Why do guys like butt slapping and slapping a girl's butt?

Question

Like what sensation does butt slapping bring?

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I have this man friend who does this. I keep asking him about it and he's mum on the subject. The last time he did it, a few days ago, I looked at him funny and said, "Why did you just slap my butt?" He had this smirk on his face and said, "Well, it was in the way and I was trying to move it along..." which was ridiculous because I was simply walking past him. He was an pretty big time Army officer before he retired and is now a helicopter pilot and we both have pretty dominant, intense personalities. I'm starting to agree with the dominance thing. (that's MY ass and I get to slap it for my personal entertainment) And I think he likes my confusion on the issue. (oh I got her! Finally! Yeah, she's as smart as me, but not about this...) I also think it's a distancing method. Friction. We are both serious teasers. I think it's a tease. It's certainly sexual. But very abbreviated. I once told him a young priest spanked me when I was 16 and he was 27. This was a good looking young priest and we both liked each other a lot. He was a nice young man. Also very smart and wonderful to talk to. It was an abbreviated, but intense spanking and predicated by my arguing with him. The spanking, as short as it was, certainly stopped the argument, embarrassed the hell out of me AND turned me on. HE had that SAME smirk I see on this guy's face when he does it. But what I want from the encounter is a, "I like to slap your ass. It's fine!" or a "Don't you like it? If you don't, I'll stop." or a "Oh, you like it when I slap your ass. Don't tell me you don't." I'd like to get to the, excuse the pun, bottom of this. Maybe he doesn't even know he wants to turn me on. He can only act on it subliminally. I don't slap him, except verbally. Maybe this is his revenge. But he's awfully sharp verbally too. He just doesn't use it unless we're in person. I can write like a mofo. He talks as good as I give in print. It's a turnon, but does he know it? The mystery is killing me.

HollyWoodWhore · Accepted Answer

my guy likes slapping my butt cause it turns me on and it turns him on cause he knows he just turned me on. It lets you get a little more kinky

DDN1200 · Accepted Answer

Lot's of answers for that one! The simple physiological answer is that slapping a girl's butt increases blood flow to that area which in turn increases the sensitivity of her genitals. It's the same idea as twisting a girls nipples. Also, the slapping is stimulating as mild pain which is supplanted by the sexual pleasure that is soon to follow. One of my favorites is that it reminds me of the girl being like a wild mustang and with just the right spure/love slap will cause her to erupt with energy. Then there is the whole male dominance aspect...The sensation comes from when we slap it just right and it makes the loudest clap! Honestly though, the simplest answer is probably the most accurate and it's because we want to excite you! I'm sure there's all kind of Freudian child/Daddy things about it but I'm not sure what they are. ie 'Have you been a bad girl?' ...'Well Daddies gonna have to give you spanking' :D)

pandaninja · Accepted Answer

Its psychological, if I had to guess its about the whole alpha male complex. It shows the guy owns that ass if the girl is OK with it, however should she confront the guy about it, woops there goes his man card. I don't think guys even think anout this our processing is more like look that's a nice ass, I think I ant to smack it. But I am a firm beliver there is a reason for everything so that was my explenation. Anyways if its your boyfriend just let him have it its is the least you can do for him now that you have his balls in your purse.

Brando · Answer

Because it's her ass. It's something that you want to touch anyway, so when you do it's just awesome. It's like the forbidden territory that you just snuck in on and stole a handful of. Also, if the girl likes you and you give her a nice tap, then you wonder to yourself if you turned her on or made her feel sexy.

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of it is the sensation of power. Not many guys would slap a girls butt if they werent dating. It is a nice feeling too because it is something that you get to touch everyday. In other words it sorta taboo.

jshm2 · Answer

Not a fan of it myself. But think of it like this. When you stub your toe or get hurt, your instant reaction is to hit the thing that hurt you. Well, pleasure works like that as well...

dave216 · Answer

We would prefer to just hold it, but girls will slap you for that, so it is best to slap it and get a little distance for safety.

derin · Answer

It turns me on feeling like I have control of her ass...especially if she likes it, then it turns me on even more

Anonymous · Answer

I think your man needs to give you a proper spank sometime, just because you asked such a question :p

tastynut1 · Answer

What else can you do with an full round bubble butt? She also does it to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Never understood this myself. I'm a tits lover.

Quigly · Answer

Only Athletes smack each others butts. Haven't really seen this ritual take place outside of sports.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

A big reason for why we like booty slapping is because we know that women like it.

Engin12 · Answer

Personally I like to hear girls moan. When she does that it puts me in such a good mood wanna do it more.

Anonymous · Answer

never had the urge, seen it done a lot on tv as if its a thing to do but dont understand the motivation

Anonymous · Answer

Well i think it's probably because they want to just feel it. I have a "friend" lol who does that to me all the time. I really don't mind at all. I actually enjoy it, it gets me pumped up. :)