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It is complicated in the white/asian dynamic. I think it is from both side, Asian males are given a bad name. How many times in fictional media is there a hunky cool Asian guy? It goes to a time when the chinese came to America they wanted them out so they portrayed them as weak and frail while the women were nymphos.
And I think the reason it isn't addressed is because although it is a stereotype it isn't the worst one. I mean if you had to choose between being a weak math nerd or as a thug with a low IQ we know which one most people would pick. But yes it went under the radar for several years and into today's america. Some Asian girls bought into it and even the Asian families would rather her be with another Asian or white guy. I will say this too, from my military days several of the really weird guys would go to Asian countries and find wives. So there is some truth to white guys dating Asians because they can't get white girls.
And some of those girls left them as soon as they got their paper work and went for guys who where not weird and those guys are still single
I'm not sure who you are insulting more, the white guys or the Asian girls.
You're bassically saying that the white guys who date them are bottom of low quality but also that Asian girls are less desirable and that the only way a white guy would want one is if he is wasn't good enough to get a white girl.
Im an Asian woman, western guys have different reasons why they want to date an Asian woman, some its their preference, some got "burned" by western females, others are old or simply unattractive that they are willing to spend to get a mail order bride, some doesn't care about the race, its about the whole personality. I was married to a white guy, but Im independent and gt my own career, not a submissive "gasp" Asian. I think women who thinks white guys who only date Asians or other race because they can't get white women got personal issue such as being dumped in favor of an Asian girl or having an uppity attitude or just plain jealous that a lot of Asian are more skinny/slender and has delicate features. there's plenty of beautiful white women but those who look down on others because they think they are "unreachable" are unattractive and has ugly personality.
lol I'm Asian, so I'm interested to see what the poll says, but I don't think just because they can't date white women, they go for the Asians. Personality and connection is a factor in relationships. Everyone has a preference, so making a judgment like that doesn't seem thought out.
Read both updates. You don't want genuine discussion but just looking for people who would validate your opinion.
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Hummm color doesn't matter to me, but I think it'd be pretty cool to date an exotic woman (Asian, Indian, Russian, even Hawaiian) I guess its kind of like doing the same routine over and over again: go to work, go home, sleep, go to work, go home, sleep, go to work, go home, sleep. Pretty soon a person will get to used to this so you have to throw in some other things like, movies, book store, shopping, photography I don't know. Point is, variety is the spice of life.
Do something different (or someone in this case), something out of the ordinary, something unusual. The same idea can also be said that some white women (again some meaning not all) would date a black men cause of the size of his cock (and other reasons I'm sure). I've dated only two white women and I honestly think it'd be... a learning experience to date a woman of another background. This discussion I enjoyed a lot, its nice to see people can still have intellectual discussions and not go off the rails, thank you 😊
I disagree. Occidental women are so caught up in being "feminist" and "empowered," that it's like they almost forget how to be women. Whereas oriental women know how to be women.
I'm currently dating a girl from the Philippines. I like her because she's cute, intelligent, nice, and we share a similar sense of humor. She also hasn't drunk the feminist Kool-Aid to become a professional victim, like many western girls my age have. Honestly, more white girls give me shit for being a "privileged" white male than any other demographic. Fuck that shit!
Hmm... so you're telling me, Mark Zuckerberg, the billionaire white man, couldn't get himself a white woman (sorry, Aryan Woman) so he is stuck with an Asian woman huh... okay...
By the way who do you like better, Hitler or Trump?
comparing hitler with trump oh my fucking god
There are cases for both. Yes, some do just take up with Asians because they cannot get whites. I have seen them. Old/middle aged men are typical ones as well and they often have kids. But then there are guys that don't really think about race and culture and just happen to find an Asian that is right for them. Then there are ones that think they are the most beautiful and feminine girls in the world. And finally, thee are guys that think, "Not my thing".
Asian women are higher up in the attractiveness hierarchy than white women, so it's more like white men date white women because they can't get an Asian one.
Obviously not talking about foreign brides but Asians from western countries, Japan, Korea or Singapore etc.
Not always that true... During World War 2... Some guys brought Japanese bride home. Korean war, guys brought Korean bride home... Vietnam war, guys brought Vietnamese bride home too! In United States what's next?
Immigrations come here to marry us!
As a white guy I have to disagree. I've dated several white girls and it was just basic. Basic sex. Basic life. Basic everything. Needless to say it got boring. White girls were bringing nothing to the table, just their vagina. A vagina that is basic. Women who are foreign from conservative countries have it all, whether that be morals, body, or sex... they have it.
Strongly disagree. The reason why men are now dating outside of their background is because (at least in the case for whites) is that white "women" have become trash... nothing worth respecting or worth marrying.
They date Asian cause maybe they like Asians women. I do have to say most Asian women are very put their man first attitude. They do a lot for most part that i think white women for most part dont. I guess you can say Asian women when it comes to relationships are for most part... more old fashion... that dont mean guys date them cause they can't get white women or cause they are better though. That just who they fall n love with i guess.
