Why does my ex like grabbing my boobs?

[Anonymous]

We were hanging out and we drove around for a little because its something we both used to like when we were dating. We broke up because feelings were being lost and we argued a lot. So as I was driving he pokes my boob then grabs it. I looked over to him and asked why he's grabbing my boob. He said it was something normal for him since he used to do it all the time. Is he trying to get sex or does he still have feelings for me? I did grab his hand and removed it from my boob. Later we just talked, laughed and drove around a little more. Then when he went home he just acted like nothing happened. I'm confused?

[markscott]

He was trying to get you interested in some titty play, and probably a whole lot more. After all, why not fuck you, as he says it's "normal for him since he's used to it." After ward, he acted like nothing happened, because you didn't let him get away with it, and he sure wasn't going to bring up how you stopped him from grabbing your titties and playing with them. He probably does feel comfortable playing with your tits, as he's done it many times in the past. But that is no excuse. You are not a couple any more. He has no business putting his hand on your boobs, never mind grabbing them. You must not have been too shocked either, as your only reaction was to pull his hand away. That's probably because you've felt his hand on you many times. Bottom line, it's technically, assault. If he was trying to get back together with you, he would have used other methods, such as talking more, enticing you, complimenting you, etc. You don't get a girl back by grabbing her tits.

[Asker]

I was shocked a little but I'm not the type to freak out. We had dated for 4 years and only been apart for 6 months so i understand where your coming from. Thanks for the advice.

[vincjh]

I wouldn't say sex, I wouldn't say feelings but I wouldn't deny the possibilities. Boobs are boobs (you must have great boobs!). All of them are nice and to have been able to touch them all the time to not at all, is hard. Guys love boobs a lot. Probably just missed them and had an instinctual moment of weakness.

It's great that you could laugh it off but try to avoid letting that happen again. In some way, it's consensual touching. All the best!

[LordSnuggles]

That's kind of like an ex calling you babe because he used to do it all the time. The relationship ended and you can't do the stuff you used to. Unless you're cool with him touching you like that. You're not in a committed relationship but still wants access to your tits. Sounds wrong but that's your call.

[Jayeleo]

He wanted a piece of ur pie. That should've been pretty obvious. A guy doesn't randomly grab a girls boobs if he's not interested in her. And don't let a dude just grab you like that if you don't like it :/ you deserve better than that

[Asker]

I removed his hand from my boob. If I had like it I wouldn't have removed his hand. I have a little more respect that other girls lol (sorry if that came out a little rude)

[Jayeleo]

Oh the story never said anything about removing it, I'm glad you you did :)

[Asker]

Oh it did lol

[dardorsama]

All guys like gabbing girl's boobs. But what gave him the right to do that since you're no longer a couple?

In my opinion he's either trying to have a one night stand or try to get into your life again.

[Tuomaaash]

He liked your boobs and misses the feeling. It´s normal :D Done it too with my ex. He probably also wants sex, but can´t be sure about that

[user453878]

I’m honestly not too sure. Obviously he is still attracted to you and may have some feelings still. But he could also be trying to imply he wants sex. Just be careful and take things slow if you’re wanting to get back together

[aayushagarwal08]

Tried his luck. He was checking that are you up for a quickie or not. He failed. Lol.

[introvlox]

Boobs r good. But you can say he's not allowed cuz it's your body and nobody had rights to it but u

[sunny000]

To be true when he grabs ur boobs it's a sign that he wants to have sex wid u it's simple

[AydenHazor]

He did it because you likely have great boobs and he misses them

[SangDread]

Yup. From a guy, he just wants sex. Not feeling. Just desire.

[imjustaniceguy]

Now, you guys are friends with benefits

[HereIbe]

It's called "sexual assault".

[Mr_Mystery]

He was honry and wanted sex.

[sid987]

May be your boobs were awesome !!

[dragon9669]

He's wanting some more of you

[Spacepope]

He wants to fuck.

[TheXyz]

Want Don't Like lol

[damo0421345867]

Bc its nice

[Anonymous]

He is still into you