothing fake. Id prefer the education denotes social class type of girl. I prefer Caribbean or African girls. American black girls are nothing special.

OceanLover · Answer

i'm attracted to black girls as long as they aren't "ghetto" lol :) I like classy, proper speaking, kind-hearted black girls. race doesn't matter to me. only the personality and heart.

i think most black girls act like "typical" black girls simply because they've been stereotyped that way. so, unfortunately there aren't very many of them that are original and they just act like how they think all black girls act. if they can be their own person and have their own style then yes, they can be attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

I hate "ghetto" in general and everything about it. I think a black girl who hates rap/hip hop and speaks correctly is just an individual who likes alternative music and was educated about language. Long straight hair and blue/green eyes would make for a very pretty girl too. I personally find some black girls very attractive, until they open their mouths. It seems the community itself can't speak, or refuses to speak properly and it drives me nuts. The little nicknames like "my boo" etc, those are fine. But the whole ebonics thing, doesn't work for me.

SouthernBelle_Britt · Answer

i know this was a question for guys, but I just have to say, I'm kind of peeved that when people ask this question & all the guys say "oh of course, I think beyonce, rhianna, & alicia keys, & keri hilson are very attractive." well of course they are, their image means everything. they are beautiful black women but they don't represent a lot of black girls.

so bds28338, I think it's great that you gave an example of an attraction to a "real" ,for lack of better word, girl.

i'm a black girl & I tend to be more attracted to white guys due to personality mostly. but I find it so hard to find a guy willing to be more than just friends. it just feel really unfair sometimes to have to think wow he doesn't want to be with me just cause to him I'm not as pretty in comparison as some white girls.

i wish some white guys could be more open minded. but.. I do live in the south, so perhaps that's the main problem for me.

bds28338 · Answer

I don't think race has much to do with it. I've been attracted to every type of girl out there, personally I generally swing towards white girls with brown hair, but I've had a thing for a black girl before. It's just everyone's particular taste. I had a black girl in a mathematics class with me who I tutored during high school who I had a thing for. She wasn't the greatest at mathematics, but she tried, and she was extremely cute, and sweet when she wanted to be. I think one of the problems is a lot of the african girls I know have quite the sharp tongue. She had medium length straightened hair, a light to medium skin complexion, she was maybe 150-160 pounds, most in the butt and thighs, and somewhat in the breasts. She just had a sweet personality when she wanted to, she was genuine in the heart, even if she had a vocabulary and temper that could leave you bleeding on the floor.

eSHkidd · Answer

Milky black girls are super fine. Long wavyish dark brown would be best hair. and an athletic, fit hourglass shape body. Personality: just an easy-going, funny, caring individual basically.

And no I don't think any of that is trying to be "white" but I think the colored contacts are too much, eye color doesn't even matter to me and that seems fake. And all that trying to be different races thing is crap. I love rap (and basically almost every other genre) but probably about 2% of all the songs from the rap scene. It has indeed gone really popish, auto-tuned, and "gangster" and all this crap lately. But I really like and respect the true rap artists like Tupac, Eminem, Biggie, Black Milk, and a bunch other. T-pain, Little Wayne and all that sh*t is whack.

Sorry bout the ranting but I like rap and I'm not trying to be "black"

seth_Oscillation · Answer

sh*t that sounds hot. if anything I like my black girls considered "white" if it means their not ghetto.

i f***ing love black girls. I only like them educated, white washed, and/or straight from africa tho.

african girls are totally different than your typical american black girl!

but anyways my ideal black girl is either super nerdy/smart or a bad ass rocker chick

listens to good music like rock, metal, death metal, prog rock, indie, punk, classical, trance, drumandbass, anything other than pop and hiphop. gangsta rap is ok tho. I just hate the tpain sh*t hahaha!

i like rocker hair, cute curls, or just normal straightened hair

i enjoy dark to milky skin

think but with a big butt and nice boobs lol no super ghetto booty tho haha

i like them nice, sweet, caring, but freaky & aggressive in bed tho! XD

hit me up cute black girls! ;)

CakeGirl02 · Answer

To respond to your update with a question, do you think white girls that tan frequently are trying to be black?

Not all black people speak improper English. I didn't know that speaking proper English was construed as trying to be white. Some black people actually have natural blue and green eyes. My sisters were born with hazel green eyes. Not all black women have kinky curly hair either. Black people come in a variety of shades, skin types, hair and eye color like white people.

Would you consider a white woman who dyes her brunette hair blond trying to be "whiter"? I find your question a bit ignorant.

Birchy915 · Answer

I have never met many Black girls, In fact I have only ever met two or three so it's hard for me to comment, I generally prefer smaller girls and from my own experience black girls tend to be quite big, I don't care much for skin colour but I think that darker is generally better, paler Black girls can sometimes look a bit I'll.

I don't like girls who get involved with the whole gangsta culture, I just think it's degrading and it gives black people a bad name.

