Brother keeps staring?

[lessieSwinger]

My brother is not good at relationships. He is 23 and single. But nowadays I have caught him staring at my breasts. I have also found my clothes in his room. I don't know what to do. Should I talk to him and how?

[nodnol32]

Tell him you know he's staring. Ask him why he's staring? And also make it clear to him that your clothes belong in your room. Just straight up talk to him. Start with the missing clothes and then change the subject and start talking about him staring at your breasts. If he's hesitant to answer or talk, tell him you're his sister and you'r concerned.

[lessieSwinger]

What if he rejects this accusation?

[nodnol32]

Talk in a serious tone. He will definitely be remotely aware that you might know it. Its worth bringing this into conversation with him. Even if he might deny it, he will probably stop doing it in the future.

[lessieSwinger]

Thank you.

[nodnol32]

Let me know how it goes. Good luck.

[lessieSwinger]

It will take time gathering all the courage. I am a very cowardly.

[nodnol32]

I'm here to talk and help if you want.

[lessieSwinger]

Ok, i am thankful for that.

[FollowtheFellow]

He is a man. It's nothing Personal. He just needs sex and you seem to be attractive though. If you don't wanna make it weird just let it be unnoticed in his eyes. I mean, I am a 24 years old male as well and I even stare at the breasts of my Ex girlfriend's little sister. Not on purpose but I just can't resist, they are just too beautiful.

[lessieSwinger]

Ex girlfriend sister and real sister are different

[FollowtheFellow]

Not if she is underage and I did it even as she was my girlfriend's sister. I even stole her underwear and checked her bra size. Just because I was a horny man.

[FollowtheFellow]

What I mean, it's not up to the Person behind it, it is up to the body the Person inherites. It is the only thing that goes through the mind of a man in such case.

[lessieSwinger]

Still I don't understand it and I don't want that happening.

[FollowtheFellow]

That's naturally but if it calms you down: 1st, It'll stop someday. 2nd, He feels the same awkward for doing it like you when being stared at

[Sari_K]

That's so Ewww...
You should talk with him in presence of ur parents... He's not doing a right thing.. u knw!!!
And just don't meet him when no one is around.
Take proper care of ur defence and make him realise his mistake by talking... And help him find a girl outside home. He's so Disgusting

[lessieSwinger]

I already tried to set him up with girls but it didn't go well. If I talk to my parents and he denies it. Maybe they will take his side.

[Sari_K]

Then they're not your parents... I'm sorry that may hurt, parents have responsibility towards their children,
And which thief accepts his crime on his own? I feel u need to tell this about ur parents...

[Paige90]

My brother looks at mine all the time and I don't care! We are a nudist family so we look at each other naked every day. I also look at his dick and he knows. It isn't a big deal.

[lessieSwinger]

That's is very different from my family. We are ultra conservative. So his behavior is very odd and not permissible.

[Crowejerms]

U look at ur bro dik? Hav u ever gotten horny thinking about it or ever thot it look big

[lessieSwinger]

No I never did that. At least not intentionally

[Crowejerms]

But u hav?

[lessieSwinger]

No I haven't.

[Crowejerms]

I've seen my older sister naked and wana tell her 2 shave he bush

[lessieSwinger]

Our family is not like that. Seeing other naked is a serious crime in my family.

[Crowejerms]

Hav u ever caught him jacking off? When n if u do say something 2 g
Him

[olderirishguy]

Its obviously one of two things. he's dressing in your clothes or desires you but can't have you so masturbates in them. I've a feeling (as you didn't say which of your clothes he takes) it might be the first. Id be discrete and say in a non confrontional manner that he can confide in you.

[Shivvy123]

That's the first thing I thought of too. Maybe he's cross dressing.

[olderirishguy]

Sounds like it. I know a few guys who wear their sisters clothes secretely.

[Theclownn]

You should talk to him I guess. It's really irritating

[lessieSwinger]

I don't have the confidence to talk about this topic. How can I tall to him?

[lessieSwinger]

He may call it a false accusation.

