Is it not to cum faster?

[Anonymous]

I’ve begun to notice that every time my boyfriend and I have sex he goes real slow. He doesn’t fuck me. Even from doggy style he paces himself. Does this mean he’s trying not to cum quick? I want to ask but he’s so sensitive regarding certain sex topics.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he's trying to keep from cumming too soon so he can give you pleasure. He may also have some issue like being in pain. Try to find a way to tactfully ask him about it. If he's sensitive about discussing certain things he may be trying to keep something from you.

[FunkyMonkee]

Could be. It's also possible that he's dragging it out to give YOU more pleasure because he knows how much longer it takes for a girl to cum.

[CindyRuns]

Are you complaining... having a guy go slow is so hot... at least to me it is !!!

[spartan55]

@CindyRuns
Yeah, but the WHOLE time?

[Asker]

It can be sweet, but in doggy style? I want it hard haha

[whatsthereinname]

Yes... That could be a reason... You can signal him to go a little faster during the act of you want

Going slow definitely helps in lasting long... Or one may try done good day strokes and then slow for a while if they feel they're nearing it... And then again pace up

[RealMarek]

If you and he are going to have a healthy sexual relationship you both need to be able to discuss these sort of things together.

It does sound like he is trying to avoid orgasming too soon, but you won’t know for sure unless he tells you.

[spartan55]

So what if he's sensitive? So that means you have to tolerate lame ass sex? TALK to him about it, be an adult ffs.

[BarryLiverstone]

May be what he’s used to. Usually tempo will vary and depending on position and attitude be fast or slow. But sounds like he doesn’t go fast

[Sam_The_Savage]

You're with asshole who don't even know how to satisfy girl's on bed.

[Yellovv]

Best way to understand that, ride on him and keep going faster, if he cum quicker that means he don't want to cum early or have some issue..

[prettyboy57886]

It's ok ask him out about it and for how long he is having sex with you

[Luckycharms12]

Trying to control himself

[lycanthrope3]

He is trying to last