Guys, Have you ever used a girl for sex?

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Girls, has this ever happened to you? Feel free to go anonymous.

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

Never.

I can't never do this sort of actions. People's emotions aren't toys to play with. And women are not sex objects to take advantage of.

Do i have sexual fantasies in my head randomly? Yes i do. Sometimes i feel i just want to have sex with every women on the planet. But those are just fantasies. Thoughts that never comes to action. And it's not my fault that i born super straight and dirty minded with male instincts.

What's in my mind stays in my mind. What people see in action is the fact that i have the utmost respect for women and i never would try to disrespect myself and a lady with such attempts. It's just not how i've been raised. I have certain boundaries; life principles and values. I'm not practicing promiscuous culture either. I don't like the idea of having random sex with random people just because it's fun.

Good Luck.

BronzedAdonis · Accepted Answer

yeah

sugarpeach · Accepted Answer

i’ve been used before by someone who i had really strong feelings for, it hurt. but i’ve also used somebody for comfort.. they got feelings for me but i got with someone else.. i felt really bad about it because he was a close friend

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have been used before by a guy I had feelings for. It killed my attraction towards him. He only used me for my body. Then I told him no more.

DevikaButts95 · Accepted Answer

Once. But mostly I use guys for sex, I used to hookup with them and get them to suck my toes and rim me thinking they were going to get sex.

Flower-petal · Accepted Answer

Love that picture. Nope in both situations.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope i never used a girl for sex but I've had a last ex-girlfriend
threaten if i didn't give her sex she was going to masturbate so
i gave into her and pleasured her but thing was i never had actual
sex with her but I'm so glad i never fail for her manipulation.

amitiel · Answer

I've never "used" anyone, but I have had relationships with a couple of girls that were purely based around sex and not because either of us wanted to spend time around each other socially. Wouldn't really call that using though if you're both clear on where you stand.

GracefulCharm · Answer

Even if I want to, it doesn't change the way I feel about you. Even if I don't, it won't change the way I treat you, that's just one enjoyable part of the relationship. It's not the best aspect. It's second. Because if I didn't like the first part, the second one wouldn't be as good.

Cosytoasty · Answer

No... never done this, that's crossing the line, even if the line is a little wobbly depending on who you ask. What i mean to say is, m i've never done it without mutual agreement.

jessture · Answer

No, I've never led someone on under false pretenses if that is what you are asking.

I did have a situation once where a woman and I discussed, at length, before anything happened, that we were strictly friends with benefits. 3 days later she was behaving as if we were in a committed relationship, even though I never consented to that. Straight up lied to me about her intentions. I'll never do that to someone.

InTimoreDei · Answer

Both sexes can use each other for sex. I am a demi-romantic though. So, I have to develop a meaningful relationship in order to have sex with someone.

VegetaSSB · Answer

No, i don´t have the kind of body required by that, and if i could get it actually i wouldn´t do it anyways, for me if i cannot connect with the person, it is really not worth it, by any means.

thechico79 · Answer

When I was younger late teens early 20's of course.

DominicJohn · Answer

I've had many opportunities to do so but turned them down. Growing up and going to Catholic school and church definitely played a huge part in that. 😐

PoliceLivesMatter · Answer

Nope, and never will. I understand why many men would though and it’s not entirely unjustifiable depending on the argument these men pose.

TheRish · Answer

To be honest I like to use every beautiful girl I meet to use for sex but problem is some don't get in line and those who get on line I start having feelings for her. So that how I describe 'love" so practically my answer is no but want to.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you ever had a one night stand or FWB? That is using another person for sex. In all seriousness, if you do not intend on committing to a relationship or dating and have stated this to the other person, whom agrees, then being used for sex is consentual between both parties. Lastly, the intent is to inform the other person of your intentions, or lack there of before the using begins talking place.

drewbaby1616 · Answer

I'm the last person on Earth who would do that. I know too much about being used to want to use anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

Started out just being fwb's but after a while I could tell she wanted more then that. Knowing this I continued to see her until one night we got together and I just couldn't do it anymore and ended up kicking her out of the house without an explanation. The worst thing I've ever done to a woman.

I regret it to this day but don't know how to go about apologizing (happened 2 years ago)

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but it became using after a while.. My intention was she was cute but not dating material... She makes it easy for me to make moves and flirt..
We start sexual relationship and i found myself feeding her nonsense because i though thats what she wanted to hear.
Eventually she persisted for a relationship i backtracked.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

I have used sex with my fwbs to grow closer as friends and be more comfortable around each other. But I'm guessing that's not what you meant, so therefore, no.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you talk about sex with prostitutes? Or just girls in general?

Vladgeo1 · Answer

What the fuck does use for sex mean? It's just sex, no one is using anyone, you're not a fucking tool or accessory.

scooogy · Answer

I've once "used" a girl for her own sexual pleasure. Like, I was kind of forcing oral on her, playfully though. I just needed to.

Anonymous · Answer

yeah, i lost my virginity to a one night stand, to a girl i met on here

Philyouup · Answer

Yes, currently have a friends with benefits I want nothing deeper..

weirdwriter79 · Answer

To naughty for me, P. P. I would not do that. Really. No way, Jose! No.

DanOh2018 · Answer

Yes and she was ok with it and using me for sex too. I think that's called hooking up.

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Answer

Yep and it was what it was as she knew I didn’t want a relationship...

MaiaLikesAnime · Answer

No, it might be due the fact that I'm 14 lmao.

Nahid1234 · Answer

No i haven’t and never will. i am too picky and fussy haha.

Anonymous · Answer

still virgin , never will probably have sex so can't use anyone

Anonymous · Answer

How is that possible? If the sex is consensual , then both parties benefit equally?

omgjassy · Answer

I smell them from miles away.

Anonymous · Answer

Thought she just wanted sex too, turns out she didn't after a while.. woops..

sexcrazy123 · Answer

not per say used her for sex. she ended up coming on to me and we ended up having some fun. foreplay, masturbation, sexting, and picture exchange, also video sex chatting. never had penetrative sex

BleepRawrsaurus_Rex · Answer

Yeah, I’ve used a guy and a girl.

johnboymuscles · Answer

Yes a few times. Last time was a virgin and i felt guilty afterwards cause i told her what she wanted to hear😓 going to hell

IcyLemonade · Answer

I have not, but I have been used for sex.

jhale · Answer

Have have been used, but I have also used others

AlphaStyles · Answer

No not at all I respect females I can't do such

readywriter · Answer

yes. We used each other and had a great time.

Anonymous · Answer

I have, but to be fair I paid for it and they knew what was happening.

Ella990 · Answer

I can't say I used them it's just like we help each other in needs

llorando · Answer

Can't say that I have.

Decentguy · Answer

nope and never want to

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah in my younger days I was far more frisky.

cancan73 · Answer

Yeah and I've let a girl use me

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Yeah

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and I have been used for sex as long as both agree to a one night stand, it's alright

2opaz · Answer

I wish a girl would use me like that

Rick912 · Answer

Yes, and she used me too.

Slarenx · Answer

I wish a girl would use me for sex

Supertst · Answer

Yeeeuuuuppp

CT_CD · Answer

Yes but I am asexual

kingCougar · Answer

Many times! Only if she's ready too

random56286 · Answer

Not I

Guialdereti · Answer

nope

mynkhunk · Answer

Yeah Many friends with benefits n other for fun

beebella · Answer

A lot of them have.

weaverman · Answer

What do you mean

clampfan101 · Answer

NEVER EVER!

britpop · Answer

Yeah most of them

ghost91m · Answer

No impossible

Sabretooth · Answer

no, i wouldn't

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