Guys, describe your realistically perfect girl (personality wise)?

[Dearcupcake]

I posted this in the wrong category so I'm re posting.

I will return the favor and describe mine :)

He had to be a gentleman.

Committed, Responsible. Conservative (but not intimate wise)

Attentive but not clingy.

Confidant. Not cocky and not pushy.

A shoulder to cry on.

Patient. Takes care of himself but also care about how beautiful she is. Balanced. Loving, gentle, passionate .Listens carefully to what she says and makes an effort to understand what she means. Show her you will take care of her and take an interest. Be genuine. When he is around others he is sure to let the world know she's his and his only. He is not overly protective because trust is very evident in the relationship. He doesn't bat an eye at the beautiful young lady standing in front of him. Even if human nature begs for it. Lets her know she's important.

Your turn ;)

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And the man deserves a woman who wants to please him ;)

[boribori90]

-A mysterious, beautiful, yet open mind.

-I'd like a girl who can make me think as much as she can make me laugh.

-A crazy sense of humor to compliment mine would help too.

-Confident, but a quiet confidence is good. Being obnoxious isn't something I can tolerate for very long.

-Intellectually curious.

-Very affectionate! Or at least tolerant of this. It's a weakness of mine.

-Is her own person. Doesn't feel pressure to conform inside and out. It makes sense to act normally in public, but only as a persona, and isn't 100% practical and predictable all the time.

-Good person.

[Ezmotts]

I can't describe her, but I'll know her when I see her.

[Disputin_Rasputin]

My ideal girl? Someone who is kind, loving, trustworthy and someone who can tolerate my dry, combustible humor. She doesn't have to have to be the prettiest girl in the world; just someone with a heart.

And speaking of heart, she needs to have a pulse too.

[matt524]

My ideal female: Confidence, confidence, and even more confidence.

If a girl is confident in herself, she's an instant keeper.

Realistically, I want a woman with an edge to her and has an outgoing way of life. A confident and adamant female with a good sense of humor. I want her to be loving be there for me when the going gets rough. I want someone who can be herself and above all, be committed to a relationship. As a bonus, a girl who likes to play/watch a sport, she's a girl for me. Appreciative and passionate are also key traits. What guy doesn't want a woman who wants to please him every now and then? I hate a girl with a low self-esteem and who is insecure. Instant turn off.

Now that's my perfect woman. I can go on and on with this topic.

[Dearcupcake]

I love your answer. Very very true. Confidence is a huge plus!

[matt524]

I can't stress that enough, dearcupcake. Hell, I'd take a girl faking her confidence over telling me "I am so fat and ugly, I need to lose weight and get a nosejob to be pretty" everyday. That just brings my stress level way down. If I'm being stressed out because a girl isn't confident, it's a problem. Confidence is the biggest trait a girl can have in her personality.

[Dearcupcake]

I agree. There are going to be those day where she doesn't feel her best but you will come to realize her confidence also resides in you. I hate when guys are not confidant as well. Not cocky though just confidant.

[matt524]

Yeah, for sure. I understand that there are always bad hair days or your not feeling your best. In a way, it's up to us to make a girl feel confident by complimenting her. Being a guy, I couldn't imagine being with an unconfident guy as a girl. Either way, confidence is just something both a girl and a guy should have. Being cocky is just going overboard.

[Dearcupcake]

Again! I couldn't agree more. :)

[Phoenix1991]

My perfect girl is free spirited ,adventurous, but compassionate and understanding. Always up for something fun to do, Never a dull moment with her =). She's funny and smart as well, that's pretty much it for a perfect girl, And many girls are wondering that could be anyone. That's the point, Most or All guys perfect template for a girlfriend or wife could just be an average girl. =)

[Dearcupcake]

Very cute :) I loved this.

[Phoenix1991]

lol why thanks =D

[myspacemybroke]

I kind of go for the darker personality. Something about having conversations to do with eviscerating people turns me on. Also just to have the general opinion that I was incredibly amazing. Haha no, but really I don't think I could be with anyone that had anything other than a stellar opinion of me. Of course I'd feel the same towards her.

[Dearcupcake]

oooo, like mysterious :)

[myspacemybroke]

Eh I guess to an extent yeah

[TylerMMA]

Attractive, kind, spontaneous, funny, intelligent, enjoys my dark humour/sarcasm. Has tattoo's (I can't help that its a huge turn on and you did say perfect). loving but not clingy. oh and trustworthy, I'm in the navy and we get cheated on a lot.

[Dearcupcake]

Cheated on! No one deserves that!

[TylerMMA]

it happens when we are away for 9 months at time... that's why I will NOT get married while I'm on a deployable status.

[Dearcupcake]

That's horrible. I don't see how a woman can do that when her man is out doing his duty. Goodness...

[TylerMMA]

its more common than you would believe.

[mac9645]

The Perfect Girls Personality:

Genuine Care and Emotion

Self Confidence

Good Sense of Humor

Outgoing and Will to Succeed

Flirty and Interesting

A Conversationalist

Someone With a Dream they Hope to Live Out

Someone I can Trust and Call a True Friend

Has siniliar interests as me

Open mindedness to New things

Has the Ability to Speak their mind and back up What they say

[Dearcupcake]

Genuine Care and Emotion is very important in a realtionship, yes. It's always good to know that you can trust the one your with. Overall I love your answer :)

[Paramore_fan]

I don't want to seem snooty or anything but that basically is me except for the fact that I don't know your interests.

[mac9645]

well its great to hear that you've got such a great personality then :) hopefully you can use all those skills to findthe right guy for you chica :D

[joshschmidt]

My perfect girl is just that MY perfect girl. Everyones is different, You may think oh perfect girls catorgorize in certain catagories... BLAH BLAH BLAH. The perfect girl is yourself, if you can be yourself without any holdbacks living in the moment, than you are the perfect girl. Suck on that

[snackeyg]

It's weird I can't seem to come up with an answer for this. Never having dated before makes it tough. All that comes to mind is not a bitch.

[shaft757]

Nice pic, what was the question?

[Dearcupcake]

Ahaha, Distractions...

[shaft757]

Yea, I meant it as a joke & as a compliment but apparently being corny & flattering will get me a thumbs down... a woman needs to have a goal, not to just settle for whatever a man can give her. sense of humor, some sort of beauty(which has many forms). Some sort of intelligence, not too clingy. basically it will be different for everyone but everyone wants someone enough alike them to not search for topics of mutual interest, and enough minor differences to know she isn't only trying to appeas

[Dearcupcake]

=D love it! Your post is pure awesomeness.