So i recently got a message on Instagram it was from a guy that was in my class in highschool we were classmates ( he was my brothers friend ) and i used to have a big crush on him ( but i was so ugly at the time so I didn't made a move, we didn't even talk ) so now i look so much prettier and i have pictures of me posted on my Instagram so i got a message request from that guy that was in my class , he said oh i think i know u from highschool and then he started. Complimenting me and asking me about my life and my hight we talked for 2-3 days and then all of the sudden he said oh i think i waisted your time , and then said goodbye and then that was it đ i thought he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend or something but that was it I'm so confused i don't know what was his intentions? Any one can help? Please. ( Was he just making fun of me or my brother? ) Or he was attracted to me? i don't know !!!
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Update he we had another deep conversation and he did the same thing , he said ok go eat dinner but he didn't say he will text me later , i guss he is just a nice guy ! What do u think?
In my opinion, good riddance with such people. You got saved in a way. No point in being constant tension of "pleasing" someone, hoping they won't leave you. Girl, trust me when I say this, and I say this from personal defeats and experiences, let a person love you for whom you are, you aren't an entertainer, but, that does also mean the other person is not an entertainer to you. Goes both ways. There are also people who try their extra effort to go further and those are the peoplr you want to keep in your life.
Personal experience, I was talking with this girl for some months, and slowly our conversation faded. One day she came back, said how sorry she was, it was her exams. I was touched by this extra mile she went, and it inspired me to go one too. Later, she confessed she had gradually fallen in love with me, I was already, and had kept silent earlier. It was both sided love, butwe both decided it was best to part ways as we both lived in different countries, culture, and continents and I have okd parents I cannot leave.
So, remember you are not an entertainer, neither is the person you date. Good luck.
Itâs not/wasnât worth your time to prolong any conversation with him. He may have been cute or whatever but think more of yourself.âĽď¸Thatâs the lesson I had to learn going from teen to adult. Maybe he just felt that your conversation wasnât flowing well/lack of chemistry. I know it hurts and sucks! But someone else is out there for you who will click with you one of these days
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You weren't interesting enough for him, I agree with the other comment that's why he stopped talking you, he got bored and didn't want to talk to you anymore
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And he wasn't making fun of you, he just got bored of you that's it
Just message him back and say that he wasn't wasting your time at all. And say that you are very glad he reached out to you. If he still doesn't reach out, then forget about him again and move on with life.
You live in the 21st century world of fake anti-social media. People act like Jerks and it is accepted inline behavior. It is a sad commentary on society today.
No, seems like a lot of effort just to make fun of someone. Maby he doesn't know what he wants either. I know its hard but ask him? Explain you're confused and ask him what kind of relationship he wants. I hope works out for you.
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