Why it's so hard for guys to unclip a bra?

[Anonymous]

[Dale1982]

It's easy just take the tension off the hooks with your middle finger and thumb then a flick with your index finger to release the hooks, let go and it snaps off ready to be removed. If your kissing a girl and she's just in her underwear and your taking it further you gotta master that with one hand. I know it's a real passion killer for a woman when a man's fumbling around trying to get her bra off. I could practically just snap my fingers on the hooks and it fell of when I was younger. Outta practise now though probably be there until she got fed up and did it for me now

[Poppykate]

Lol 😂 wow! You could probably get my bra off faster then me! Lol

[Dale1982]

@Poppykate lol it depends on the size of the bust. The bigger they are the more hooks and the harder the trick. A double d cup is a real challenge. Thats for the masters lol. Sometimes I get 2 hooks but miss the 3rd and the angle goes all squinty and you have to fumble

[Poppykate]

Yeah. I am 34e. I kinda have to fight it/ twist into weird angles to get into it! Lol 😂

[Dale1982]

@Poppykate now there's a world class challenge lol. How many hooks is that? 4?

[Poppykate]

Just 3

[AynonOMouse]

Think about it this way. When they aren't experienced, and the clasp is behind you, it is like trying to unlock something they have never seen while blind.
Can you open a combination lock while not looking at it?

[Asker]

That's a really good point. Thanks

[puppylove1994]

i'd consider that a good thing

[Asker]

Why?

[puppylove1994]

they aren't super experienced. unhooking a bra would take practice and unless they like wearing women's bras, they''re taking them off of other women.

[Anonymous]

Guys don't undo bras every day and if it's a guys first time be may not know how the hooks looks or how exactly they hook on or the fact that there's three hooks. Also if your bra opens in the front it could mess with a guy lol.

[Asker]

That has happened to me... in my defense those (the ones that opens in the front) are way easier to unclip

[Opinion Owner]

I've never actually been with a girl who wore a bra that unclips in the front. I do know it takes practice to get good at unclippling bras.

[dutch_boy]

it isn't something we do every day and I know for sure that the first time you did it, it also didn't go as smooth as it goes now. so practice makes perfect

[awesometjgreen]

because I don't do it everyday, in fact I never have

[Dale1982]

You will, as long as your out there amongst people you'll bump into some girl who'll want to bed you. Ask her if you can't do it, she'll be happy to show you or let you practise. It's fun for them. You don't need to pretend to a woman you're a master lover especially if you're young. Women find it exiting to teach you stuff

[awesometjgreen]

you've never read some of my questions have you? most members of the opposite sex don't even want me to touch them period..

[Dale1982]

Your just paranoid mate. Teens doubt their own names. Don't fuck your own head up with negativity and don't ever ever doubt yourself. Most of its in your own head trust me

[awesometjgreen]

you sure? I've had 10 to 20+ girls reject me, about 5 of them cursed me out and mafe fun of me. I don't have any friends just acquaintances. no one calls me, no one texts me, and no one asks me out. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and the most I can get is a number just so the girl can stop talking to me after a day or two. people always make fun of everything about me. my hair, the way I dress, my glasses, everything.

[Dale1982]

Your attitude becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. What you believe you are is what you present to the world. We're all the same pal just the odd outside embellishment makes us different. Saying that we're all attracted to same traits in each other and repelled by others. If everybody is giving you a hard time you're fuckin up somewhere along the line. People in general hate ego, pretensions, aloofness, superiority complexes, self obsession, no integrity. Most of them don't even know what those things mean but they feel it and that's all thay matters. People like humble folk, folk that live for others, respect, kindness, generosity. The fatal flaw with most people these days is they've been convinced that being individual and chasing selfish motives is the way to be, it isn't. We're supposed to live for others. Be a servant to everybody. If you want to be great in this life you must become everybody else's slave. Sounds crazy but it's true.