I also prefer natural hair be it curly or whatever, afro's are cool.

darkknight1x · Answer

There are hot black women but most of them are in rap/hip-hop videos. I've seen only 1 cute black woman and she was in an episode of Two and a half Men. My ideal black woman is

Paula DeAnda and Rhianna. But Cassie (aka Cassandra Ventura) and Ciara are also great. When it comes personality I like a woman that's hyper and spontaneous.

I think a black girl that doesn't like Rap is very odd. If your black and speak proper English then I assume that you were born and raised in Europe. And no, I don't think your being white by having straight hair and green contacts. But blue, would make you look odd.

cjwright79 · Answer

Yeah of course they're cute. Gabrielle Union, Serena Williams, Alicia Keys, Beyonce. I like the vigour and enthusiasm of black girls.

Anonymous · Answer

be yourself. honestly your update makes you sound very ignorant. it's like you are taking media stereotypes of the "average black girl" and then trying to make yourself sound better because "you're not like that". you don't have to perform tricks to be accepted by white people, just be yourself. white guys are not saviors riding on white horses to save the day, they are human guys just like anyone else. there are plenty of black people who do not conform to stereotypes it's not as if it's something new.

Anonymous · Answer

yea check out these  ones.

DeathMagnetic · Answer

It's not race that makes girls cute. Personally I don't get this whole cute asian girls thing. To me it's personality that makes a girl cute. I think it also depends on the guy. To me, very few girls are cute. Some guys aren't 'really into cuteness' there more into how sexy she is. How she holds herself... like if she acts sexy or walks sexy whatever.

Ideal black girl, nice round bum, nice smile. Nice big thighs. I love brown skin, more so than white or yellow whatever. Not really dark, but latin brown. Personality, smart and fun. One important rule though, black girls, don't dye your hair blonde, or with blonde highlights. Black, brown, or brown highlights, great.

Hope this helps

palek · Answer

"The day God made the first black woman, He was just showin' off"! I feel a little bad for all the other kinds of women.

AngelicEchoes · Answer

I am from the Caribbean so yes I am a mixed chick. I am Black, Indian ( India) Ehite, Chinese, Spanish, and Arawak ( a caribbean Indian) I was brought up in a proper house. I am not ghetto, as my friends would put it I am the white-caribbean girl, because non of them consider me black, and well I'm not...

But I don't listen to rap music, unless it is good to dance to. I listen to everything else but rap. I speak chinese, japanese, korean, french, german, hindi, and spanish. Learning them all for my enjoyment. I draw japanese anime, and I make comics. I am the proper child while my older sister is the most ghetto chic ever.

So for those who don't think that there are beautiful and intelligent black girls. You haven't been looking in the right places.

^_^ Have a great day.

Anonymous · Answer

I have seen many cute black girls. I can't give an ideal description because as all individuals are different, beauty comes in different shapes, sizes, and colors. As for the second part of your question, I don't think of a black girl who colors her hair blue/green contacts as trying to be white; I see her as trying to be herself. That's far more attractive to me than someone trying to be who they are not.

gaingreen · Answer

My ideal black girl would be smart. Open minded. She has to have a certain type of body for me. I like lighter skin and not fat not skinny and not a high maintenance girl. And she has to be versatile on music because music is my passion and I can't be with someone who listens to just one type of music.

youngix · Answer

Women of African decent are particularly beautiful; hair, smile, body, skin, talent, mind (especially honesty), creativity, and drive; they usually have it all. Skin puts them on top of the list for me, no other race has such distinct and beautiful skin.

I like brown eyes, but colored contacts are coo. I'm from the hood, so language is not an issue either way, I don't like rap so that's a plus, straight hair is okay but I prefer natural, and you have to explain what "trying to be white" means. As long as it's not like Michael Jackson trying to be white, she's good.

loverorbestfriend · Answer

Hell yea, black girls are cute..i am Indian and I love black girls...what I like the most: luscious lips, big eyes, smooth skin, aggressive personality, I love the big booty, and I like the shape of the black girl's breasts the most (more pear shaped than others).

Toni88 · Answer

a black girl who doesn't like rap, talks properly and has long straight hair doesn't mean anything..its just ur preference. As for the coloured contacts...black people don't usually have such coloured eyes unless ur mixed or something, sooo...that is kinda white

lanis · Answer

i am a cute black girl I never spoke wiht a europen before but they look and smile at me plenty

i was born in the U.S.A. but I live in PANAMA since I was 9 because my mom was born there once in a while I see some but I don't understand them when they say things to me

i would love to meet one

phallus · Answer

Pitch black, big ass but still narrow waist, knows how to smile and  is higly educated and intelligent. Also she needs to know how to take care of her self.

Evil_Muska · Answer

Main things that attract me to black girls are they're typically curvier than white girls, and usually have nicer butts than white girls. Gotta love it!

Michaeldurrant · Answer

Good Question..

Depends on the guy really..

I find Black girls sexy...

But I havnt met any to be honest..

Im sure there are cute/Gorgeous/Beautiful Black Woman

everywhere..

Anonymous user is a fool.. Forgive him for he has no balls...

stevo · Answer

No. I think that if she hates that kind of music, speaks proper english, and does anything else that you mentioned, isn't trying to be white. It's her choice.

jacquesvol · Answer

Asian and Hispanic and black and white girls are cute/hot.

