Do guys fantasize or think 'that way' of their female friends?

[Anonymous]

Guys, do you?

[Apope16]

OF COURSE!

I have sexual fantasies about a lot of female friends that I am not romantically attracted to. Mostly this is when I masturbate.

Its kind of funny. A lot of friends I fantasize about when i masturbate may be just acquaintances and I dont know well. Many I would never flirt with in real life but there is a secret desire to fuck them with delicious vigor.

For me its always a trait that I like in a friend that makes me masturbate when thinking of them. Most of the time it is the fact that they have nice boobs or gorgeous eyes. There are some girls who are overweight and who I think have an ugly looking face but I orgasm while masturbating to their breasts.

I have even masturbated to girls I fuckin hate and think are complete bitches. Like in real life they are cruel and mean or annoying. But they might have a nice body or a large chest and I secretly imagine fucking the shit out of them and cuming hard inside them. Plus, in a picture they can't talk back and hurt your feelings.

So yeah. As a hyper sexual guy. Being horny a lot. I have sexual fantasies about a lot of my friends and people I may only say hello to in the halls at work... if only they knew...

[Apope16]

By the way. I can compartmentalize my friends and romantic interests. I've even had fuck buddies that were friends without issue.

[Metal4life98]

With a girl I have a huge crush on, I tend to think about that specific girl non-stop. But it's never anything sexual, it's more like I think about all the great times we could have together.

[Asker]

This is the first answer that is deviant from the over-rated 'sexual' thing, good to know some people like you exist 😄 & that there are others like me.. although minority

[VaIiant]

Yes, to my public knowledge some do. I’ve had men tell me so- albeit a tad awkwardly. Doesn’t mean they’re not your real friend, or are only befriending you to get in your pants— it just means they’re a man, and have a functioning penis.

[HerOverThere]

I hope they do cause every woman I know (married or not) owns up to doing the same thing. Not about every man she knows but when someone walks into your life and is 100% your "type" your mind goes somewhere

[Bliss-taylor]

They do. Some guys do more than others. Some only if they're attracted. Some guys just picture most women attractive or not.
Women often do that too.

[KaramelKisses]

No, not if y'all forreal friends. I've had only ONE legit guy friend who does not think of me in a sexual way. Even if i were to flirt with him.

[SirRexington]

I currently don't have any female friends. The few I do have are very much taken and I don't have romantic feelings for them.

However, the girl of my dreams will be my best friend. A person who I share a strong bond with. I'm looking for a best friend, but I'm not finding anything...

[Asker]

I do have those useless shallow fake friends, there was a time I terribly craved for honest, real, best friends too whom I can connect with deeply but I've given up hope & I don't desire anyone anymore

[Urstupid]

First off,
Your question lacks clarity, i was hoping youd go into some detail.
Second, fantasize is a horible term, but yes. ALL GUYS want to have sex with physically attractive women. If your are attractive, guys will think consider you sexual material.
However some guys purposfully imagine having sex, while others (myself included) try to abstain from those thoughts. Its called self disipline and it lets us get to know women better, by seeing them as a person first before a mate.

[Asker]

I was just generally asking to clarify some doubts so I assumed no details required although in reality I do have some guy friends often behaving weird so I wonder if they're the lusty kind..

[godfatherfan]

I have been saying it since I started on this board. Men and women are NOT FRIENDS. They are friendly. For many, there is no difference. If the guy is in a relationship, then it is just about the same as being friends (as long as he isn't a cheating piece of shit). Guys keep women "on the radar" just in case you both end up single. Then if there is a chance, maybe he gets a pity blow job, maybe more. As long as the woman is ok knowing that the guy "Friend" she has would totally fuck her if she offered, then your all set.
and all the women that are saying "that isn't how my male friends think about me". YES, THAT IS HOW YOUR MALE "FRIENDS" THINK ABOUT YOU.

[DixieNormus]

You don't have a healthy relationship with women mate.

[Dim1213]

About most no I just don't see her that way or she is not my type. With some yeah some times but usually I'm more focused on the girls who are romantically open. With some female friends I might have a crush but with all but one I would not try to be more than friends.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Sometimes.
An ex once once expressed confusion over the large number of female friends I had. I simply expressed that of my univercity friends they were the ones who stayed in touch.
She asked me if I had ever pictured them naked, and was shoked when I confirmed that I had with almost all of them at some point or other yes.
She asked if I had ever fantasized about them sexually. Yes I had about many of them. Again she was shocked.
She asked if I had ever masturbated while thinking about them. I looked at her.
I asked how many of her many male friends she had kissed, slept with, dated, or had "almost hooked up with that one time". The answer was all of them except for one of her female friends' husband.
There wasn't much sex in my life for a few weeks after that.

