My crush's friend teases me and calls me sister in law?

[Anonymous]

Me and my crush used to flirt with each other a lot. Planning future together also. But he said he used to like someone. And also started to kinda reply showing no interest. So we stopped talking. He used to act like my boyfriend. After few days his closest friend started to talk to me and started calling me sister in law also he used to tease me that I'm his girlfriend. We will be getting married and all. He also tried to flirt but I never let him do that. He used to insist me to talk to my crush and put efforts. And he keeps talking daily. Also one of his friend started talking to me and tried to know my likes and dislikes. And another friend of his started to say if you want I can set you both together. He also likes you. I don't know if he is playing with me also making fun of me in his group or wants to prove his friends that he is popular.

[btbc92]

These guys sound toxic. They aren't considering your feelings or emotions at all, and I think you need to distance yourself from those types of guys. I don't like it when these types of guys just think they can just tell you who your going to be, and yet also playing games with your emotions. The flirting needs to stop. They don't sound serious and you're just getting HURT.

[Asker]

Yep it's true... I'm getting your point

[SP2813]

Okay, wait, your post is not clear.
Is your crush still talking and flirting with you?
Is the friend of your crush still talking and flirting with you?

[Asker]

The friend of my crush is

[SP2813]

In that case, the whole thing seems messed up. Either or both of the two guys have feeings for you but they might be using you. Better to get out of there. Talk to new guys whose friends won't be scavengers xD

[Asker]

Yep that will be a good solution I guess.. thankyou

[Asker]

How to know... who is having feelings...

[SP2813]

Sorry I didn't get your question. Whose feelings are you talking about?

[Asker]

What do you think who likes me... my crush or his friend

[SP2813]

Well the easiest thing would to be to ask them, " Do you like me?"
But if you are not close friends with someone and they are flirting with you I think there is a good chance that they like you.
What have you planned to do next?

[Asker]

Still not decided what to do next... buy if gonna ask them... they will deny

[SP2813]

Well if they deny, they probably don't like you. Or they may be lying. But either way, their loss to lose you. You need to move on. Meet new people. Make new friends.

[Asker]

Yeahhh dude... the guy already came into few relationships nd left the girl by saying I don't feel anymore

[SP2813]

Then why are you still after him? Let him go.

[Asker]

I'm not after him... even we don't talk

[SP2813]

Then why are you curious as to who likes you? xD

[Asker]

Just for knowledge... hahaha

[SP2813]

then just ask them. there is no way to just tell who likes you in what way.

[Asker]

My crush confessed me indirectly... but I don't know if he was serious or not... And his friend is now too friendly with me

[SP2813]

Well if he confessed... he does like you. Same for the friend i suppose.

[Asker]

Yep... don't know if they are just fooling around or serious

[SP2813]

Dude just let it go. Stop worrying about it. Why are you still wondering? Move on and find new guys. They sure af aren't hard to come by.

[Asker]

Yaa actually... it's better to leave the people who are confused

[Avicenna]

It's obvious you're crushing on his friend and he's encouraging you to make a move

[Asker]

Yes I do like him... but my crush doesn't like me back I guess.. he said he likes someone else

[Avicenna]

Then talk to other guys

[Asker]

Okay

[Iron_Man]

If you don’t like it call him out

[Asker]

What does my crush feel about me?

[Iron_Man]

He likes you

[Asker]

But he said he likes someone else

[Iron_Man]

Then he likes two women

[Asker]

Hahaha..

[Iron_Man]

Lol 😂