Why are some guys obsessed with girls with them when their hair straight, and why do certain guys enjoy pulling hair during sex?

[Erica34]

So long story very short. Last year and the year before I would ask guys, what are there preference with girls in hairstyles do they prefer long hair or short hair curly or mixed texture, and what looks best on my head. So they gave their opinions, And more then enough told me that I should wear my hair straight. I am African American, with fluffy soft hair and curly coarse hair. So I have been natural for so many years now. And even if I do straighten out my hair and get it pressed. It won't stay like that 4 ever, and if I do the process of wrapping it up. Then YES! it will be straight, but I also lose my natural curls when I keep my hair straight. And it takes a minute for them to come back. And also, why are certain guys into hair pulling during sex?

[Herbie_Otch]

I find it hard to answer why people prefer something. I can't even explain my own preferences sometimes, and I suspect everyone's reasons are different.

I love my wife's natural curls, but I admit I love seeing her straighten her hair. If I had to guess the reason I like it, it's probably because it's different, so it grabs my attention, and it obviously took effort, showing she is investing in how she looks that day/night. I appreciate the effort. It's also how she usually styles it when we go on dates, so maybe I have that positive association too. But I really do love her curls as well, and don't think I've ever found someone unattractive just because they have curly hair.

I never was all that into hair pulling specifically, but sometimes a good, physical romp might involve some playful wrestling or hair pulling. My wife absolutely loves having her hair pulled during sex though.

[Erica34]

Can you answer this. Why don't my friends with benefits of ( 5 ) years, why did he stop hitting me up and asking me for sex? ↗

[Herbie_Otch]

Done. Good luck!

[markscott]

Different guys, like different things, including how they like hair. When guys like pulling hair, if they are actually pulling it, it has always struck me as being abusive or making their own pleasure more important than the girl's pleasure.

[Erica34]

Why don't my friends with benefits of ( 5 ) years, why did he stop hitting me up and asking me for sex? ↗ can you also answer this. And Thank You

[markscott]

Erica34: most likely because he has found a different interest, either a different friend with benefits, or has a girl friend. This happens for similar reasons that relationship work for a time, then there is a break up.

[Erica34]

Thank You!! It's just unlike him. And usually he would return back to me :(. But.. It seems like- we are done, or like you said in my own words. A occupied with someone else. But, I guess I should put the past behind me anyways.. Huh. I just Dislike, when I do g3t him out of my head and not care to think about him. He tends to pop up later. Smh.

[markscott]

Erica34: Try moving on, and hopefully you will be in a relationship that you like, if he pops back again.

[Erica34]

Thank You!! I hope he don't pop back up. I do, then I don't.. My heart don't need that ✌😎🏃👀😁

[WhiteShoulder]

I had a black boyfriend once and he told me he preferred girls with straight hair. Not sure why.

[Erica34]

Right. Well I'm not racist or against anybody. But it also has been different types of guy's that have told me this, not just black guys for me. And trust me, I DON'T get they send it or anything when they want to see my hair straight. But they also have to remember, that I wasn't born with straight hair. My guess maybe straight hair, is more popular then any other texture hair type.

[WhiteShoulder]

I think you're right

[Erica34]

I mean I don't get offended. I'm just like.. Uh ok..

[WhiteShoulder]

Makes sense. My hair is wavy. Not straight.

[Zorrak]

Sounds like very specific guys you're mentioning and not many guys out there like that

[Anonymous]

It's actually girls who like having their hair pulled during sex. At least that has been my experience.