[Anonymous]

No.. I intentionally get me female friends that I find ugly, but have a great personality. This way I can treat them like my guy friends, since Im not attracted to them.

There were several occasions were a woman I found hot, wanted to hang out and stuff.. but I knew she has a boyfriend and just wanted to be pals. I immediatly told her 'Look, you're too attractive for me to be friends with you. I do think you're a cool person, but the whole pal thing only works if I wouldn't feel attracted to you.' she thought it was really cool that I was this straightforward and left.

[broken_souls]

It's hard not to I'd think... You see or talk to your female friends most of the time, you develop a connection, so yeah, it's pretty hard not to... Also your friends might be pretty gorgeous or appealing... But you may also be compatible with them so ig the kind of way you think of female friends varies, but I think it would be natural

[WalterBlack]

Yes. It is inevitable if he finds her physically attractive. However, keep this in mind. Most guys are very capable of being friends with girls because they actually value the friendship. Only a small percentage of guys aka “fuckboys” are in a friendship with a girl because they think it will lead to sex.

[ItsMeYPJ]

It's always a thought that crosses our minds at some point and there is probably nothing to do about it. It doesn't mean they actually want those thoughts to happen, well.. some do and some don't. That is a matter of strong feelings towards the other. They still can be real friends and just stay like that.

[Browneye57]

Of course. Otherwise they wouldn't bother.

The dirty little secret about men...
A guy looks at a girl and instantly decides right there in his mind if she is do-able. Or not. Whether he really would or not. It's just how their brain works.

If a guy is hanging around in the friendzone he either thinks you want him or hopes. We call them beta-orbiters. The girls like them if they'll do stuff for them and validate them, but have zero sexual interest in them.

[Vasco423]

those guys are so lame, they will follow their "crush" like a puppy and act as their coat hanger when they need to put away their bag or coat lol it's so damn sad

[Vasco423]

guys like that probably tell themselves that those girls spend time with them because they like them to make it less painful hahah

[GD247]

Uuuh... so if your boyfriend has a female friend, how on earth is a girlfriend supposed to respond ;-;

[Browneye57]

@Vasco423 - Oh, the girls like them alright, just not in any kind of sexual way.

Or as I like to say, 'She likes sex alright, just not with you." LOL

[Vasco423]

@GD247 you missed the point by 200 miles lol

[Vasco423]

@GD247 oh i get it, just as a man is supposed to react when a woman says "its just a friend", when it becomes a problem it usually is more than just friends so dont overthink it

[Browneye57]

@GD247 - If you have a boyfriend that has a best friend that is a female, consider you're likely just the place holder or backup plan - he would rather have her if she would have him.

Guys don't really pal around with girls unless they are sexually attracted. I mean, what's the point anyway? And you'll hear all kinds of people say, "Oh, I have lots of friends of the opposite sex." And I say, really? true friends, or are they really just acquaintances. Cuz women and men can't really be 'best friends' without one or the other always wanting more. How many times do you hear that?

No, there's a reason they were attracted to each other in the first place. Or they're simply friendly acquaintances - there's a difference. I know lots of women, but I don't just hang with them for fun, unless it's with their boyfriend or husband. That just wouldn't occur to me unless what I really wanted was in their pants.

[Vasco423]

i do have real friends from the opposite sex but they are childhood friends, any other girls are as you said fuckable or not fuckable

[GD247]

@Vasco423 I already brought this up once but it wasn't handled well

He had a female friend from high school, introduced me to everyone but her cause she's "scuicidal". He says girls and guys can't be friemds so I asked why he's hanging with her and he said he had no choice and its complicated" only tell me that they fought and aren't friends anymore, despite that he still has her on facebook

[Asker]

It's shocking to know all this more since I've always considered a few guys to be 'real friends' but now, reading to your views @Browneye57 & @GD247 isn't it so that men are the reason why women and men can't be friends?

[Browneye57]

Guy and girl being friends - one or the other will always want more. Eventually. This is not the guy's fault - the girls do it to - just watch for the questions here on GAG.

