Guys, do you like shy, useless girls?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Updates

+1 y

I mean "useless" in relation to him, who could be confident, not anxious and not shy and who could actually DO things.

[ChrisMaster69]

There is no such thing as some one being useless.

she is fine, however saying useless sounds more like a confidence thing.

Which can be improved.

so the answer is yes as brother can be changed and will through experiencing life.

[ChrisMaster69]

@ pink Anon, refer your update, still same answer, it’s about learning

[serious]

Shy people, shy girls are not useless. Being useless and being shy are two different things altogether.

[Asker]

Yeah, but your anxiety sometimes makes you useless

[serious]

In my view it doesn't but yes anxiety is not good at all. It doesn't do you any good also.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Useless? what do you mean? like she has nothing in common with me? doesn't give affection/love? I don't follow.

[TheSpaceGnome]

also aren't you a bit too young to be worrying about this sort of thing?

[Asker]

No, I'm not too young

[TheSpaceGnome]

lol is that so? well regardless, as for your update, you are still too vague, so I will fill in gaps and hope it's revelant.

gold diggers and women who don't share the same hobbies as men they date are usually not appreciated.

if you want a guy to financially support you, you gotta be the house maid (and stay at home mom if you have kids with him), some guys don't want kids though, and prefer to split cleaning, in which case they would want to split bills 50/50 with you as well.

but again, wait till you are older.

[Asker]

I just feel inferior to certain men who seem confident, mature and social. And I don't know if this type of men would choose to be with someone like me. I guess that they would like someone who is on the same level with them.
And I'm scared to do simple everyday things. I can't even open a door when I'm anxious.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Awe lol, I think inferior is a bit harsh, I think once you actually try doing stuff you will get the hang of it, just give it time. as for maturity level, thats what I meant by "too young", when you are older a lot of that should be ironed out by then.

The primary reason to date is companionship and relatability, don't focus on being useful from a utility point, men only care about that if you want them to give you money or pay for everything.

Basically don't treat a boyfriend like he's your dad and you should be ok.

[FilmGuy93]

That's a hell of a way to describe oneself. To answer the question; NO. I avoid people like that with a passion.

[clampfan101]

Shy? Sure. I’m shy too. lol :)
What do you mean by “useless”?

[Rohaan2020]

Yess ofcourse... shy girls are mostly cute and sweet

[Anonymous]

I like.. Im dominant man tho
Are you submissive?

[Asker]

Yes, I'm a sub, and shy and useless

[Opinion Owner]

Would u like to talk in private if u didn't mind?

[Ironic_Method]

Absolutely. They can be useful to me.

[Paulychicago10]

Why would I want a useless female?

[Asker]

🤷🏼‍♀️

[Paulychicago10]

In your context, I was thinking differently from yours

[BennyClark]

Depends on how useless are we talking?

[lycanthrope3]

i like shy girls, do not understand useless

[Asker]

It means that you are more capable than she is. It means that you can DO things but she can't

[JesseJayNeak]

Just because she's shy doesn't mean she's useless

[Yamama]

What does “useless” mean?

[Bhavin2184]

Yeah..

[In_Trance]

stop... you troll

[Asker]

No, it's just how I feel

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Useless?

[Anonymous]

fuck no

[Asker]

So, what's your type?