Or not. It depends on the girl.

I'd love to do some "field research" on their cuteness and sexual temperature but my wife has some objections. Go figure why...

PussyDevourer · Answer

Black girls are definitely hot. Hair depends on the girl. I love that they are really curvy. I love thick lips. I love medium skin tone, not too dark, not too light. The personality that I like is the same I like for other races. And I think as a whole girls of all races are equally but differently beautiful.

adroit · Answer

to me the girl and her natrue comes before  looks  do matter  but what actually take more of your time with her is her atitude and style? colour does not change heart? its what within that matters...

SpeakTheTruth · Answer

Well barring some stupid and some racist comments that precede me, some me are simply going to be attracted to black women because of their exterior (e.g. looks, body, skin tone, etc.); but, character and attitude can MAKE or BRAKE an attraction to someone. In other words, besides immature and borderline racist comments, there is no definite answer to this question.

blueandwhitebleeder · Answer

Hell yea,  I love black girls.  My ideal black girl has with thick hips, voluptuous curves, long black hair, and a great smile.  I want her to have a little bit of attitude, but is not annoying.

Anonymous · Answer

" And also if you guys don't mind answering, do you think that a black girl who hates rap/hiphop music, speaks proper English and has long straight hair and blue/green colored contacts is trying to be white? "

- there is no such thing as WHITE its a racial stereotype and it does not exist in cultural anthropology.

do you think a white person is trying to be 'black' if they like rap?

Swampwater · Answer

this notion you have that people are "trying to be white" is really quite sad. it reinforces stereotypes. maybe someone is just being themself?

randomdude89 · Answer

In all honesty I don't and I know like 90% of my guy friends would agree.. Only exception are those that are mixed or light skinned.. but it all depends on the guys really.

Quandary · Answer

My first girlfriend was black. I'm white. Hence, you can conclude I don't mind black girls at all.

And no, I don't think you're trying to be white. I think you're being a black girl who hates rap, has straight hair, and colored contacts.

Anonymous · Answer

all depends on the person. black girls can be beautiful. white girls can be ugly. it's all to the individual. the very fact that you have to even ask this question is all media's fault. media portrays black girls as ignorant, combative, hostile, and manly. it does the same for asian guys- nerdy, bookish, unattractive. go to africa and black girls are most definitely hot. go to asia and asian guys are hot. it all depends.

Xenophobia · Answer

yeah the classy ones are...the ghetto ones can keep sippin on that haterade.

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

of course there are cute black girls! there are cute girls in every race! I'm cute too lol. it's the features that make a girl cute and beauty is subjective.

Seryndipity · Answer

Cute means short stubby and bow legged.. all things I am not lol. All women individually have something about them that would be considered attractive to the opposite sex. But for black/ mixed girls we can be seen as exotic. I prefer the term exotic =) Though a few of us may have abrasive personalities I guess that adds to the mystery.

adrien · Answer

I don't and I talked about it to a few of my friends and they're the same. I guess it depends on the person, but when you make a thread about it there's a higher chance people that do will come in and answer. I like pretty much all except for arab/indian/african.

Anonymous · Answer

well, I saw what that guy deathmagnetic said and I laughed...there isn't a single I met who cares just for personality...im not being a d***, its just human nature..but down to your question..i do like black girls. I really don't prefer any certain skin tone, I like them slender, but not to skinny...sorta just right...and a very good personality. now before anyone calls me a hypocrite...i still need both...body and mind in my girls

chrleebrwn · Answer

are you a black girl?  I dig some black girls...not all.  I'm a Latino man.  Never dated one in my life though one does have a huge crush on me.

candy_41111 · Answer

well guys  I'm loving this and if any of you are singel and live in cincinnati hey, since you love blk girls

Anonymous · Answer

I'm in love with Alicia Keys, so yes. I'm white too.

nextelement · Answer

And they can dance.. Girls that can dance are also good in bed ;)

Anonymous · Answer

Oh.my.god. If I see one more of these questions I'm going to kill myself.

Anonymous · Answer

HELL NO They are the manliest girls I've ever seen other than the paki and mexican girls with mustaches. They are far from cute, but with some exceptions (either because they have white or asian blood).

dtaylor31906 · Answer

to your update  no except for the contacts that's just weird black girls don't have blue eyes lol

Flick · Answer

This makes me happy , seeing more and more interracial couples, I'm lovin it guys ! (:

Anonymous · Answer

black girls are hot  like this girl ->

Anonymous · Answer

in that song "hey soul sister" by train. I am pretty sure he is talking about a hot black girl.

BlackSuperman · Answer

nope- ur just bn yourself... and yeah, Black girls are sexy- just gotta get 'the right one' doe...

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely! They usually have a sexy nose and big boobs that I love.

themoose7772003 · Answer

Yes! Black girls are very hot. I like them lean and athletic. I have always wanted to eat one out!

20Questions · Answer

Black girls all day baby!

Geebster · Answer

I enjoy the black girls that are skinny with the long straightened hair, and educated.Well that's just my opinion, other guys like other stuff.

Does anyone think black girls are cute?

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