[Dwaynedp93]

I dont fantasize about any woman. But if your asking if i can be friends with a woman without trying to have sex with her the answer for me is no. Its a character flaw for me personally. But i dont befriend women who im not attracted to, because of that attraction i usually end up having sex with them or make an attempt. Unless im in a relationship which in that instance i won't have female friends apart from my significant other

[AmtgardJean]

A few. Though for the most part no. And even on the ones I do generally I hold them at off limits status. There are a few who are gourgeous that I do think of sexually occassionally but even if I was single I would not pursue them even if they were single.
It's a respect thing.

[Ripper_E]

Sometimes but not always. Just because they are friends doesn't mean they aren't attractive. I'd rather fantasize about someone I know than some random woman I saw when I was getting a drink at Starbucks. It doesn't mean I see them as anymore than friends.

[Lukas_95]

It depends.. if the guy is very young, then ofc he is fantasizing about having sex with all around him (if he doesn't get sex) if he is older, it can also be, that he sees you as a friend only. You will never know till you test him. Or ask.

[Asker]

Test how?

[Lukas_95]

Dont know.. Maybe you try to talk about sex with him and see how he reacts. It depends if you can endure to let him know that you are into him or not.. You could also pretend being drunk. Try to seduce him. Or play a game to come nearer kissing him and say that you nearly tricked him (In the case, he doesn't kiss you)

[Keravonos]

I do but I don't think I'm objectifing them or anything I just happen to have a lot of girls who I'm friends with that I find attractive so my brain just has those thoughts sometimes. I'm sure there are some guys who don't but I think most guys do and I'm sure a good number of women think of there guy friends this way.

[Johnbson]

I have before, but that's with newer friends. Ones I have known a year or so, naw. Maybe if we were both single I would. But usually you're either attracted pretty quickly or you're not

[winterfox10]

Oh dear lord, I know I do! I really don't keep women around that I don't find attractive. Every time I jerk off I'm thinking about this thick indian girl I knew in college. Nice big, soft, round ass, and big DD tits to match! She had milk chocolate skin and pink lips. I'm getting hard just writing this.

[HerOverThere]

She sounds sexy

[winterfox10]

You have no idea 😍 little Telugu cutie

[Anonymous]

It really depends on the girl and if I find her attractive or not. For example, I’m friends with girls who are really cute, and sometimes I may think about them sexually, but that’s only really if I’m feeling turned on. Otherwise I’d just except that they are attractive people and get on with life.

[ImagineSketchy]

I don't. My female friends are just friends. I can't really fantasize anyway. I lack the people imagination.

[s4431915]

Sometimes. For men its a fine line between a good friend and something more.

I dont think its bad. Its more about how you deal with it. Surely if a guy has respect and some decency just having feelings aren't the worst thing ever. Its natural.

[Zepher]

I've had a crush on my female friend before we even became friends. I can tell she doesn't like me in that way so i don't try to game her but i still check out her ass from time to time. She is really cute.

[crswalkerr]

Not really. Once a person is a proper friend with me they're just 'one of the lads' if that makes sense?

[ManOnFire]

Yeah, definitely. If she's attractive. And more than once I've been playful with them about screwing them and they just laugh. It's all good, we do just fine.

[Cryostatic]

I fantasize about all my female friends on a regular basis.

I'm in a committed relationship, and wouldn't ever act on it, but it's sure hot to think about sometimes.

[Theft]

It depends on what I have seen... lol! I have a few friends who I ha s fantasized about but most of the time they know my feelings toward them...

[ALpacino87]

If they are taken we I personally don't think of them sexually. Please note friendship between guys to guys is more genuine and trustworthy rather girls to guys or even girls to girls. This is what most girls even told me.

[Anonymous]

Yeah pretty much every girl we see or know...

Even if they are ugly and not our type, we still do...

We get a lot of chances, most guys twice a day... That's potentially 700 women a year we can fantasize about.

[FinalVow]

that way meaning sex? no but I do occasionally wonder if any of my female friends would date me.

[worldscolide]

Depends on the friend. When i was much younger, id have to say yes, but now.. after 5 years of marriage.. Never.

[SaintRaghu]

They wouldn’t be friends if I did lol, they are for a reason!

