What does it mean when a guy touches your leg with his and doesn’t move it?

[Anonymous]

I was sitting on this bench and my crush sat down next to me. Thing is his friend was the one who made him sit but when he did he scooted super close to me. His shoulder was touching mine and he crossed his leg over his other one so that his leg was almost on top of both of mine. Keep in mind he’s not very touchy.

[BlueBloodBoi]

It means nothing lol, he was just sitting close to you because of lack of space. Overthinking isn’t good. If you like him though you should definitely say something

[Asker]

Yeah I guess. But I'm scared he'll reject me

[BlueBloodBoi]

So you’d rather live with this constant anxiousness and overthink things rather than shoot your shot and find out once and for all?

[BlueBloodBoi]

If it were up to me I’d literally text him right now “Hey, I like you btw”

[Asker]

We are currently on a trip together. That would be kinda bad if he doesn't like me back 😂

[BlueBloodBoi]

Right now are the both of you friends?

[Asker]

Yes we've been friends for 2 years

[BlueBloodBoi]

I don’t see him willing to throw away that friendship just because he doesn’t share the same feelings towards you. If he is then that means he’s not even worth your time

[Asker]

I'm so scared though. Last year my friend thought he liked me. Then we talked about it and he distanced himself. I don't want to go through that again

[BlueBloodBoi]

Hey there’s two choices, three outcomes
1. You do nothing, you keep feeling this way
2. You tell him you like him, he likes you back and sparks fly
3. You tell him you like him, he doesn’t like you back and it becomes awkward/bad

What’re you gonna do?

[Asker]

I wish #2 would happen but I don't want to lose my current relationship with him

[BlueBloodBoi]

Then you’re sticking with number 1. Safe

[Asker]

Safe but sad.

[BlueBloodBoi]

Good luck, all I got to say is some things are worth the risk

[Asker]

But losing him is not part of the risk I want to take

[BlueBloodBoi]

And that’s completely reasonable. Your choice isn’t wrong, it’s just how life is: shitty some times

[Asker]

Life sucks ass

[BlueBloodBoi]

Amen. Best of luck, pink anon

[Asker]

I need it

[Asker]

Thanks

[Nicebutnotlast]

Really it probably means he is as nervous and unsure as you are. Good luck! I don’t envy being that age and trying to figure that stuff out.

[Asker]

Oh it sucks. I just got over my last crush who ended up dating a new girl who became my bestie. Hurt but then I realized I've always had stronger feelings for this guy but pushed them awau

[Asker]

Away

[natai]

He is looking for your response, i think it's called flirting

[Mitinal]

Go for it, give him a few more obvious hints... See what happens.

[skeetskeetskeet]

It means he's to shy to pick you up like a bowling ball

[Asker]

Lmao maybe

[skeetskeetskeet]

Just tell him "dont be scared homie"

[sidzyyy]

Did he noticed about it?

[Asker]

I'm pretty sure I don't know

[sidzyyy]

Are u interested in him

[Asker]

Hell yeah

[sidzyyy]

Then what's the problem, he is your crush and he is coming close to you?

[Guy986]

Maybe he is interested in you

[Asker]

Ha I really hope so. Thing is he never really talks to me. Just teases me and makes fun of me.

[Guy986]

Then you should initialize, if he is a good guy

[Asker]

I don't know I'm kinda scared. A year ago he was accused of liking me and that ended up with him distancing himself. I don't even know what to do. I used to be able to flirt with him constantly but now I'm too chicken and freeze

[Guy986]

Try to initialize yourself.

[Asker]

How Tho

[Guy986]

Talking first, exchange phone numbers

[Asker]

We Snapchat all the time already. And I already have his number. We just never talk.

[Guy986]

Start convos on SC

[karim97]

He is trying to speak with body language lol...

[insomnium95]

He wants a steak sandwich

[Question_me]

He wants you