Turkish men are they trust worthy?

[Anonymous]

I've recently come back from turkey and met someone there. he wants to get married.he works in bodrum and says he wants to stay there but will come to uk for me. I have tested the water with saying any money I have is tied up.he says I don't need when I visit.can turkish men be trusted when he doesn't no me.i am divorced with a 6 year old son from uk

[Anonymous]

Hi everybody. I wanna share my bad experience with turkish man.

Tahir Ure - turkish love rat. He is 34, lives in Bodrum.
He is a fraud and liar.
Married with English woman. Has a dauther.

I met him last year in hotel Ambrosia in Bitez.
Now he works in gumbet in Beach House Cafe. He always told me that he is in love with me that will live together all our lifes.

But then he start to ask me for money. First his father passed away, then his brother comes to prison, then he had to pay big borrow to his bank.
Yes i was in love and i was stuped and i belived in all his stories, and gave him money.
After six month of dating i realized that i'm not the only girl whom he talked about his love. He had a lot of girls and he tell to all of them about his love. And i asked him to back me my money.
Tahir Ure told me to get out of his life, he started threaten my family, he told me that he can hurt my mother. Also he asked his friends in my city to threaten me. So i had to ask for help in the hotel where i met this guy.
After it Tahir was fired from Ambrosia hotel.

After all that story he wanted to stay ok with me.
He asked me to marry him, but he told me that he is already married and i have to pay for his devorce paipers. He is hiding that he has a wife and a dauther from his lovers.
When I told him that i lost my job and can't pay for his devorse or give him more money, he finished our relationships.

So be carefull, Tahir Ure is a love rat. He is just turkish gigolo, he pretending love, he tell u sweet words just to get ur money.
And he could be dangerous for u and ur family.
He still working in tourism in the Beach House Cafe Bodrum.

[Beniboylebil]

If he is this guy understand that he is Arabian origin, but Turkish citizen https://www.facebook.com/tyi.ure?ref=br_rs https://www.facebook.com/tahir.ure?ref=br_rs

[nina_rsad]

Omgg my Turkish “friend” asked me for money too😫😫

[Anonymous]

NO NO NO NO, these men are notorious for preying on desperate women who think it's there last chance for love. Open your eyes and read the stories of others in your situation. Turkish men are known for treating women badly along with most other muslim men, they have no respect for "sluts" (unmarried mothers like me & you), you will regret it. Testing the water is not enough to know that he is genuine, do not be a fool they change when they come to the UK to live off you. How can this man know he wants to marry you, how long did you know him? Don't do it to yourself and your kid.

[külteginyabgu]

Türkçe biliyormusun

[Siddhi56]

Absolutely not trustworthy ! I speak from personal experience. THey will court you and show you like you mean the world to them. Have a date with them and if they don’t get what they want, get ready for everything coming down to the ground crashing. I met one in my university in uk and he just seemed to make me feel like him and I were going to get married. Came to see him here and didn’t give him any, two days later he said he doesn’t want to talk anymore.

They are frustrated and have multiple girls at one time. Stay single rather than even trying to date a Turkish man. Run away please

[genevieve]

Well I don't know, but this kinda sounds like a story you see on tv. Like you know were young turkish men marry west european women to get a visa.

How long have you been there? If it was just holiday for a few weeks wouldn't you say its too early to marry anyone, regardless of nationality?

[Asker]

yes only there for a few wks.hes a year younger than me,he has been divorced from turkish girl.im going on my gut feeling and am being shall we say wary.next time I go out I am to meet his family.have met lots of his friends and spoke to his mum and dad on fone.hes educated and has travelled a lot when bodrum season finishes.at this stage of the game I won't be getting married,if he loves me enough as he says he does then he will wait or mayb he'l bugger of like I've heard do

[Kimin]

Haha no^^ seriously, a friend of me got 5 proposals in one week while being on vacation there:p For one thing, they have more than one wife..., and second, they probably just want to get married to get into europe.

[modsoul]

Get married to a guy you just met?

Seems totally legit.

[Anonymous]

I can literally tell you this. There are good and bad men in this worlf. Right now, I am talking to this Turkish man. We are not serious but he gives off signs which is why I am not officially dating him. First, I am getting a cat. He says in their culture they do not allow donestic pets in household. This man, god help him, was telling me not to get one. He forgets I am an animal lover and that he will get me something else. Its like man please.
Second, he has women texting him and one called him my dear husband. He said some Russians girls do that. Bull crap lol
Don't trust him and never will.
Good friends but never good companions.

[Anonymous]

you have to be extremely careful. I once met a turkish guy ali cihan dikci in alanya while working there who at first seemed very trustworthy, charming and actually did not raise even the slightest suspicion in me. at one point we even started making plans for the future and everything seemed perfect like in a fairytale. things however took a sharp U-turn when I had to return home for a couple of months and from there on it did not take much longer for me to find out that he actaully had different girls in different turkish resorts with whom he met while I was not around. my advice is NEVER date a turk unless you want to be cheated on.

[Amyh11]

In my experience from living in gumbet, no, save yourself the upset and hurt for the future. Especially bar boys. They’re great at manipulating you, lying to you, but they cheat, and have multiple women on the go at once and have no regard for your feelings, you could cry in front of them and they wouldn’t care. Selfishly want to do what they like and will literally stamp all over you and lie to you, they also like your money. I know everyone won’t be like this but my experiences have been shite

[Anonymous]

hmm you have to be so careful. Don't put all your trust in him because you can never be sure of what his true intentions are. Turkish men are like any other men else where. I have dated a turkish guy before and I wouldn't call him trustworthy.

[emerald77]

You can't say ALL Turkish men are or aren't trustworthy. Some aren't and some are.

[Anonymous]

Really no one can be trusted online. People aren't who they say they are until you see them in person

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry I red your question wrong

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't do it if I were a woman. You're better off with a Jewish guy.

[Turkish_Guy]

Yeah we are =) some are BUNCH OF K.U.N.T.S

[berk95]

You should be careful. Some people, rogue...