White bros are loved by almost all races... just the way it is.. whateves
Asians leave their home town with a mission to trap a white bro... it's like a thing. Every Asian changes their name to some North American name (wang as his middle name and Justin as their new one) and the girls just chase white bros
Not all Asians... Actually Asians that are from the motherland, prefer Asian over any other race by a mile. To be honest, Asian parents are a bit racist, so it's hard for them to accept another race. They like purity - even though that sounds terrible... But that's not all Asians, just some. (I know for Koreans, since I am one)
When all of the white women have the entitled white female supremacist attitude that you do nowadays, who in his right mind would want to date you? Or even use you for a quick fuck, given how obese most of you are? Nah, you're not worth shit. Avoid the white girls like the plague carriers they are.
that is so racist. I strongly disagree. Asian women are beautiful, just as beautiful as white women. Shame on you
They date Asian women cause they're looking for more traditional and feminine qualities. The same reason North American men will look for a wife from Eastern European countries. It has nothing to do with race and everything to deal with values.
I don't see the logic behind that. Asian women are just as attractive as white women. I have never met a guy who'd date an Asian chick just because he couldntbget with a white one. Bs in my opinion.
Where I live white male Asian female couples tend to be high income white professional men. Those men are not unable to get white women.
The one friend of mine who is married to an Asian woman I've seen multiple times get hit on my white women just walking down the street
So not where I live anyway.
They like Asian women because
A. More submissive
B. Still pale skinned like white women
C. feminine features
good answer
Plain and simply wrong. Men are biologically attracted to youth, health and fertility. Asian girls look younger than your average white woman. 1+1
Additionally Asian women are more traditional and feminine culturally which is also a plus.
I'm pretty sure that's not the case. Any man who dates an Asian woman can tell you that Asian women are simply just amazing lol Every Asian girl I've dated has been awesome. White girls are a hit or miss.
That's kind of racist. Are you implying that Asian women are lesser and it's easier to get with one of them? That's super fucked up but we do have Trump for a president so I wouldn't be surprised.
I guess it's not allowed in the universe for people of two different races to genuinely fall in love with one another.
Or, y'know, lots of white dudes might just really like Asian chicks. It's not an unheard-of concept.
I disagree, the majority of white men who date Asian women do so because they really liked the Asian woman, not because he was at his wits end.
Wtf? 😂😂😂 no, they date them because they're attracted to them and because they are way hotter than white women. Get over yourself 😂😂
Another silly race comment. It's jut not about race - men are attracted to attractive women. Period. Some prefer their own race, or a specific one, but it's just not about race. We really need to move off this, it's just so, well, cliched.
"many that disagree are Asian women"?
Many of the 35 professed males who disagreed are actual Asian females in disguise?
Lol. Hopefully you're never in a situation that requires good solid judgement and thinking skills cuz you'd be boned.
If they're the type that go to Asia to get a wife, some cases its a yes. But its quite obvious when they are in my opinion. Usually, they just happen to like Asians more than white women and date them more often.
When I was in the military, all the Asian lovers were total losers, we suspected the one guy was tagging minors in the Philippines, another would try to bang strippers during a lap dance and almost acted like some where his girlfriend and the other guy looked like Peter griffin and was the biggest one. So yeah I do think a certain type go for Asian girls and the girls buy into it because they are told their own men are weaklings. But there is always exceptions to the rule
@spoonman2014 Kind of like how white women in the west are told white men are weaklings and that they should date blacks simply because their black. Round and round it goes.
Sounds like jealousy. I think white guys date Asian women because they found that woman attractive.
Strongly disagree. Asian women are hard working and they have manners and they know something good and apporeciate it when they see it which is why I feel white guys go for them.
Its the opposite. White women can't compete with Asians.
@DianaWest for some reason i completely agree with you and im at ease knowing ill be unwanted.
You're probably a butthurt white chick. Are you trying to imply that Asian women are less valuable than white women? Wtf?
I was attracted to Asian girls because I like petite women and Asians tend to be more thus more so than white women.
Mostly agree. They then act as if they won a trophy or something. Some even order Chinese women from catalogs. What they dont realise is that those Asian women are the biggest gold diggers.
I don't think it's because they can't, it's probably because they don't want to.
Asian women can be just as bitchy, superficial, loving, kind, freaky, ugly, beautiful, submissive or dominating as any other woman. Do you have any female friends who are asian? Doesn't sound like it.
White women are overrated don't flatter yourself Asians in general are actually hotter.
>butthurt white woman
https://i.imgur.com/82cl91K.jpg
No because white women aren't "feminine and womanly" enough, Asian girls are the real women and they know how to please their men.
Foreign girls are hot; Latinas, Asian, Middle Eastern.
White and Asian girls are my preference. But honestly I'm just looking for a beautiful woman
Lots of white women have nothing to offer but their bodies anyways
Well that's like saying that the black men who date mostly white women do so because they can't get a black girl. Or do you think that is some how different?
They often have a fetish, but such men are not worth it anyways.
Asian women want love, not like a white woman who is brainwashed from too much Hollywood.
Yes, definitely! White women are way more attractive than Asian women on average. Not all white guys with Asian girls are doing it because they can't get a white girl but I would say that the majority definitely are.
Some Asian people are hot, especially the mixed race ones
If you're talking about old white guys dating younger Asian females, then I agree.
This is so burnt lmfaooo
Lol you jealous they take the men you like? xD
I haven't tried them yet but I do have a problem getting a white girl for some reason and not sure why, maybe they are just to picky or gold diggers
Oh, this is good:
If I was an Asian girl, I'd totally be afraid of my boyfriend leaving me for a white girl. Terrified actually.
disagree.. Asian women are totally hot.
White women are jealous of Asian girls. Agree?
So... I take it race matters to you...
Most white guys only like white women.
What are you basing that off?
you're talking nonsense.
Yep hapa reddit exposed this.
I think that your statement is spot on
I think they date Asians because they are cute
White women are a lost cause, that's why.
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