I kissed my friend and he kept kissing me back, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

i kissed my friend first. Then he started at me for a minute or 2. Then he kept kissing me back and kept going. What does that mean? plus he was kissing my forehead, what does that symbolise? I suck at wondering if someone likes me or not 😐

[Canuck37]

You called him a friend, does that mean you're not dating?

In this case, if I was a guy, and my friend who was a girl kissed me, I would assume that the kiss was her telling me she wanted to start a relationship with me, and me kissing her back would be me telling her that the answer was yes.

If you didn't say anything, I suppose you can't be sure. If you're going to be in a relationship, you should probably learn to communicate clearly, so asking him would be a good place to start. But again, if I was the guy, I'd assume that we were now a couple.

[Asker]

I do have feelings for him and i told him i care about him deeply. But i suck showing feelings for people, i suck at showing them. But for him I literally offer all i have. All he did most of the day he hung out with me was cuddle me and kiss me, it felt passionate (i dont know) then he asked about tongue kissing (i dont know how to do that) so he did it. Then he said something about "this relationship" i assumed it was between me and him and i didn't say anything so he hugged me tighter and said "in time, one day" does that mean a relationship one day or not? Im a very affectionate person and once someone shows that they care for me, i show a lot. we were really good friends beforehand. He did tell me he wanted to kiss me and hold me. I wanted to, to him too. I hardly see him though, he lives out of town and i dont have a car to see him

[Canuck37]

My understanding, then, is that he loves you and wants to be in a relationship with you, but feels that the present circumstances prevents him from being a proper boyfriend to you. This is a good sign for you. You're basically already dating, just not officially. You should continue on in the relationship, and you should find a way to help him overcome the present circumstances, so that you can officially be in a relationship. You may consider saving up to get a car so that you can see him more often; or you may consider moving to wherever he is. Distance relationships are sweet, but they have difficulties, and I'm sure he knows this, if distance is the reason why he's not officially in a relationship with you.

[Asker]

I dont know the reason, i think he has personal issues that he might be facing, i told him in time. Let him sort stuff out, i told him about my wishes for Halloween and his even dressing up with me. We are doing Harley quinn and joker. I didn't off i just said i was and he told me he is going to be my joker. I said it was fine. I've known him for 19 years (im 19 now). He would nurse me when i was a baby and was friends with my brother. I was with my ex and we broke up a few weeks ago. I did assume that at first. But even hang put with me and knowing of my ex, he wouldn't do anything. My ex broke up with me, cause of my friend. And well I've known my friend longer then my ex. My friend woul say to my mum "look at her... She is too good for her boyfriend" my parents didn't like my ex cause he was rude and wouldn't talk to them. My friend they have all the time for. I just wanted to know what he means and what this type of kissing can symbolise.

[Canuck37]

It might be platonic then. It's possible this was just him expressing a deep friendship for you.

But I still think you two will end up dating. It's possible he thinks it's too soon after your breakup for you to be dating again, so he might be waiting for that.

[Asker]

Im not sure, my ex was so rude to him. He wanted to be friend with me ex. But he wouldn't allow it, my ex would swear at everyone, even me. Tell me to "shut up", "fuck up" or go "shh" at me. If i was sad he would say "i dont fucking care". He was nasty, he wouldn't talk to my parents. He was always on his phone, if another guy give me compliments he didn't like it and go off saying i was cheating when i never. He ditched me for his friends all the time. Barely even touched me nor showed me his attention. When my friend came over, he would talk to my parents, then walk to my room, didn't need permission. We would play games or watch vines, then he would stop and look at me and say "your so fucking gorgeous girl, from your red hair that makes me go wild to all your piercings and tattoos. You make me feel so shy and make me have butterflies in my tummy, im scared i will say or do something that you won't like or make you upset. Your too good for him"

[Canuck37]

Well it sounds complicated, but I think he probably likes you, and I'm pretty sure you'll be in a relationship with him someday. You'll have to write your own story together, and that's up to you.

[Asker]

I will just let it go and see how it all plays out. Will post in a few months to comform how it goes, males feelings/emotions are so confusing 😅

[SAMI_DABBAB]

What type of kissing did you give em.

[Asker]

A peck on the lips to start off with, then he wanted more and more. It went from a peck to tongue bascially, i suck at kissing so bad. He would look me in the eyes and run his thumb down my chin and open my mouth and kiss me again. I dont know, might just hide behind a controller for a while 😂 I dont know what any of this means

[SAMI_DABBAB]

"Are you sure he is just a friend..."
I mean it seems that he enjoyed it.

[Asker]

He was beforehand i swear, first time ever doing that to him. Was on Tuesday. Beforehand i would listen to him when he was sad and hang out with him when he needed someone. But I've never touched him in anyway nor kissed him. I gave him the occasional "friend hug" and that was it

[SAMI_DABBAB]

It may be a turning point.
Be careful.
Please note that this is just another random opinion.