[Vasco423]

Oh hell yes. And you would be lying if you said you never imagined yourself riding your hot friend's cock

[NormanL]

Sometimes. Could be anything. A look given. A sentence spoken in a certain way. A touch. But yep. It most definitely happens. And if they say it doesn't. They are lying or it hasn't happened to them yet.

[therainman]

Fantasizing is one thing. It's just you and your imagination. I can do that all I want but I'd never cheat on my girlfriend with any of her friends. No matter how hot I think they are.
Then again I'm single...

[crazy8000]

No.
I did putt them in the friendzone.
Actually I don't fantasize about that with anyone, that's something that happens IRL for real when it gets right.

This topic is about the same for both genders, some fantasize, some doesn't.

[steveguitar]

Some of them, may e most. Depends if we're attracted to them in the first place. Sometimes they are all in the same room at the same time lol

[CollieWinters]

Once upon a time, yes. I’ve learned not to fantasize about people I know (friend, crush or otherwise) as it may sully the actual experience.

[JSmith925]

More often than not, they have at least considered it.
~JSmith

[Kitty369]

Yes they do! Girls do as well! But these are just normal thoughts will never be an action! I guess it is just normal nothing special with it as it means nothing

[naughty_dost]

Depends on the relationship

For friends we respect and really consider FRIENDS, No!

[FreshPringles]

No. Because she is not my girlfriend. She is jusst my friend

[BraveRecreation]

Of course, we do we have nothing better to do other than daydreaming that's why we failing all out exams.

[Asker]

Aw, I'm just seeking real opinions, don't get offended, nothing personal 😊

[BraveRecreation]

I m not offended I was serious :)

[BraveRecreation]

I failed my first-year medical exam just checking this chick in front of me.

[Asker]

Ohh okay

[BraveRecreation]

nah not really I m not never horny enough for that.

[BraveRecreation]

sorry I didn't meant to lie to you I know how much it means to you I hope I haven't offended you.

[isbey]

I jerk off thinking about everyone I know, male or female.. or other

[weclock]

Sometimes, not most of the time. Usually porn is good enough. I don't like fantasizing about people I know too much because it gives you expectations and if you do hookup with that person later you can be disappointed.

[Billyscotter]

Having a female friend is foreign territory for me. The last time I had a female friend, I was a kid.

[datgirl]

I'm 100% certain most of my guy friends, if not all, have. I can't imagine them that way, though. Its kinda weird for me.

[Anonymous]

Always, but that doesn't mean I'd do anything about them.

I think it's normal to fantasize about member of the opposite sex.

[lord_chilled]

Yes , most guys do and most guys would f*ck their female friends if they had the chace to.

Which is why men and women can't be "friends".
My future wifey won't be having those, be smart fellas.

[Daniel3035]

That depends on the friend in particular one friend it could be a yes and then when it comes to her best friend it's a no. It's no different to me asking do you fantasise about your guy friends.

[harleydude202]

Yes, guaranteed 103% of us has. I have. Now that being said, does it mean we would sleep with them given the oppurtunity? You would be surprised the answer.

[Russwill]

I would say depends on there relationship is it friends or more like FRIENDS!

[Phoenix941]

Things cross the mind but doesn't mean those thoughts will be acted on

[Nahid1234]

Never felt love. My female friends don’t talk to me anymore.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Hell yes... I mean after all female friends are just girls we wanted to hook up with at some point but it didn't happen

[Anonymous]

Yes

When you are lonely and despressed you can make a story out of thin air for any female friend. Just need to use your imagination.

I sometimes regret doing so too.
very sad life..

[angel422]

Every guy does , it "doesn't depend" just a thing that will run through your mind what depends KS how often.

[JChrome]

Depends on the girl. I have a friend who has a nice body and I was attracted to her like that when I first met her. But I just can't see her like that anymore

[007James007]

Depends if they are cute or not... also depends if im in love or just dating. Also if the relationship is complicated or not. I think we all have thought of something but never act or say anything about it.

[Anonymous]

What exactly does 'that way' mean?

I probably think of most girls in my life 'that way' at one time or another. How frequently depends on how attractive they are, our personal connection and how much I'm around them.

[pasoccer]

If my female friends are cute, and I think of them that way, then definitely. I only have one cute female friend I do t think of that way.

[Hiilo]

Weeeeell it depends heavily of the said friend. I did had such thoughts (shame on me) with some friends in mind but its not a generality.