[Theclownn]

You can ask why he has your clothes in his room then he will realize you understand something

[elizamichale1]

Both my brothers used to do it and i even caught them jerking into my bra or panties... and to my surprise most guys do it... so just let them be... there's no harm for u lol

[lessieSwinger]

It's very odd and surprising to me. I am very shocked and keep thinking about it.

[someginger]

Well i would say talk to him about it, tell your parents or try and lock your room when your not in it.

by the way are you in Alabama?

[lessieSwinger]

No i am not from us. I dont have the courage to talk to anyone.

[someginger]

Yeah i would say try and hide your clothes, is he taking the clean ones or dirty?

[lessieSwinger]

Dirty ones

[someginger]

Yeah he defo isn't secretly trans or crossdresser then. Well unless you want some game of thrones shit going down i would say avoid being in same room with him alone and try not to keeo dirty clothes in your basket

[lessieSwinger]

Well we do laundry on the same day.

[Arjunaguy]

If you feel uncomfortable a lot you should talk to him. I think it's a phase until he finds a relationship he might stop when he finds someone.

[lessieSwinger]

Ok...

[cute_short_nerd]

Dats creepy, try setting him up with one of ur friends or something.

[lessieSwinger]

I did but he keeps getting rejected. He is so bad with girls.

[cute_short_nerd]

Maybe he’s gay

[lessieSwinger]

Why do y think so?

[cute_short_nerd]

Well if he’s not good with girls 👀👀👀👀👀👀

[lessieSwinger]

I mean he is not good with relationships with girls but I see him hitting on girlsm

[EngAhmad]

For now don't talk to him but check if he's doing more than staring at your breast
Spying on you while you are naked or bathing or masturbating for. Example

[uhmdontoknow]

This is the weirdest and most stupid thing I've seen today

[EngAhmad]

Why?

[uhmdontoknow]

Because it isn't porn

[EngAhmad]

I believe that the brother who staring at sister breast do all the things which I mentioned above

[uhmdontoknow]

Yeah but your not just sit and watch him checking on you she has to talk to him

[lessieSwinger]

I think he is masturbaying a lot lately but I am not sure to who?

[EngAhmad]

@lessieSwinger I don't understand your comment about whom?

[lessieSwinger]

I mean that I don't know that is he mastubating to me but I know that he is masturbating a lot these days.

[EngAhmad]

Did you feel that he spying you while you were naked or bathing or masturbating?

[lessieSwinger]

Firstly i don't masturbate and secondly I don't bath with open doors so I don't know and he cannot spy while the door is closed

[uhmdontoknow]

Bro why you keep saying to her she's mastrubating

[EngAhmad]

I just asking and I don't know what's your problem with me

[EngAhmad]

@lessieSwinger sorry for that I didn't meant bad things about you.
Finally my advise when he do it again show him that you are angry and say that you are not feeling comfortable with that
Without facing him directly

[lessieSwinger]

I will do it then.

[uhmdontoknow]

Just tell him you don't have to ask why but tell him it makes you uncomfortable or whatever

[MannMitAntworten]

Get a lock for your doors... perhaps even a deadbolt.

[Anonymous]

Get one of your friends to do him as a favor to you. He won't think about you after that. Or find him a friend with benefits.

[Bshu2jdbxb]

I think you have to talk with him

[PureHuman]

is he your real blood brother?
or step brother?

[lessieSwinger]

Real brother

[In_Trance]

What would you possibly say to him?

[lessieSwinger]

That's what i dont know. I have been thinking that for some days now.

[In_Trance]

Doesn't seem like a talking point to me; you have fun with that

[lessieSwinger]

What do u mean

[In_Trance]

I mean, I don't understand what there is to talk about or why you'd want to.

[lessieSwinger]

What nonsense is this. Why would i want it?

[In_Trance]

You tell me; you're the one considering what to say

[Crowejerms]

He fantasizes about u would b my guess

[Thatsamazing]

(yawns)

[Anonymous]

he wants to fuck you