I caught my guy friend going through my underwear drawer?

[Anonymous]

So me and my guy best friend are really close and we hang out almost every day and he comes over almost everyday. Today when he came over we were in my room watching a movie and I left to get us some soda. When I came back my door was cracked and I saw him by my dresser going through my underwear. I acted like I didn’t see and made some noise coming up the stairs so he heard and we finished the movie. I don’t understand why was he was going through my underwear though. Should I confront him about it? I feel a little violated.

[bacca400]

He has some kink about girls' underwear, and the excitement might involve stealing them too. He probably is too embarrassed to ask about one so he steals them. Some guys like clean ones, some like used ones as the used ones sometimes have hormones on them that are a turn on (I had to read this in a science mag).

There are actually web sites that sell panties, clean and used, of girls and guys. They can go $30 a pop, you could make a lot of money doing this.

[Kyren]

I'm sure his curious, yet perverted mind wanted him to know what kind of underwear you wear to find out more about you. If you felt violated about him going through your personal belongings like that, kindly inform him that there are certain places you don't want him to be peeking around.

[justabadassgirl]

Maybe wanrs to get with u. He's pretty creepy tbh. He deosnt know personal space I guess

[Asker]

He’s actually really cool but yeah that did creep me out a little

[dedbirb]

Next time cover all the panties in period blood and I promise he will no longer check your dresser.

[Asker]

Lmaoo gross but true 😂

[xxxdovahkiinxxx]

I would definitely confront him about it. Going through your underwear drawer is definitely not something he should be doing.

[Drumlin2001]

If you feel wronged by it then yes confront him.
He sounds like a slightly immature guy who just wanted to see some panties, but if he's hurt you he needs to apologise. And he needs to know not to donor again.

[Ephemera1]

*Under 18*
He's just curious but yeah you should definitely confront him. That way he'll take the L and probably won't do it again to anyone else. Plus I wouldn't be alone around him too much.

[jacquesvol]

Anonymous (Under 18)

Guys your age can be terribly curious and horny.
Confront him or forget it.

[Dinnye]

Yeah. You should. He has no business there. You shouldn't feel violated, your underwear should be. This was a badly perverted move from him though.

But I'm pretty sure he faps to you, so...

[Asker]

Ew I see him more like a brother lol

[Dinnye]

Yeah. He doesn't see you that way.

You really need to talk to him about this.

[Lifeasasasavage]

Yeah he def faps to her😬😂😂

[Anonymous]

I did this while viewing apartments last weekend. It was an apartment that three students were currently living in, all of them were out, I checked their underwear drawers for vibrators.

[Asker]

You didn’t know them personally?

[Opinion Owner]

Never met them

[HaoleHubby]

Yeah, definite violation of trust. Super common fetish, but severely misplaced. You should probably talk to him, he's going to be embarrassed, but there are societal boundaries that are in place to prevent stuff like that!

[jasco]

he is a pervert and if u feel unconfrotable about it then tell him

[Urstupid]

Makes me shudder. I have 3 younger sisters, their underwear was constantly mixed with my clothes in the laundry. My pants smelled bad when mixed with their underwear.

[rosyface122]

I'd confront him privately. Definitely kinda odd like obviously he's curious but I'd question it. Just kinda sit down and ask 1 on 1.

[bigtasty2]

I'd talk to him. You can also make a bit of money and see if he's interested in buying some. I mean... That's what friends are for isn't it...

[bacca400]

Lol. I actually mentioned websites that sell panties in my post.

[ThePundertaker]

Yeah that’s pretty wrong

[Anonymous]

tHis KinD Of PeoPle eXist in tHe WoRld? SeRioUsLY

[Anonymous]

the best panties would be the ones in your hamper

[Anonymous]

He's a boy, you're a girl