After he asked me why don’t I like him I told him why and than he slowy started acting up out of anger telling me to stop saying yeah and okay and sending him an thumbs up.
you were in love with him isn’t that being close to someone enough to experience sexual attraction?
so if you didn’t feel attraction, it sounds like you were just not into him.. it’s not bc you are Demi.
also he dumped you so its moot. Most people move on if they are dumped. He is insane thinking you should be waiting around.
i do not understand this drama. You were not sexually attracted to him, He broke up with you , and you moved on. You don’t need more explanation.
i think giving him fancy explanations Makes him feel jerked around.
it didn’t work with you guys. He should know, know he dumped you. He just have been frustrated if he dumped you while still liking you.
do you really think you were in love or see you just saying that to him?
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I’d have clear that up with him. I think so I did really like him and was in love with him. I been feeling lust feelings for him lately I just was telling him my sexuality I’m not lesbian or don’t have an new boyfriend but I did last month. his still hurting.. so I’d have tell him the proper reason why I don’t like him anymore is because he dumped me and than tell him to contact me in an few weeks time. he needs time to accept what I’ve said.. I don’t know if I ever have attraction for him again in future.
You most likely wasn't in love with all you have mentioned. people only fall out of love when they use the kill switch. very few are able to use that and suppress it instead to move on.
Yes absolutely people really CAN shot all that stuff down. I know!!! 😅😐
Rose_88 Thank you for clearing that up for me and I really do think you should clear it up if you can.. Bc the way you first explained it, it was super confusing to me and I’m not even in love with you 😝😊
Yes that’s true. I’m thinking of saying this to him when he messages me. Hi, I’m straight/Demisexual. Not bisexual/Lesbian. the reason why I don’t like like you is because you dumped me. I did really like you, I find myself in lust than in love. I wanted you when you didn’t want me. I’m not ready for love. I used the kill switch to shut down my emotions to move on, I wasn’t in love. Give us both sometime for 3 weeks. That’s what I’m going to say back to him.
it seems like he's pressuring you to like him, and eventhought youve told him why its not really a romantic relationship you have with him, he seems to be upset that you dont like him and then he just keeps bugging you about it.
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Yeah... his still hurting I only felt lust feelings for him lately. I did really like him last year.. into he left me so I moved on.. I’m an Straight/Demisexual women.
Ok so he's invested time and energy and for him it feels like a slap in the face or like he's been getting the run around from you and he's pissed off.
He needs time to calm down and accept what your saying and you need to leave him alone as what's going on is just not good. It seems as though your trying to maintain some sort of friendship but he wants and wanted more.
To him the you saying that probably feels like you may as well have said your a lesbian and then posted images of your new boyfriend. He probably feels as though he's been a really good guy and got stamped on for it. With you both responding to each other that way it's just childish and immature so stop it from you and him as that's contributing to him not being that willing to accept what you've said.
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I meant I’m a Straight women and Demisexual not lesbian And I don’t have an new boyfriend... but yeah that’s why I didn’t respond back to him when he said stop saying yeah and sending him ok and an thumbs up..
Yeah it's just him acting up because he's pissed and he's being rejected, it seems like he's trying to be mature but his emotions are getting the better of him, best to leave it a while to allow you both to calm down and then maybe in a few weeks send him a message, not a hi how are you type of thing as that for a man in his shoes comes across as teasing, it's insulting to get a message like that. A message that explains what your thinking and that maybe you'd like to get back in touch with him as a friend and no more is about the best you should do but I'd leave it for a few weeks first
Yeah, well I dated him on/off for 6 months and he ended it 3 months ago, he rejected me saying he think we would be good as friends. his been texting me hi everyday since 27th of January this year. his still on my friends list, which is good. so I don’t need do the inboxing, at least I came clear to him instead of leading him on... 🙂
Yes I agree it's just that he's hurting at the moment, if you can't understand that then he's better off without any contact with you, if you can then you can understand what I'm saying.
I understand what your saying I did hurt him and he hurt me he needs more time but I won’t block him on messenger... if he does inbox me while his still hurting than I know what to do.. I tell him to please contact me in an few weeks... not an good time to talk.. do u think that would be helpful?
I think that would be wise as your then creating some space for the two of you to breath and reset, I hope that things work out for you and you both can be happy
Well yes.. Hopefully he understands that Inbox and accepts to give each other space and understands friends first. last year the relationship was rushed I didn’t even know him back than but now I do, we both deserve to be happy. I heard his an nice/caring person but I can’t believe I thought he was the bad guy. But if I don’t like like him than I can’t force it.. 🙂 it may be possible in future if I get close to him. What I meant by I find it hard to be romantic interested with men because I get lust feelings for men like crush’s puppy love. I’m not ready for love.
I think you're confused and dont know what you want so you're jerking him around just in case someone better comes around and if not you know he likes you so you can say the word and he'll take you in a heart beat. I think he needs to man up and move on and i think you need to get to know yourself.
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He said he likes me as an friend but does like me that I do his head in. He dumped me out of anger 3 months ago when I still liked him and I don’t like like him anymore, I want to be single and love myself more. I told him we both need an break from each other and told him to inbox me 3 weeks later. To give us both sometime. And that I don’t like him anymore because he dumped me.
His definitely annoyed, he thinks you should still love him but as for you, you've moved on, he's really unhappy that you moved on and doesn't understand your position, I think now his gonna try to find ways to make you feel bad.
Yes I’m just watching his actions now his only send me an game thug life notification but still not in contact and deleted my best friend off Facebook... but his still on my Friends list which is good.
He is a desperate loser it’s pathetic how desperate he is. So much so that he got mad that’s called scarcity mindset he just a mother typical desperate man
Wow, again with that "demi" bullshit? Didn't that trend finally die out like two years ago?
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Nah I’m not lesbian tbh I don’t like like him anymore because he dumped me so I’ve clear that up with him. And I’m more in lust than in love but I think I did love him.
Yeah I said to him Hi, I’m straight/Demisexual. Not bisexual/Lesbian. the reason why I don’t like like you is because you dumped me. I did really like you, I find myself in lust than in love. I wanted you when you didn’t want me. I’m not ready for love. I used the kill switch to shut down my emotions to move on, I wasn’t in love. Give us both sometime for 3 weeks.
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