What are your opinions on chubby girls?

[Anonymous]

so, boys, if girl is very funny and smart, how big of a problem is that she's a little chubby, honestly?

[blackisnotacolour]

Since women tend to sugarcoat everything, I consider "little chubby" to be at least fat if not obese. That's a total turn-off. It's unhealthy, it's unattractive, it's off-putting. Sure, you can't consider looks to be the only one and the most important thing, but a girl wouldn't consider an ugly man worthy. He may be funny, smart, you name it (exclude being filthy rich). Women wouldn't bat an eye on him.

Consider this: if a girl like that started working on herself she would be greater than most girls that can offer nothing but looks.

[AlphaGhost]

Well get to gym girl cuz it may not turn me off but it will give a detailed overview of your careless habits. If you can't look after yourself then I would think million times before expecting anything out of you.
I am not saying you should be bare bones but you better not be fat 400 pounder !

[Littlemajere]

Well... my personal opinion is this. Fat you can fix. Ugly you can't. I won't mind if a girl is fat unless they are like above 250+ pounds and i dont see them tryig to fix it because thats just my personal preference. But a little chubbiness i dont see really being a problem. Plus its fun to squeeze sometimes lol the fat or whatever, im a generally fit guy and tbh i would wanna be fat for just a day just to draw a face on my stomach and make it talk lmao. (I know im a weirdo) anyways ig what im trying to say is everyone has a personal preference just like yourself. Some people like girls or guys a little thicc, others like them skinny or fit. In the end it doesn't matter. Change yourself for you. Not anyone else. I personally dont care if a girl is a bit chubby. I prefer a average weight girl. Not too skinny not too fat. But no one is perfect. As long as they have a kickass personality and can turn me on or treat me right and be by my side and not cheat on me or kick my heart in the ass like most girls seem to like to do. Then fuck it. Point that girl in my direction. Like i said, you can fix fat, you can't fix ugly.

[unkqty]

if you're asking, you think it's a problem. if you're unhappy with it, change it. "chubby" is vague. it's not a problem with most guys i know, to include me.
it's ok as long as it's not more than that, which would indicate a bit more going on, which falls outside bounds of the answer for which you have asked.

[wskysourkraut]

Honestly, I met a girl who was chubby and funny and smart. She's now funny smart and super fit five years after I met her because she was also dedicated and goal oriented.

Everyone sells themselves as "funny, quirky, sassy" etc. But if you have some real character that'll catch someone's attention.

[ForteExe]

Depends on what "a little chubby" means. There's definitely a cutoff point where she stops being dateable and starts being a good friend. If I can't tell where her waist ends and her rib cage begins from a glance with her clothes on that's probably where I draw the line.

[AM-205]

Well, In my personal opinion, I LOVE the chubby girls! (Unless it's considered body-shaming, I call them "plump" because it sounds cute) For the record, it will be close to IMPOSSIBLE to find a girl without a bit of chub! Might as well get used to it... I consider myself VERY LUCKY to appreciate, and ADORE chubby girls!

[sodaa_popp]

I'm assuming you're asking how big of a problem it is in terms of dating/attraction.

A little chubby? Most guys don't care. Seriously overweight? Your pool will be objectively more limited. But it works both ways.

[ChurchOfIron]

Enormous problem, for me. Health is very important. Fat is unhealthy. Shows a lack of discipline and lack of an ability to commit to their health. If they can't commit to their own bodies, how are they going to commit to a relationship?

[Drumlin2001]

I'm dating someone who's a size 18 at least. Personality is a big part of it, a pretty face and eyes helps.
The 3 women I've been involved with this year have all been chubby. It's not something I look for, just fell for them as people first

[ecfresh]

Why would it be a problem? I have dated girls who weighed over 200 pounds and were chubby but I still had feelings for them.

[Johnnie1000]

Chubby is not a problem for me unless she keeps talking about it. Being too self conscious is a turn off.