What do you guys actually mean?

[Anonymous]

What do you guys actually mean when you say, "if you want?" Or "if you want to?" For example, if a guy says, "we can break up if you want to", does he not care anymore? Is that him actually saying he doesn't want to be with you anymore?

[Wise4myage]

When a guy says that it means he doesn't care anymore, but he's afraid to just say it.