How to make a guy simp?

[Anonymous]

I just need small tips/ideas on things that will break down his walls and make the guy I’m talking to simp a little. He’s stuck in this mindset of “my simping days are over” because of his past failed relationships but I genuinely care for him and I want him to be more affectionate.

IMPORTANT: We are going to be in different cities for the next month or so. suggestions have to be virtual (texts/snaps to send, etc)

Updates

+1 y

ok clearly I have misinterpreted the meaning of simp. I would never want a guy to be submissive in such a degrading way like that. My question was just meant to mean that I want him to show me some more affection, that is all! :) sorry for any confusion!

[I-C3_ME]

Why do you want a simp? It's like having a boyfriend without the sex part. Don't do that to em, it's a sucky thing to do.

If you want to be around him, just be he's friend if you care about him. If you want something more then do that, course he has to be down aswell

[Asker]

That’s not what I meant. Misunderstood the meaning of the word I guess. check my question update

[I-C3_ME]

Well if you want more affection, why not try to make him your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

You are aware that a man can be fully masculine AND be affectionate—even solicitous—to the woman he loves without being cloying, sycophantic, and smarmy.

I hope.

But you *want* him to be a simp?

[Asker]

Nooo, I totally misinterpreted the meaning of the word “simp.” check the question update!

[Anonymous]

Simps are unattractive guys that are so desperate for female attention that they will degrade themselves and allow themselves to be used and abused just to be around her.
Simps belong in the White Night and Cuck family.
What you need is a guy who's confident, smart, loves himself and loves you.
Just a normal, loving guy with some self respect.

[Asker]

I agree, totally misinterpreted the meaning of the word “simp.” check the question update!

[Opinion Owner]

No problem, it's very confusing these days to me as well, as I'm a very affectionate guy who loves women.
I think the thing that separates Simps from lover types is that Simps are guys that chase girls who don't want them and they can't take the hint.
She'll cheat on him and use him and even kiss other guys in front of him and he's still be standing there with a bouquet of flowers.

[shushhhhh]

You've got no confidence of your own so you seek to make a man so submissive that he'd do anything to boost your ego. Pathetic.

[Asker]

Not what I meat, totally misinterpreted the meaning of the word “simp.” check the question update!

[FilmGuy93]

Being a simp isn't what you're looking for lol. Just encourage him to be a nice and considerate person. No one respects a simp.

[Asker]

I agree, totally misinterpreted the meaning of the word “simp.” check the question update!

[tzdc21]

Being a simp and being affectionate are not the same thing. And he's doing what he knows is best for him. In fact, he's doing what more men SHOULD be doing if I'm gonna be honest.

[tzdc21]

Okay I just saw the reply. At least you know the difference.

[joeldalton]

Stop being mediocre pussy instead of trying to make him a simp.