well my boyfriend and i usually start off by kissing when we're just sitting next to each other. if we start to make out, i'll shift and sit on his lap and basically be in cowgirl position. he usually kind of grunts and grabs me to help me shift, so i think that turns him on. also, i bite his lip and run my hands through his hair and he pulls me closer. i kiss his neck and ears as well, and he likes that a lot (he's verbally expressed it). i'll also run my hand down his chest and to his dick and i'll start to rub it outside of his pants. at that point, he usually tosses me off and orders me to do other things lol. but yeah doing things like that will turn on a guy. obviously it's not the same for all, but they seem like general things a guy would like.
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It's mostly personal preference. I know that for some girls hair-pulling is an immediate turn off, so these experiences aren't universal.
Actually I think guys would preferred to be regarded as individuals because of the importance to us of our unique identity and our competitive nature, even if we may not appear or behave all that differently from each other. Recognizing our strengths before getting into the touchy business is not only flattering, it's also a...
You know, I'm not sure if I want to finish answering the question.
If kissing only, kissing the neck and ear are definitely turn ons. You can also lightly run your fingers over his arms or along his side, also feels really good it you reach up inside the short and do the same to the chest or lightly scratch the back. Things that may tickle when not turned on are huge turn ons when making out.
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I like when a girl can get a little rough with me. Usually I'm the dominant one but it's nice to hand the reins over once in a while. There's this sexy af tongue trick my girl does when we're kissing where she twirls it in my mouth. Gets me hard every time. She'll nibble on my lower lip then brush her lips down my neck to behind my ear. She says the simplest things like how she wants me or that she's all mine. We're just friends with benefits but fuck that's hot. I go crazy every time she grabs my crotch and just sorta strokes it through the pants while kissing me. When she runs her fingers through my hair then tugs on the ends and it forces my head back just an inch or so and then she'll lightly nip at my chin. Or how she'll scratch her nails down my chest or back even with my shirt on. It's like she can't get enough of me. Huge ego boost haha
It really depends on the kind of kiss. Different mood means different things that are appealing.
- Her holding tightly onto me and pull me closer
- Caress along my neck, arms, shoulders, back
- Grinding herself on my thigh
Would be the most common.running your hand through the guys hair while kissing
Assuming we're talking pretty early on in the making out process, I love it when she whispers intensely in my ear, "I want you so bad"... don't know, it just gets my motor going something fierce.
From experience, rubbing inner thigh works for both gender. For most guys, moving your hips and navel area is a great one. Also, sitting on the lap with legs on either side, that's the one I prefer.
Whatever way you can show him that you're excited. I don't know how dominant this man is, but try to show that you kinda give up control of your own body only for him. Sorry if my advice isn't the best.
Generally can't go wrong with rubbing, especially the stomach, crotch, inner thigh area. Those are pretty erogenous zones for us.
Just looking at me will turn me on... no girl looks at me😢
I'm surprised that not one person has mentioned that it's down to personal preference. Whilst one guy might like something, another might hate it. It's about communicating and learning with your partner.
Bite his earlobes/ lips, rub his dick through his pants, whisper dirty things in his ear, etc
tickling his butthole. I promise you it works every time
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stick your hand down his pants and start jerking him off.
Grabbing the dick. Rubbing the dick. Really anything to do with the dick
We like a hand on/in our zipper area best
Little biting, taking control, grabbing crouch.
Grabbing my dick from behind without any warning.
Rubbing his thighs and his crotch.
hand job while kissing
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