How do you get a guy to put his arm around you?

[Cometz]

What happens if he's shy?

[AvihooI]

Physically put yourself in a position where his most comfortable response would be to put his arm around you (or over your back - depending how tall he is relative to you).

Somehow if you make him feel like you're comfortable with his touch then he would normally allow himself to wrap his arm around you or anything else.

I guess the more shy he is, the less quicker would he feel comfortable with this - but you can slightly increase his confidence by complimenting him or letting him do things on his own volition.

Cheers.

[Nakor]

get close to him, as in your bodies are touching close and if he doesn't move way or anything just try scooting underhis arm, or like if your watching a movie sitting down tell him your cold and lean into him. that's how my last girlfriend conned me into doing it haha, we were even sitting on a bed under some blankets with a bunch of other girls watching movies on a laptop. my point is it doesn't have to be cold, just be cute instead.

[Cometz]

Thanks But what if he's scared to have an "outside" relationship like not want anyone knowing bout us..Then he gets really shy and he doesn't even want to hold hands! and only my bffs now bout it and hiss guy frends know bout it and I don't care if anyone knows who cares!! One time he got hurt when I wasn't there and Everyone knew we were together and they were all shouting "MICHAELA!!! LOGANS HURT" I mean what the hell just cause I'm his gurl doesn't mean that I have to kiss him to make him feel bttr

[Nakor]

I was the same, totaly against public displays of affection, untill I really really like the girl and them in only doing it to make her happy (although I feel great doing it). I've always had problems with people talking about my relationships I don't know why, id just prefer they didn't bring it up. although its fine to talk when I'm not there, I just don't like it pushed and my face. haha and yes, since your his girl you do have to look after him :p nah, they were just busting his chops, it doesnt

[Nakor]

Mean anything. id even take a bet and say that you might be his first or one of his first girlfriends.

[rawr123]

depends on the situation. but probably the easiest is to get close to him and rest your head on his shoulder. maybe if your holding hands kinda hint by trying to get him to put his arm around you.

[gnargnar]

if he's really shy just ask him to, but be sure to say it in a cute way though.

[Anonymous]

ask him or grab his arm and put it around you...