Would you consider a bald guy?

[Anonymous]

Are looks all that matter and ones personality means absolutely nothing?

Nature dealt me a card I have hair but balding ish so I end up shaving it, but more often than not I won't leave the house without a hat unless I am going somewhere formal, job interview or something like that. Would I like a full head of hair sure bot more than likely I would still end up shaving probably not as much, and you would not be able to see the line of where hair is and where it well is scared to come out so to speak.lol

I mean looks aren't everything, yet they appear to be so, and ones personality seems to mean absolutely nothing.

[awholenewsetofrules]

It's hard to say to be honest. I would definitely say that you've made the right choice though, by shaving it. I will honestly say that I'm probably not going to find myself attracted to a guy who is "balding ish" as you say. And eventually it just gets worse and worse until I think it looks just plain silly to grow what little hair you do have left. Just being honest here.

I've never dated a BALD guy, shaved or otherwise. But my absolute FAVE hair on guys is super short. Like shaved and then grown out a little or using a small guard to get the look right off the bat. Absolutely HOT. Everytime I'm around a guy with a head like that I can't keep my hands off his head. I just wanna rub it. Drives me CRAZY. That's probably weird but that's what I like. And some guys look REALLY hot totally bald. So I think you are making the right choice and making the most of a bummer situation.

[random-ren]

I think the bald look is sleek and cool. You just need to wear the right things to get it to work for you. Looks are what draw people in, but personality is what makes them stay. If they only liked you because of your appearance, isn't that a bit shallow?

[Asker]

A bit shallow? lol YES very shallow I would say but seems last few years has been my experience is that girls/women are hung up on looks, in fact it seems shallow is all I seem to find, I am a good all around nice guy and I have a personality for whatever reason they don't want to get to know me inside and see the outside and say forget it, but I have been told I am cute/hot/handsome so I don't know, maybe its the fact I am honest as well as much with myself as with a potential gf.

[Asker]

Perhaps it also goes along with they want to lie and play games and jerk guys around but who knows maybe that falls under the being superficial for them I don't know. That's a whole other issue or is it? don't know

[irish-girl-08]

i don't know were your from but if your from england or ireland you will know what hollyoaks is anyway ricky whittle aka calvin in hollyoaks is bald and I mean he is the most gorgeous fella ever all my friends like him and anyone that watches hollyoaks! lol. oh and a fella I know who's my age is bald and he is well fit I don't think he would be nice with hair to be honest so bald is definitely ok once you work it lol

[Belleza]

Did you happen to look at Vin Diesel hey he's bald and hot as hell! Looks are never there to last - personality is there 24/7 whether you like it or not!

[Asker]

Very true but some have a shaved head because they are balding bit of a difference, oh trust me I know personality is there but tons of people are shallow big time not to mention, superficial and materialistic and women as well as I am sure men can't seem to get past looks I have realized people (women especially) are shallow, its really quite ridiculous, they refuse to get to know who a person is and there personality, and yet they wonder why they are single.... whole other story.

[Belleza]

Hahaha....very true - we do question why we're single yea it is cause we're shallow - maybe who knows - there's always somebody for anybody who can get past any looks and materialism and love/like the person for who they are - you never know maybe someday you'll find that woman - good luck in life!!!

[shanie82]

Bald guys are sexy... it all depends on confidence, you have to believe you are attractive and I promise you, women will pick up on it :o)

[SweetestSinxxx]

yeah, if his head is shaved. guys with shaved heads can look hot.