Is it a turn off if a girl is nervous around you?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy and I get so nervous around him I play it off a lot and act like I'm not but I think it shows sometimes. I just find him really attractive and I dont want it to turn him off me. I probably won't be as nervous once I'm comfortable around him but i'm worried I've already messed it up by being nervous like that. Help please!💗

[PrudentGuy]

I'm OK if she is nervous.

But NOT ok if she let it affect her sexual confidence.

For example her nervousness may cause her to become stiff and unable to relax.

I'll put in all my efforts to help her relax and be calm. If she follows and eventually opens herself up sexually, I'll be very happy.

But if because of her nervousness she doesn't trust me to become vulnerable, I'll probably call off the session after an hour or so.

[Rocco7070]

Being nervous around a boy is usually obvious to him, but its very flattering to many boys, imagine being a boy, a liittle timid, unsure completly what to doo himself and wondeering but not looking , about making sure, his pants are zipped, and a attractive girl walks up but immediantly he sees she's nervous around him, he's suddenly a proud, handsom and masculin man! Spellings bad, but he sees her, its ok

[FatherJack]

It may be interpreted as lack of interest , most men get much less interest from women than vice versa , and rejection in it's various forms happens to men much more , so they may back off. Tell him straight , women generally do not tolerate perceived weakness from men , but men will give a nervous girl a chance , if they know she is genuine.

[Thatsamazing]

Usually isn't a big deal, we even often like it a bit, but if she's like SOOO nervous that we can't even really talk to her, then it's not even that it's a "turn off" but we're like well, that's kinda weird.

[StephenCF]

It’s adorable during the first few meetings, but if it’s constant, then her lack of confidence becomes a turn-off

[sattvikas]

We'll you started the game , so play with words , and some thought then when you are willing And comfortable, Tell him Open mindedly if what you think.

[RHK36]

Not a turn off, but if a girl is like that with me I may never know how she really feels. Seems counterproductive.

[Bhavin2184]

No.
Eventually after spending time with him , you will stop being nervous around him.

[nissan_dreaming85]

It's not a turn off or turn on. If he's intrested he will look past your nervousness.

[YHL6965]

For me, it makes me want to reassure her, to hug her to make her feel better. It makes me go like "Aww, come here you cute shy girl".

[jasco]

No I mean I think it's weird but no I just ask her what's up

[In_Trance]

it's fine if you're nervous at first; everyone is. But you need to snap out of it at some point

[Wise4myage]

No, its alright and you are just over thinking this. Just try to be less nervous.

[Snakeyes7]

As long as I know she is nervous instead of disinterested.

[Blacksnake285]

Yes only because I think girls are turned off when they get nervous. How do you do with eye contact with your crush?

[Anonymous]

no not a turn off it's kind of flattering. it just takes time to get used to a person you like that's all. it'll happen just give it time

[YungWarthog]

Nope. I think it's cute.

[ThiccBoai]

Haha cute. You're fine, it's adorable

[_DARKNESS_]

Nope not a turn off at all

[TyCobb1919]

Depends what reason is for her being nervous.

[mfate76]

Not a turn off guys love it

[Chriswashere]

Nope ha I think it’s cute

[Cryptic-Game]

It depends on why she is nervous.

[Sampike11]

Not at all, I'd find it cute

[PiffDust]

It's adorable

[AlwaysBelieving]

It's actually cute.

[asshole_]

A little

[F1nski]

Bruh no

[dubbed9323]

No I encourage it