How long ago did you last have sex?

[Anonymous]

So, after talking with a man for over a month, I decided to meet him. We had sex. And then after we were all cleaned up, he asked me a blunt question. "How long since you last had sex?"
"A few months," I said. "Me too," he said.
... is this a normal thing for men to ask? AFTER the deed is done? Seriously.

Updates

+1 y

Please read the details of the question guys. I'm not asking when YOU last had sex. I'm inquiring about that specific question...

[Burgerboy21]

The last (and only) time I had sex (if it even counts) was over three years ago.
The reason I say "if it counts" is because I stopped less than 5 minutes in because my mom was getting back home very soon. I didn't have a car at the time and we were kind of distant (we met in college and this was during summer) and we had no other opportunities before we stopped dating.
I've been in one relationship since but we never had sex and now I'm single for over a year and a half.

[OfDeath]

Why don't you just get a hooker? That's what they're there for

[Burgerboy21]

Few reasons:
Believe it or not, I don't know how to go about it or where to look.
I don't want to chance getting some kind of STD from one.
But most importantly, I'm more of a dating kind of guy, not a 'one-and-done' guy.
With the previous said, I'd only humiliate myself even if I attempted to get a hooker.

[Sarcastro]

that's kind of a strange question to ask, either before or after

[fauchelevent]

This morning

[mobymark3]

He's probably seen to many warnings about VD and has a natural worry about it. I've known more than one friend like that.

[drew23a]

Eh its not regular but its not out of the norm i guess personally i ask before hand but thats a little strange though

[thomasans2]

I have had sex less then an hour before. MY other girl said my dick smelled like pussy

[abc3643]

I think it was November 2008.

[abc3643]

RESPONSE TO UPDATE

Then don't write questions with titles like "How long ago did you last have sex?"
Ask the question that you want to ask which should have been:

"He asked me "How long since you last had sex?" Is this a normal thing for men to ask?"

[Asker]

Lol okay. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

The last time I came out of some pussy was escaping my mother womb 😢

[meme821]

Sometimes they ask is really Nobody's Business

[meme821]

It's just not a man's thing women do that to ask that same question

[Ariarose121]

I am virgin so i’ve never had sex

[partydelights]

Very good. You're still young. Focus on getting your papers, then a good career and some cash. After that, "nice guys" who want to settle down will look at you fondly - not just at your pretty face, but your innocence and character.

Keep on enduring. It's difficult but worthwhile.

[JellyDonutguy96]

@partydelights yeah they will

[JellyDonutguy96]

@partydelights one already did, but you'll never know

[jessture]

I had women ask me that right after sex too.

[jessture]

To your update... maybe make your question more clear next time?

[OfDeath]

Yeah people ask that for some reason

[outside_Toronto]

You're both lying... but yes, it's normal

[BOUNTYGUY9]

a very long time ago are you free