Do Asian guys like White girls? Especially blonde?

[Anonymous]

I'm a blonde girl in a town near NYC, and I'm really into, or even obsessed with, Asian guys (especially East Asians). But I never saw any Asian guys chasing/trying to chase me, although there're a considerable number of Asian guys in my area.

Is it that hard for a White girl to be approached by an Asian? Or let me paraphrase, do they like White girls, especially blonde White girls?

If they do, why I never any Asians approaching, nor knowing any Asians approaching or chasing any other White girls?

By the way, I consider myself to be 7-8/10.

[btbc92]

Yes they do. But many Asians sadly if they aren't open-minded to you will often stick to themselves or people of their own nationality or similar ethnic background. They rarely branch out. And if your don't have a similar personality or mindset to how they think and believe, it may not work out all together. I used to live in the city, so I know. I have a friend who admitted to another friend of ours that he had a crush on me back when we all were in middle school, and it got her jealous because she liked him, but I wasn't interested in dating in the first place. :( I got stuck in a love triangle I wanted no part of. I'm mixed of Native American, Caucasian, African-American and Spanish ethnicities. But I only attract Caucasians, Asians, Russians, Italians and extremely rarely other mixed ethnic people.

[Anonymous]

My brother is east Asian (from beijing) he likes white girls! They are pretty, light skin, tall, big eyes, small tall nose, sharp chin! :) I'm an Asian girl and I also like white guys lol. My family is going to turn white xD My brother's friends also like white girls! :) The reason why you never see them chase you is because mostly they are shy, not the type to just walk and go like "hey your cute" But they will give you some signs that they like you. Just like some animes you see! (But don't compare them with animes)

[Opinion Owner]

Cause in East Asia, the culture is different. Hard to explain. Erase the fact that I said Shy. It doesn't mean they are not confident or shy, it's just the different culture... they try to maintain good reputation. And not to be known as a "playboy" or whatever...

[Asker]

So, if there are some cultural differences, am I correct to suppose that they also have different to express, directly and indirectly, their crush on a person? What are normally the signs that an East Asian man like a girl?

[Asker]

Also, is it just your brother who likes White girls or there are a lot of East Asian men who like White girls? By the way, should I make more initiations to East Asian men?

[Opinion Owner]

Different people are different. But I'm just going to state some culture differences, it depends on the type of guy, they could be quiet, talkative whatever. But I know in east asia, the guys who like you will probably show signs like, constantly glances at you unconsciously, like to talk to you a lot, agree with everything you agree on and dislike everything you dislike. Acts overly nice, or teases you. I don't know the basic signs. But they won't act like a playboy. I don't like Asian guys that much mostly because in my opinion, they all look too much alike and way too feminine, they also act feminine too (not that it's a bad thing though, just in my taste I don't really like that), but one thing for sure that even I have to admit, they have much less chance of cheating on you, so your in luck! But a lot of white girls I know reject Asian guys. So you might have to ask them, when you do, I'm pretty sure they will accept. 80% sure.

[Asker]

Can you shoot me a message? I'm going to sleep, and I feel nice to talk a person who himself is Asian or who has male Asian relatives (like you). Can we talk in the message tomorrow?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure! :) I wish I had more white friends lol. I only have like one white friend at school. (And she likes Asian guys haha)

[Asker]

I don't know who you are since you're anonymous. Would you mind to shoot me a message so that we can continue our conversation tomorrow?

[Asker]

Oops, sorry, I'm also anonymous.
"cuteblondehottie" is my username here.
This is my page.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay thanks! :)

[Opinion Owner]

Actually, I don't know how to add people, so I wil just give you my username, it's BlazeCatGirl

[Asker]

Hey, I just followed you, but you need to follow so that I can message you (because of your privacy settings).

[Opinion Owner]

Okay! I followed you back! :)

[frecklejuice]

I think it's different for every guy. They may not be approaching you because they think you don't like them.

[Anonymous]

Everyone is different and I can't generalize it for sure, but at least I am interested in dating non-Asian girls. I am attracted to all girls -- Asian, White, Black, and Hispanic; however, I've only dated non-Asian girls in the past. I always went for brunettes though.

Asian guys generally don't approach white girls because they are too shy or they have been told many times not to date non-Asian girls. While I am fortunate enough to have my super-liberal parents, not that many Asians aren't. Asian parents are a bit xenophobic in that way.

You should try to talk to people who you find attractive. That might loosen them up a little. If you have more questions, feel free to ask them.

[Tarvold]

We don't mind. Some of us even prefer caucasians.

