Do guys tell their friends about the girl they crush on?

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So I was wondering if guys tell their buddies about their crush. If so, what do you guys talk about her exactly? Do you just tell one buddy or do you tell the whole group? Let´s assume your crush is someone you aren´t friends with, just a stranger you get to see often. Do you tell your friends to take notes of her when you´re not around?
If you don´t tell anyone, why?
If you´re the buddy who got to know your friend´s crush. How do you behave around your friend´s crush? Do you update your friend with new information?

Lol sorry for the amount of questions. I´m just so curious whether guys are kinda like girls in this. I hope I get them all answered.

savalisk · Accepted Answer

Not really. Sometimes, at most.
Might tell someone that's real trustworthy for advice. Sometimes it comes out more when we know for sure that there is something blossoming into a full fledged relationship. Sometimes, people will just call us out on it when we can't hide that fact anymore and we'll just have a little chuckle about it, then move on with our lives.

Guys don't really do that thing where you get a friend to scout your crush and come back with info. I have seen it happen but its very VERY rare and not unless things are really REALLY shit and the guy is acting real childish. At most, and this is being very liberal, guys tend to do the "scouting" themselves and through more direct means.

Eg: *uncommon but close to what you're thinking*
Me: Hey you're TheMoroccangirl's friend yeah?
Your friend: Yeah?
Me: Does she like horror movies?
Your friend: Why?
Me: The Annabelle movie came out and I want to take a day to chill with her. Get to know her better you know.
Your friend: Yeah she might like that lol
Me: Sweeeeeeet... oh there she is now. thanks buddy! :D

I have had my guy friends tell me of their crushes. Whether I call them out on it or they tell me because I catch them talking to their crush. Might ask for details, give a little advice, give em' the ol pat on the back, good luck - have fun.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes we talk about girls. in groups and individuals.
Usually with individuals it's more about her personality but with groups you tend to here more ass/ tits/ legs comments. Basically more sexual.
I've been in both situations when I know the girl he likes and when I've liked a girl.
When it's them I usually start acting funny and jokey to piss about and annoy them but with me they do the same maybe some nicknames are made in the process.
If you get a group of boys Looking at a girl it's usually because she's caught one of their interest and the rest of them want to see if she's any good

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Once when I entered the same corridor where my crush and his close group of friends were hanging out, I noticed that my crush was staring at me while his friend was talking in his ear, but my crush kept talking back to him without looking away from me, he just kept staring at me.

Then all of his friends left quickly together and left him all alone and he seemed really embarrassed and nervous lol. So yeah, that was pretty obvious. He was getting teased.

RachelleDraws · Accepted Answer

I told friends about girls I like. Don't do that anymore though, I have a girlfriend now.

Graydon · Answer

Yes I have always told me friends about my crush and I would ask for advice on how to talk to her. I would also have then tell me if they see her looking at me or not.

Like-Me · Answer

Telling your guys about your crush usually comes with several consequences, like being teased the fuck up or constantly being called a pussy for not making a move.

IainG81 · Answer

I never had any problems telling my friends the girls i liked. It was regular discussion who liked who. I would think girls talk about it also. I admitted i liked Paula.😁 Never got with her though. 😭

OreoMilkshake · Answer

I wouldn't tell my friends. I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm quite shy so i just wouldn't be able to tell them.  If i had a friend who had a crush, i'd behave like i normally would lol

randompersoncoop · Answer

Yea. My friends are like "damn that new girl! She is so hot!" Then we try to matchmake for them. We help each other out in my group.

TheBoar · Answer

Yes and No. Depends on the girl and some other factors

None18am · Answer

I did, then they laughed and said I didn't have a chance with her so I shut up about it (funnily enough, I learned later that she'd liked me for years and still does)

Anonymous · Answer

No, what's the point? If I like a girl, I'll ask her out. I don't see why I'd gossip to my friends about having a crush. That's very teenage-girly.

tanmay__anime · Answer

Nope not to all the friends coz it only leads to problems

yeeeeeeeet · Answer

I used to but now I don't because people just tell me I have no chance and to give up

Casinolo · Answer

The first question I ask my buddies: Is she a legit girl? I don't want no penis!

Anonymous · Answer

No.. you just dont.. all they will do is tease you.. there is no point

didigo182 · Answer

Happen but only with close friends. Actually i dodn't tell nobody i see no point anymore.

villiam · Answer

I might tell my female friends but my male friends no, å

Anonymous · Answer

Even if we don't tell our friends... They get to know 😂

Jadexoxo · Answer

I know I’m a girl answering this question but yess he does

Anonymous · Answer

they tell it. Most of my friends used to share it with me.

verybusyguy · Answer

No we catch each other

Blitzberg · Answer

Yes mostly to good friends

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't

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