Husband and only fans?

[Anonymous]

My husband won't stop looking up this one girls only fans leaks. It bothers me because she looks absolutely nothing like me and I can in no way compare to her. I told him how I felt and begged him not to anymore and he agreed and promised. Then looked her up the next day again. I'm feeling worse and worse every day about myself and him. What do I do?

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+1 y

He did it again today.

[FlaffyCheez]

Well first off he's wrong for lying to you.(agreeing to not do something that he knows he's gonna do again)

Second, your insecurities are yours and yours alone, you cannot ask someone to mend them for you by curbing natural behaviors.
Adoration of what we like in people physically or mentally is just what it is. You have to make peace with the fact that there are billions of people out there and many many many many you will find attractive, just as he would. Not everyone got a "type" where they all look the same lmaooo. Soothe your insecurities with that message, and find a way to be less bothered by the fact that this woman whom your significant other has never met, makes his down under tingle.

While your settling that, have a conversation with your husband about what it is that he is attracted to from this woman, try and understand more about what he's attracted to, whether or not those are things you are providing him/want to provide to him. I garuntee a live show is wayyy better than OF, especially since he ain't gotta pay for it.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Regardless of what he says or does, trust is the most important issue here. He has damaged that.

If I was you, I'd offer to watch with him while touching him, seeing if I could get him turned on and moved away from there to somewhere else.

Don't compare yourself to other women though, please don't. There is no right or wrong body type. He may have his own issues as well, but if nothing you do seems to work and he keeps destroying that trust.

Lack of trust is a good reason to consider leaving.

[Anonymous]

I normally don't have a problem with a partner looking at porn, but in this case he's showing zero regard for your feelings and lying to you. That is contempt. Contempt is toxic for a relationship.

This is a serious issue. You should see a professional and at least begin to consider that this is the first sign of your upcoming divorce.

[Adam1978]

Well maybe build your own confidence rather than base your life on the approval and appreciation from others. When you done that either you won't care what your husband does, since he is still doing his part. Or you go find someone better. The main problem here for you is that you let a so simple action dictate your worth.

[Anonymous]

Relationships/ marriages where the girl has zero confidence and allows things like This to bother her will eventually drive the guy away. Look at Jason Momoa he is an A list Hollywood actor, he flirts with other women kisses them in movie scenes yet not once has his wife Lisa Bonet ever gotten upset even when he was calling Emilia his wife when they were hanging out as friends and here they are still together 15 or 16 years later why because she isn’t jealous she is someone who has confidence men love women who have confidence and don’t have jealously issues

Seriously stop comparing yourself to those girls he isn’t married to them he chose to be with you

[SnakeBoop]

you be telling him you're readying divorce papers if he doesn't stop like HE FUCKING SAID HE WOULD?

[cuckbetamale]

Yass gurl

[Asker]

Is divorce not too big for this issue? Im considering it but I still love him I'd hate to end our marriage

[SnakeBoop]

it states how serious it is to you.
the dude fucking told you he'd do something and turned around- KNOWING it makes you uncomfortable, and THEN DID IT ANYWAY?

I guess I just respect myself too much to put up with that childish shitty behaviour...

[SnakeBoop]

and dude, will you fuck off? not every one of my opinions need your input. i also ain't interested in your hating your own gender.

[Asker]

Agree for sure. He keeps telling me he doesn't do anything to the videos or photos he just looks.

[cuckbetamale]

Wow your rude

[SnakeBoop]

@cuckbetamale no, i'm sick of you being a spammy twat.

@asker , yeah, but that doesn't even matter. he still went behind what he told you to do it anyway.

[Asker]

I send him raunchy pics and videos to try and keep that stuff subdued but he doesn't even look at them. He says he just looks them up instead cos their whores and that's what guys jerk off to. Not their wives pics.
Does that even make sense?

[cuckbetamale]

Fine sorry mam I apoligize

[SnakeBoop]

asker, erm. yeah, you married what sounds like a trash dude who just wants porn to wank to.
if he's actually said that, he's legit now contradicting himself by saying its what men wank to, meaning him. Red flags are a'wavin'

[TheFlak38]

Is there nothing else you can do as a wife besides begging him? Like suck his cock, get on doggystyle position pro-style, beg him to fuck you as if you're a sex slave? if you're a turn off then don't complain that the husband who has to put up with your constant nagging, shit tests and never ending demands pays more attention to other girls.

[shaysh87]

your husband probably doesn't love you as much as you think. a husband who truly loves his wife will never do anything that upsets her. he clearly does not care if you're upset or not. i don't think you both would last forever.

[Anonymous]

First off you need to put yourself together and fuck him crazy

[Hangry06]

Ignore it or check out cocks online

[cuckbetamale]

My wife controls me so I don't know

[Asker]

Damn

[cuckbetamale]

I like it hehe

[tzdc21]

Time to leave.