Do white guys prefer Asian girls to white girls? Do they find them more attractive?

[Anonymous]

I'm an Asian girl and have noticed that all but one of my mates ex's have had a crush on me (either my mate has been told about it or I have been told by the guy). A couple of guys when asked about it they claimed I was 'hotter' than most of the girls they knew.
It seems weird to me as I have never been interested any white guy apart from one of which I am currently dating now. When I asked him why he liked me he replied with me being the following - intelligent, independent, good sense of humour and beautiful.
I personally do not think I am very humorous or beautiful. Could it be that intelligence and independence is a thing white guys admire? Or is it that they find Asian girls attractive in general?

[MementoMori_]

Since you are making generalizations about a generic "white guy" and generic "Asian girl" I will give a generic answer.

Most Asian girls (I am talking about primarily east Asian) have delicate, feminine bone structures and are petite. This is attractive to many white men. Many see slim and delicate as attractive in a female form.

Also, the dark straight hair and youthful facial features is attractive to many white men.

Part of the attraction is also the mystique of "opposites attract." But in general I don't think it is so much their personality traits as their looks.

To me it also seems that Asian men also tend to have that feminine bone structure. So I am fascinated when women find Asian men attractive. I would think they think they look effeminate.

[Asker]

Thankyou very much for your comment, it has helped me understand quite a lot and you seem to be right on a lot of points. Also I'm sorry if my question came out rude or offensive to anyone (I was not intentionally trying to generalize), it just helped to get my point across.

[MementoMori_]

I do not think you were rude at all. If anything the first sentence of my response may have been unintentionally stern and I am the one who apologizes if it was too harsh. I welcomed your question and find that question interesting myself. I am a white America male and I find Asian women in general extremely attractive for the reasons I described. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to think about this.

[Asker]

Oh right okay, no worries. :)
and you'

[Asker]

*Thankyou for your insight.

[lightbulb27]

to me attraction is familiarity... I had no exposure to Asian when young so it is hard to be attracted. beyond that, I don't know for those who had exposure to both. I think both can be attractive in that case.

[Asker]

Yes perhaps? My boyfriend however had no exposure to Asians when he was younger, yet he was still attracted to me. So it is a possibility that familiarity doesn't always correlate attraction?

[lightbulb27]

I guess possible, I hadn't heard that yet honestly. maybe via movies, artists or such would still be influence. I had 1 korean boy in school til college time. by then, our minds are formed.

[Maryluna911]

As an Arab women i do agree its hard to find an ugly Asian girl but on the other hand its hard to find an extremely beautiful one either unless she's mixed with white. Asian women tend to look very similar across the board in comparsion to other races and this may be due to the fact of similar features and skin tones. I feel Asian women are the next safe option for white men next to white women because a lot of other races actually don't prefer Asian women.

[DianaWest]

well, the majority of white men are married to white women, so i don't know.

[tonicandgin]

a lot of guys have "yellow fever" and it's kinda annoying

[MementoMori_]

Annoying to the guy? Or to girls? :D

[tonicandgin]

@MementoMori_ girl

[abc3643]

I am white and I find Asian girls to be very hot. One of my great regrets in life is that I never had a chance to date an Asian girl.

[abc3643]

One thing that you may need to worry about is "Yellow Fever" which is a fetish many non-Asian men have about Asian women. It's all about Asian women being quiet and subservient to men in their traditional Asian cultures. You don't want a guy with Asian fever. You want a guy who wants you for you regardless of your traditional culture.

[Asker]

Yes I agree with you and I am aware that some men do think like that.
Thank you very much for your comment though.

[abc3643]

Thanks.

Yeah, that's not me - I do not have Yellow Fever at all (*). I just find lots of Asian women hot physically.

(*) I DO have "Yellow Fever", the 1975 Hot Tuna album.

[Asker]

And there's nothing wrong with that. :)
Haha cool.

[BeMuse]

In general I don't find Asian women more attractive, but there are some cute Asian girls. Sure there are a lot of personality traits that matter a lot. Intelligence is a big one for me.

[Kurαȷ]

The average Asian woman is more attractive than the average woman from any other race.
But the most attractive Asian woman doesn't really compare to the most attractive woman from most other races.

That's how I see it, personally.

[winterfox10]

A lot of white guys like Asian women, it's a femininity thing. Asian women tend to have smaller frames, poutier lips, long silky hair. White women don't have that same exotic appeal.

[IndigoEarth]

In general I find Asian girls have better character and behavior than white girls have...

[Lance1965]

Asian girls often get the reputation of being far more faithful so that might have something to do with it.

[ravenengr]

I wouldn't say I prefer Asian over white, but I do enjoy them and I actually lost my virginity to one... its been too long though since I've been with one.

[Anonymous]

I like Asian girls more than other girls. And I'm white.

[ohnoo]

I don't know why, I have something with Asian Girls, find them very hot.
White girls are also pretty cool too.

[arun934]

I prefer a girl with good character. Not where she belongs to

[AynonOMouse]

I'm White. I usually like the personality and build of Asian girls but am rarely attracted to their facial features.

[thebigc]

It depends on a lot of factors but certain qualities are desirable and they may be ones you have.

[Rogzi]

It's common knowledge that Asian girls are the most sought after among all races of men
The shit about intelligence and beauty was a line he fed you.

[Redstang88]

Some certainly do
Personally I’ve never been into Asian girls

[ChiPaPa]

I have no preference in terms of race or ethnicity.

[smeezing]

It's totally your race and not your personality

[JCT666]

I'm white and I'm not into Asian women.

[Giggletr0n]

I personally all races equally attractive!

[MementoMori_]

/\/\/\ Bettin' $100 a Democrat.

[Giggletr0n]

@MementoMori_ You lost that $100! At best I am a centralist - I take no political side

[MementoMori_]

Yep... thought so... Registered Democrat. They all use that same comedy line.

[Giggletr0n]

@MementoMori_ You are sounding suspiciously liberal right now...

[MementoMori_]

I'm not saying you're not entitled to your opinion. I'm just saying I find it humorous.

[Giggletr0n]

Cool, you are entitled to yours now matter how wrong it is 😏

[Anonymous]

I like latin or white girls best.

[Anonymous]

Asian girls are hotter.