But the sad truth to the matter is that Asian men have come to experience so much rejection from caucasian females that a significant number of us consider pursuing white women a waste of time.

[Asker]

Okay, if they're reluctant or timid to initiate, normally what are the signs that they like, or at least are interested in, me? And if I can know an Asian guy likes me, should I take the lead first? And if I should, how to?

[Tarvold]

We're guys. Don't worry about "signs" and all that, just walk up to us and be funny. If we're single and we sense that we've got a shot, it's on. Like this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_CZBEA69RU

[yellowmamba024]

Truth to the matter is, many Asian guys tend to stick to their own race. Asians are the least comfortable with interracial dating. Why? Quite a lot tends to do with their parents. Their parents 8/10 times are not fond of interracial dating. Hell, Chinese parents prefer their children to date either Chinese, Taiwanese or Vietnamese. They won't even like their kids dating Koreans or Japanese that much, let alone Hispanic, black or white significant other.

A handful of Asian guys seem to not have the confidence to approach girls outside of their race. More or less because there are too many negative stereotypes on Asian males. This may be a stereotype, but I don't think it is.

[btbc92]

Your absolutely right about that. Sadly its true. Very rare such relationships thrive and succeed. And you other factors like envy and jealousy of other people. Especially if you attract them and others don't.

[yellowmamba024]

I believe the negative stereotypes play a bigger factor than the Asian parents not approving interracial dating.

[btbc92]

It is. The stereotypes do play a role and influence how they would view you.

[yellowmamba024]

The stereotype where Asian men have small you know where is much more damaging than most people think. I am not surprised if a woman that is not Asian believes it right off the bat.

[btbc92]

If they do, it goes to show you where their mindset is. It shouldn't have to matter that is not important. But their the same ones who are not satisfied no matter who their with.

[chc0009]

Oh God, I LOVE white women! I love them to death, I don't even like Asian women and I'm Korean American.

But I've always been rejected by all the white women that I've asked out. Maybe you and I can talk, if that's alright with you?

by the way, I stand 6'2" and weight 166 lbs.

[BikeBunny1413]

I'm relieved. I'm fairly young, and into Asian guys more than most other races (my mom said I would flirt with Asian servers at restaurants as a baby, trying to grab their hands lol.), and I was wondering if any Asian guys would be into white girls, so yay! Thanks for the intel! (18 years old, about to go to college, want to date there) Also, another question: do Asian guys like slightly heavier girls? I am not unhealthy, just not tall and thin.

[Azgeda]

Eh , why specifically Asian guys? XD
Anyway I'm sure there are , as long as you shows interest and the personality matches it can work just the same with every other race.

[thesecretasianguy]

Some do. As a pure Asian myself, I prefer white women way more than women of my own race. I've always been fascinated with the Western side. But most are shy to talk to white people. A lot of us have that introverted behavior, which contrasts the personality of White women. And obviously most of us aren't into that straightforwardness, it takes time.

[Peskyn3gr0]

I just met an Asian guy who only likes white girls, so yes.

[Asker]

But, is he unique? Why I never saw such Asian guys chasing me then? They're shy or not very confident?

[Peskyn3gr0]

I dunno man, where are you living? They're kind of a small minority in the US

[Asker]

I'm in a small town near NYC.

[Hammer_of_Thor]

Yes, they want you. They just may think you don't want them

[Asker]

Then do you have any suggestions for me on how to attract/approach them?

[AtomicCheesing]

Ask Safari Man. Have him introduce you to some of his Japanese friends.

[Asker]

Who's Safari Man?

[AtomicCheesing]

Use Google

[Gentlesoftlove]

I'm Asian and yes we do like blonde girls. The reason why we don't approach is mainly cause we're shy and most white girls don't like Asian guys so they don't even try to ask. :(

[BrownBoyBrownies]

Of course, there's always one who likes blonde girls. Theyre gorgeous

[TruExo]

I live in nyc. I Know Some Asian That Would Be Into You.

[Anonymous]

What countries would you associate with East Asians in particular?

[Asker]

China, Japan, Korea, mainly.

[John_Doesnt]

No they hate blonde girls.

[Asker]

Why? :(

[John_Doesnt]

because japan.

[Asker]

Japan is not the only Asian/East Asian country though?

[John_Doesnt]

whatever

[pooper89]

They don't have the balls to approach you.

[Heemus_Christ]

Im black soooooooooo

What?

[Regulatus]

ALL guys like "White girls-Especially blonde."

[JohnGoodMan]

I like sushi and blonde white girls.