[Asker]

You're only 17, I've had 2 boyfriends that got their first girlfriend around 20s (me), so relax...

[awesometjgreen]

you sure I should relax? Because God obviously didn't make me a pretty boy and if things haven't changed all these years then how am I supposed to believe they will?

[Dale1982]

Beauty comes from inside mate and radiates outwords. If the hearts good then so will be the rest of the body. People don't respond to your looks they respond to your heart and the heart overflows from the mouth so by a persons words you can judge them

[Asker]

Agree with @Dale1982 just don't get obsessed with it, you'll be fine

[awesometjgreen]

well the people I'm around on a daily basis are all shallow. they say I'm weird and barely speak to me and I'm a quiet person usually. I don't mess with anyone and I don't judge. you said that if I mess with others or say hurtful things than that's why they don't like but trust me I don't. people never give me a chance and judge me instantly and treat me like a child

[Asker]

I was once crazy in love with a guy just like you, he also suffered at high school, we met at college... so I can tell you, there will be someone, some day

[awesometjgreen]

I hope so because I currently hate my life, everything makes me angry and I feel like I can't control anything. I've been trying to fix my hair but my mom won't help she just keeps putting it off or saying the styles I pick look to feminine yet they call me gay at school regardless so why does it matter

[Dale1982]

Take a bit of advice you find out what the good traits are in a person and what the bad are. Then when you know have a think and be honest with yourself as to which you honestly adhere to. You might find your guilty of a few and that's why your shy and retiring. People react to quietness and shyness as something to hide and they judge harshly. If you have a pure heart and you really and I mean really care about folk and their welfare you'll stand in front of the whole world and talk till your hoarse and find nothing but approval. If your a bad person inside you tend to try and hide by being quiet and staying away from folk so not to be judged. You don't hide a light under a pot you put it somewhere it will shine everywhere. You're only a boy but you're going to have to be honest and weed out the bad parts. It just takes repetition and eventually it sticks. It doesn't have to feel good and genuine at the start but it will eventually. Thays where real strength lies, in the heart

[Dale1982]

by the way vanity weakens a man. Stay away from the mirror. Should only look in one to shave. They call it a deadly sin for a reason. You should only be worrying about how the girls you want look. Let her worry about how you look, she has to kiss you after all

[matheus_mb]

Maybe because we don't do it often and we don't have practice.

[TripleAce]

Well lol they have multiple hooks to unhook lol
Sometimes they can get caught

[Radicalash]

It was in the beginning, but I'm more experienced now. Just one pinch and the bra is gone 👌

[Kurodo]

How often do you think a guy gets to mess with a bra?

[meatballs21]

You wear them from adolescence every day.

Why can't you park a car without hitting at least three things?

[truthbeknown]

Because you wear bras that are too small and therefore too tight.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Well, bras are meant to hold them, but many girls are wearing the wrong size. Hell, some girls out there have bra sizes that don't exist according to the fashion industry.

[Anonymous]

This is why...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UJ9K8lMxPA

[Anonymous]

Nervous plus no practice when we are younger but know I can do it one handed in under 2 seconds

[DamnCurtis]

Because you've been doing it all your life.
Damn Mystery back there.

[Anonymous]

Haha well!.. it's not like we wear one everyday

[Asker]

Yes but isn't that hard

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe we're just too excited in the moment

[tflo95]

Cause ya stupid ass hair keep gettin in the way

[Asker]

I actually have short hair and guys still can't unclip it

[tflo95]

Well that doesn't help prove my point in the slightest

[TheWantToKnowGuy]

A bra is like a rubix cube... it just is

[Anonymous]

How can it be easy for us unless we are crossdressers? We never deal with bras.

[Regular1]

With age and practice, it's a "snap."

[skewEyeZ]

Cause i have two thumbs

[chuy10]

do it for them do a striptease

[Aksamlar]

I've never touched one.

[Anonymous]

my ex would do it with his eyes closed