Tell me about a time you badly wanted to date a girl and be fwbs with a girl?

[Anonymous]

Memory 1: That time you wanted to date a girl so bad
Memory 2: That time you wanted to be FWBs / FuBus with a girl so bad

What were the girls like? How did you behave in those two different scenarios?

[Anonymous]

1. I talked to this girl for over a year. We were supposed to meet up and see where things go. I thought it was gonna be good but we never got to meet and she turned into a total bitch.

2. I really wanted to just constantly have sex with one of my coworkers. We hooked up once after work, but she didn't want friends with benefits. She wanted a relationship. But I couldn't do that at that point. She wound up hating me for using her for sex. But I didn't intend to.

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you ask?

[Asker]

Just curious

[Opinion Owner]

You have any memories for these questions?

[Asker]

Wdym?

[Opinion Owner]

You referred to them as memory 1 and 2. Just wondering if you had any stories for someone you wanted to be with and someone you wanted friends with benefits

[Asker]

Oh yeah.
1. He was this really caring dude. Thoughtful, and a good friend. He wasn’t popular but he was cute. The kind that fades in the background. He was easy to talk to.

2. This guy is popular. He was hot af, but had high narcissistic tendencies. He also used people a lot for personal gain and would “throw them away” after he’s done. Still some people (guys who wanna be him and girls who wanna be with him) would drool over him. He was fun but very manipulative and overall a bad friend.

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting.

What ever happened to the first guy?

Did you ever get the chance to have sex or do anything with that second guy?

[Asker]

I was not good enough for either of them lol

[Opinion Owner]

Aww. Why do you say that?

[Asker]

1 was into his best friend (WAY cuter and super smart)
2 was into women as hot as he was

[Opinion Owner]

I bet you're cute. :)

How long ago were these?

[Asker]

Thanks but I’m just okay.

2 was 5 years ago. Number 1 was 2 years ago…

[Opinion Owner]

I think you're being modest. You seem nice. :)

Did you try to make a move or initiate anything with either of them?

[Asker]

You too :)

No, I didn’t. It was clear what their types were and it wasn’t me.

[Opinion Owner]

Haha thanks.

I wanna ask to PM, get to talk more, but we are both anonymous, so that's funny😂

I understand that. I have had a few girls I liked but never tried anything.

Why the 2nd guy when he had that reputation?

[Asker]

Hahaha oh well 😂

Cause he was hot! And he’s got that charm and magnetism about him. He was funny too and had a lot of influence on almost everyone.

[Opinion Owner]

Would you want to get to know each other?

Interesting. Would you have been satisfied with a hookup or one night stand? Or did you want a friends with benefits or relationship?

[Asker]

Sure!

I wanted to date him for a while then move on eek

[Opinion Owner]

Cool. :)

Are you in the US?

Eek? Lol.

Why just for a while then move on?

[Asker]

Nope. Where in the US are you based?

Cause he’s got attractive traits but he’s no good for long-term

[Opinion Owner]

I'm from Arizona. Where are you based?

Fair enough. Kinda how my last relationship was. Lol. She was really pretty, but she sucked with emotions and deeper stuff. Lol.

You had many relationships?

[Asker]

Ooh let me follow you

[Opinion Owner]

@infinitybreaker2018 is me

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know if that worked. Lol

[Asker]

It didn’t damn

[Opinion Owner]

What's yours? I'll try to find you

[Opinion Owner]

Are you safe space?

[Asker]

Found you