Girls, what is the one thing guys should never say in an argument?

[Jjpayne]

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[MissRomantic]

GOOD QUESTION. I think all guys should ask their women that! Probably no insults or threatening to leave her are the big ones. Refraining from swearing at her would be ideal. "A gentle answer turns away anger" as Proverbs 15:1 would say.

[AmandaYVR]

Another good question, Jj.
I don't know. I am really sick of hearing men say that women are emotional and not logical. That would piss me off if someone said it to me. But they don't 🤐😁

[Jjpayne]

Women say that they are more emotional. This stumps me 🤔 from what I know from girls ask guys it's not true... I feel like a mytake from you could clear this up ☺

[AmandaYVR]

Ooooooh. Funny you should say that. I started one. Got a bunch of ideas down. I've started a few but haven't finished or published them. It's a dicey topic. I'll probably get creamed. Er, yelled at. Argued with. It would be a miracle if I could pull it off.
But you know I was chatting with a friend today and he gave me some good advice. My goal should not/cannot be to avoid people disagreeing. That's probably going to happen, regardless of what I write. You know dissenters love their hobbies.
I find men of gag just as 'emotional' as females. Not that I'm calling them females, I'm just saying, what's the difference? It's just all human.

[Jjpayne]

It's such an interesting topic, in that you will probably get men that are more emotional and women that are more logical and women that believe, like I said, that women are mainly emotional.. I honestly am excited to see the opinions after your post

[angiebangie]

He should never threaten physical violence, and he should never threaten their relationship by saying things he doesn't mean in the moment like 'I'm leaving you, you're on your own' or 'get the fuck out of my house then' or 'we're separating, you'll be happier' if he's going to take it back a day later when he's feeling horny.

[DizzyDesii]

If he calls me the B word, we over FOREVA

[Mystic_Nova]

-Anything about her physical appearance
-her family
-her friends
-the stuff she told him in confidence
- dont call her the b or c word
And that's what I can think on the top of my head

[Flower7]

That's one thing I hate, when people use the things against me that I told them in confidence.

[2troubleiam]

Don't compare your girlfriend with any of your exes or female friends. Don't say things like "aaaaaa my ex Natalie would never do this. she was more pretty she dressed better she behaved better she was more smart etc "

[DanaeAdam5]

-Compare his current partner with his ex
-Anything about the girls appearance
-Tell his partner to calm down
-Threaten his girl
-Insult the girls family or friends

[Agape93]

Make threats
Tell us to calm down
Tell us we are being crazy/irrational/stupid
Wish us harm
Etc. there’s a whole host of bad things to say

[Flower7]

That he slept with someone else.
That the girl is fat.
That he doesn't like the girl's appearance.

[Anonymous]

Several stuff:
"you should get breast surgery"
"you should lose some weight"
"you're stupid"
"don't be hysterical"
"you're as crazy as your mother"
"I've been with better looking girl"
"I have plenty of very pretty girls around me anyway..."
"You're a bitch"
"You're not as smart as you think"

[JustRollTheDice]

Calm down, or when they flip the situation

[TeenageWannabe]

Calm down, or compare her to anything or anyone

[Anonymous]

The B word

[WowwGirl]

You're fat