What does it mean when a guy says “I’ll fuck you up.” to a woman?

[Anonymous]

My sister was talking to this boy As he kept on being a creep and trying to get her to come to his house when she hardly knows him. So he was like to her “I’ll fuck you up.” When she wasn’t listening. Then she was like “do u mean beat me up and he said “yeah.” Does he mean be violent or sexual?

[Lewis_Turner]

As you’ve already said, this guy IS a creep! Tbh honest I’m not sure if what he said was sexual or just an act of violence, but either way this guy is still harassing your sister. If he beats her up he’ll go to prison, and if he forces her into sex he will go to prison. Get your sister away from this guy, and if he asks her to come to his house again then report him. I wish you and your sister luck on your journey 🙏
Lewis

[rain_maker112]

I won't let such a person inside the house. It may mean both. But in most cases, yes, it's a violent case.

It seems your sister does not mind though so it's okay. Stubborn people gotta learn the hard way

[daydreammarie]

How much clearer can that be. Beat her up and he said yeah meaning he will beat her up... that is usually what I'll fuck you up pertains to I have never heard it being used for sexual, only I would destroy you. Lol. Anyways she needs to block him stop talking to him and go to the police if she hears or sees him again. Be safe!!

[PondyPand]

Read your last bit. "Do you mean beat me up" "yeah". There it is. Beat up is violence, also rape is sexual violence. So it doesn't truly matter.

[Asker]

I just thought cause some guys use that as a sexual term

[Natalie11299]

It doesn’t sound like it was sexual, but it could’ve been. It sounds more like beating her up.

[gcm13]

I would report that to the cops. That is both sexual and verbal harassment.

[FemWorship]

Rough sex
using her body however his sexual hungers need to be fed, often in ways she's never experienced and usually to some acts object with passions ignored
also including the options of beating her to get his way in some things/acts
but
sometimes it could mean that the gal is so overwhelmed by all this new kind of sex, she's fuckedup mentally/emotionally in craving it more and begging for it (in his dreams)

[MrSpine]

Well, probably violet you should of called the cops because that was a threat and aimed to a woman. I doubt it is sexual because your sister was leaving and the guy got frustrated with her. But it could of been a chance of being sexual. I would recommend to call the cops and avoid and get a restraining order on him

[LongWhiteBeard]

did he beat her up after saying that?
no? then he's an idiot for saying "yeah" then does nothing and goes to play video games or something. But he's a bigger idiot for not going after the hotter sister :D

... sorry

[TadCurious]

It's a very threatening thing to say and she should be very careful. In my state in the U. S., that would be considered a "terroristic threat," which is a crime.

[jalebkackson]

Doesn't sound sexual. Hopefully it was just a poorly timed, tasteless joke. If that wasn't the vibe I'd cut him out of the picture before he cuts something out of you.

[Roockit]

It ALWAYS depends on the two people involved but if you did not see any sign this violence is concerned start talking to your sister to keep distance from this guy.

[sugarette]

I would say both. Given the context, he was trying to intimidate and threaten her. He seems like a freak either way.

[Andrew_bb]

Tell him you'll report him to the authorities via text. He'll send something saying obnoxious and stupid. Ask him what will he do. He'll be an idiot and tell you everything
Take that to the authorities. Then he'll be begging

[Andrew_bb]

Or if you've got some big ass friends, just go there and fuck him up. Oh and after that block his ass as well

[Dreamweaver671]

He is frustrated being a loser. She should avoid him. I do believe he was trying to be sexual but when called out he had to poster.

[keenybmr]

Get a few of your guy friends to threaten to beat his head in if he dares to come anywhere near your sister

[jimyee]

Don't really know what he meant but it's a red flag for sure and she should not talk to that dude ever again.

[JDavid25]

He was threatenin to beat yo sister up.. Y'all could charge him wit battery.. LOL..

[JDavid25]

I meant assault.. LOL..

[Asker]

So it’s defo not sexual in any way?

[Asker]

Even if his English isn’t great 😂

[JDavid25]

Well, there is a possibility that it could have been.. But he did agree to the term bein meant to beat her up.. So there's that..

[YangBH]

violent. he just said yes when your sister asked him if he's gonna beat her up. call a police before anything bad happens.

[Jodiekynasexy]

Sounds like a good old fashion curb stomp is in order. Don't let that little bitch threaten your sis like that.

[1truekhaleesi]

It means buy yourself a taser or gun and let police know.

[anon4us]

Prob sexually since from all the invites he prob just wishes a great deal of intercourse from her

[KAF87]

He is a total looser. Tell her to stay away. Fuck you up means hurt you.

[Wizard-of-bras]

I agree, he’s a “looser”. 😂😅

[HolyPrepuce]

That all depends on what your sister likes. She might be into that kind of stuff. And she might not , which would not make it good. And she should call the police on his ass

[Aeleen]

Omg violent. Keep your sister away from that dipshit creep. Gosh!

[DoctorJosh]

Sounds like he's a sweet guy with sweet intentions, give a ring to the cops

[TheKevin]

I've never used it in a non violent way. Ove never said it to a woman though he could just be a creep.

[Dinnye]

Violent, basically.

I would not say that to a woman ever.

[Asker]

Why would he even say that! So vile !!!

[Dinnye]

Hehh. I answered even b4 your invitation. Daaamn I'm fast.

[Dinnye]

Because he is an idiot/asshole.

[wooshan]

Most likely violent not sexual. Never have I seen this expression used in a sexual way. I would be thinking about calling the cops

[chasedaking91]

Where i come from "imma fuck you up" is ALWAYS a bad thing! Tell your sister to be careful.

[Italiano19777]

Well from the way you explained it may mean anything lol.

[Youarewrong]

This is not a good thing. Find a real man. Then you'll know when he says I'll fuck you up that he's talking about that pussy

[Chazdirk]

It's very violent words. Could mean "beat up her pussy" or physically beat her up. It all depends on his intentions to know for sure

[MarketData]

That's not good. He's basically planning to dismember you and put you in a suitcase.

[C_G_Legume]

You guys... like... do you not even realize you're talking to real people here. Like... dude... ever travel to Canada?

[MarketData]

@C_G_Legume Don't shoot the messenger dude.

[Aafiyat]

Thats threatening.. go file an F. I. R. just in case..

[KhoryESM]

Usually when I hear that it means someone will beat you up

[Demonking16]

Like excuse my French fuck her hard until she has a big orgasm

[impickleddill]

I would tell your sister to get out of that situation ASAP.

[rapfan107]

Sounds like he wants to beat her up. She should call the cops or carry a tazor

[riley014]

The person might mean it in heaps of different perspectives

[C_G_Legume]

Yep. Call the effing cops

[sakalator]

Yup it's more violent then romantic

[trail_addicted]

Lol that's called being a douchebag

[felix_the_cat]

It definitely sounds violent...

[InsertCoolName]

That she should call the cops

[Honglitha]

I think it's beat you up

[imredheaded]

Without full context, definitely sounds violent.

[allabouther]

He means to be violent i guess

[Fancyatrip]

"Do you mean beat me up" "yeah"... it say yes

[RKD31]

Yeah may be assaulting

[Tohhru]

He wanna beat her up or fuuuuck

[Buckzor]

Physically violent

[collegerules]

It can go either way

[JZ909]

Violent.

[KarimM]

Far as I know it usually means to beat you up.

[aestheticsofty]

Violent

[Eldunaro]

Violent

[RyanEC]

No sure.

[ArronTheSubwayKid]

He means both tbh

[Shadowelite]

Violent

[obvioslysingle]

Violent

[stavrospante]

Violent

[veryhungrywolf_]

Both