He's often one of the 1st people to watch my instagram story?

[Anonymous]

I post a story, he watches it within 10 mins. He’s done that the past 4 times consecutively. Also he never miss my story. I like he wants to see what I'm doing, but I have to reach out to him first when texting in the DM’s.
Why?

[Searlas]

Because viewing your IG story doesn’t necessarily mean he’s after anything.
Let me explain: With the current trends, app developers are adding AI - machine learning capabilities to apps, for example, google learns what you search on the web, where you visited etc and next time you search, it suggests your search depending on your last search, this is what all other apps are doing, this is what WhatsApp want to do that’s why it’s forcing people to agree to the new usage terms to be able to get information, data from its sister apps - learn what you do on the other apps.
Now, back to your question, When you view a story on IG, IG lists that account in your priority list, you view another story under the same account again, IG moves that account up the priority list in your story line. Note: it doesn’t matter whether you actually clicked that story or if it was viewed as a story line like slideshow but it’s indicated as viewed irrespective - you mostly have noticed that , when you click an IG story, IG runs all the stories in your story line to the end. So, when he viewed your story, it doesn’t necessarily mean he was ONLY viewing your story specifically, your story might be viewed first because it might be listed first in his storyline priority list as well have been viewed along other stories in his story line, also the guy doesn’t seem to be busy doing other stuff other that being on IG, waiting for new stories. Am I making any sense?

[Asker]

I’m sure my stories are first in line on his ig feed vecause he watches them so much. He’s a working man that has friends it Just feels weird that he happens to be on ig when I update my story. Couple times I posted my story very late at night during the weekday and he still viewed it within minutes.

[Searlas]

Well, most people’s phones are connected to Mobile Data or WiFi throughout leaving most of their notifications on.

[Asker]

The thing is he won’t get notifications when I’ve posted a story update on ig unless he has specifically put notifications on for my posts...

[Searlas]

LOL, you really insisting gal, on IG notifications
-> Posts, Stories and Comments
-> First posts and stories we have
-Off
-From People I follow
-From Everyone

As long as his option isn’t “off” above, and his Notification Center isn’t turned off at night, and has internet connection, he will get notified 3 in the morning if someone posts.

Many men are always on women posts and stories thirsting not that they want anything more for they already know they can’t anything. Any man who is interested romantically in a woman will make an effort. So, let it not bother you why he views your stories, it’s just for his eyes and curiosity, if he wants you he would make an effort and at least initiate contact.

[Asker]

Lol Inuse instagram a lot and even though I have notifications on for stories etc instagram very rarely notify me when people that I follow on instagram update their story because I use instagram regulary. I get push notifications if I enable notifications for new activity and posts for an Instagram profile on a per-account basis.

[Forlorn011]

Cuz it's working. Look at you.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you or that you're doing anything that's out of the normal. He's just happens to be playing the game pretty well and you may be too since he has no idea or will make any connection to this source. Or would he?

[Asker]

So u think he’s doing it on purpose and is interested?

[Forlorn011]

I can't say for sure of course but he seems interested in something.

Are you a writer, even if unpublished do you tend to write just a few sentences proposed or a few paragraphs? Has he seen a picture of you and have you seen a picture of him? Real pictures well I guess you wouldn't know if he wasn't if it wasn't really him. And then you wouldn't tell me if you were using a fake picture so forget that question. That's so annoying about the internet. In real life I'm a hot big breasted chick, 9 on a 1 to 10.

[Forlorn011]

* Per post should read

[Asker]

Yes he has seen my pics and I have seen his pics. We have bumbed into each other in public too lol

[Iron_Man]

He likes you talk to him. I have a question for you when someone watches Facebook stories does it show that you watched it?

[Asker]

Yes It shows

[Asker]

So u think he wants me to talk to him?

[Iron_Man]

yes---

[Asker]

Why do u think so...

[Iron_Man]

This

I post a story, he watches it within 10 mins. He’s done that the past 4 times consecutively.

[Asker]

He isn’t reaching out to me :/

”Any man who is interested romantically in a woman will make an effort. So, let it not bother you why he views your stories, it’s just for his eyes and curiosity, if he wants you he would make an effort and at least initiate contact.”
Do u agree with this?

[Iron_Man]

It could be that he is very shy and doesn’t wanna bother you and get rejected but he’s very interested in you obviously

[Asker]

Today he viewed my story after exactly 1h... Would u still consider that pretty quick lol?

[Iron_Man]

Yes for sure

[Asker]

Really :D?

[Iron_Man]

Yes...

[Asker]

Why do u think so :Ddd

[Iron_Man]

Lol what Is Ddd?

[Asker]

I meant to send laughing emoji

[Iron_Man]

You’re funny girl

[Asker]

Anyway why do u think it’s still quick when he viewed my story 1h after I posted it?

[Iron_Man]

How many times do I have to tell you he likes you but he’s real shy if you wanna have something with him you’re going to have to go after him yourself. Didn’t we talk about this 4 weeks ago?

[Asker]

But did u knew that in the past I have initiated some conversations with him on instagram?

[Asker]

I thought that it would encourage him...

[Iron_Man]

Write him and just flirt and ask him for a date