Men, can you describe your perfect woman?

[Lucid_Dreams]

As a woman I feel that we are often wrong in thinking what men want us to look like. So please, describe to me your perfect woman (realistically) so that I can better understand the truth. If you could also, please, state what country you are from. Maybe we can discover some geographical trends.

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I am NOT the girl in this photo.

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Thanks guys! 😊

[Lliam]

My personal ideal?

Physically:
5'2"; bouncy, curly or wavy hair that's anywhere from blond to red; large eyes of some shade of blue or green; soft, full but not puffy lips; a dazzling smile and perfect, white teeth; pale, flawless skin that's pink and white with no areas of discoloration. Girlish features combined with all the feminine curves. Fat boobs in the range of 28DD. Measurements around 34", 24", 36". Rounded hips and a plump, bouncy bottom that creases at the tops of her thighs. She's slender, fit and flexible but soft, not skinny or lean. She has just the right amount of feminine padding on her flat tummy and elegantly thin (not skinny but definitely not thicc) thighs.

She's soft, silky smooth and glabrous She has excellent posture, is comfortable in her own skin and has a confident yet feminine bearing. She has a cuteness and daintiness about her.

Personality:
She has healthy values, a sense of dignity, is nobody's doormat, knows her own mind, is wise, intelligent, honest and intuitive, tender-hearted, openhearted and nurturing. She loves togetherness and partnership but is not insecure, clingy or too dependent. Her reactions are genuine and spontaneous, not affected, calculating or self-conscious. She is bright-eyed, adventurous, inquisitive, fun loving and funny, not coarse, loud, brash, rude or confrontational. She is a lady and enjoys being treated as one. She makes me feel like her knight in shining armor. She is skilled at communication. Her grooming is feminine in the way she cares for her skin, hair and nails. She has taste and style in her choice of attire and is not averse to looking sexy (but not in a cheap or low-class way). But neither is she high maintenance or materialistic. She doesn't need Gucci bags, Prada shoes or Tiffany jewelry in order to look outstanding or feel good about herself.

Sexuality:
She is 100% heterosexual and has a strong libido. When it comes to sex, she is eager, adventurous and uninhibited. She's skilled at foreplay and loves being dominated and fucked hard, but she can also be assertive in pursuing her own gratification and setting her limits. Her entire body is erogenous and responsive. She is sensual and orgasmic and, as a result, intuitively understands how to drive a man wild.

Whether in public or private, she makes her man feel like a man because she loves being a woman.

[MCheetah]

I'm from the US, but currently living in South Korea. This question is asked often on here. So here's my last answer to this question.

PERSONALITY:
1. Kind/positive
2. Loyal/faithful
3. Classy/ladylike
4. Accepting/nonjudgmental
5. Open-minded
6. Intelligent
7. Strong sense of humor
8. Strong work ethic
9. Patient; not easily offended or bothered
10. Respectful
11. Politically moderate (not too liberal or conservative)
12. Strictly heterosexual and monogamous
13. (Optional) Artistic
14. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes

PHYSICAL:
15. Tall: 5'10" to 6'5"
16. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc
17. Feminine style
18. Great smile and good teeth
19. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
20. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 34 (23 to 30 is ideal)

My late fiancée, 2012

[MCheetah]

Thanks for the MHO.

[VanillaSalt]

If we’re talking strictly physical…


Long hair
I like blonde but few women can pull it off to me
Light makeup. I hate clowns but the right eye liner… something about a woman that can draw you into her eyes.
Fit. Not muscular ew hate that… just fit. Maybe a little extra lbs specially for winter lol I’m cold right now fucking freeze.
Tits around b or c cup. More then a mouthful is a waste lol!
Not an ass man but squats help a lot.


If personality matters…


I like the type of women that handles herself with grace. If you come at her with attitude her first actions to remain calm and talk. This type of woman’s rare and deserves respect. I can be abrasive but if you get defensive I’ll fight back while these types make me calm down and rethink.
A woman that knows her place and is confident in her area. A woman’s place to me isn’t the same as her place to her. I’m open to covering all roles but the place for her might be the kitchen or the office.
I don’t like promiscuity, attitude, boss bitch energy, or infidelity. If you can’t commit to me I can’t even see you…


by the way south Texas here. Small town raising.

[Lonewulf57]

Yes, and no. First, there are no "perfect people". That said, there are certain traits you look for. We all do. How realistic those desired traits are is another matter. The stereotypical hourglass figure for a woman is absurd, yet it persists in one fashion or another.

Superficial traits, like tons of makeup, or specific choices of clothes are exactly what they are.

What I do like is a woman who isn't a cow (needing to be led around and lacks opinions). That said, I don't want to have a debate every minute over what coffee shop to go to. Don't be afraid of the inevitable "why?" Your answer doesn't have to be a dissertation of comparitive pro's and con's.

I like a woman who is her own person. Someone who simply follows trends because everyone else does, isn't my ideal. That said, good hygene isn't a trend, if you see what I mean.

Some things a woman can't help. I can't stand sad eyes (drooping at the outside of their eyes). This is a trait you're born with. A good sense of humor, and a playful attitude helps.

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[Anonymous]

My physical expectations are unrealistic, be warned. I never expect anyone to meet my physical expectation, because the few that do that I've met have garbage personalities, or they're gay.

Short hair, between shoulder length and pixie cut hair, preferably ginger, or died an unnatural color (blue, red, dark green, purple, platinum blonde, etc). Pete, not anarexic, 5'2"-5'4" skin color: depends on the rest of this. Eyes: blue, or green, browns not a deal breaker though. Tattoos: depends, but not a deal breaker either way. Piercings: depends on where, and how many.

Personality; strong willed, sarcastic, not lazy, shares similar interest as me. Bike riding, hiking, anime, videogame, comics, monga, Guns (doesn't have to be all, but a majority helps. Also I'm willing to try new interest. And it would help if she would be too.) doesn't spend money on useless crap. Will respect me as a person, listens, shares my political opinions (not all but the big ones;guns, freedom, and a few more sensitive topics.) And shares the same religious views (not usually compatible with my physical preferences.). Also faithful to me emotionally.

Sexual interest; likes to try new things, monogamous, shares some kinks with me. Likes to be intimate. Aggressive towards me.

These are my preferences, not reflective of what is reality.

The physical preferences are unrealistic I'd be lucky to find someone with two of those traits. Besides, looks fade as you grow old.

The personality only needs to be about 50%. Unfortunately, I wouldn't be able to find someone with even half of that if I was looking for a new partner.

The sexuality; only two or three traits seems hard to find these days. Monogamy. Intimacy. And aggression.

[TomGarand]

"As a woman I feel that we are often wrong in thinking what men want us to look like."

I'm going to assume that the context is our ideal woman's appearance. @Lucid_Dreams feel free to correct me if I can also list personality traits.

But physically, she'd have a stocky or muscular physique. Nice biceps, abs, muscled back, strong legs. What matters is that she is physically strong and capable. Height-wise, at least 5 feet tall is acceptable, but her being tall is preferred. My ideal height would be 5'9 to 6'4.

[Lucid_Dreams]

Personality is welcomed 😊

[Nomoturtle]

Long brown/black/red hair. Most styles look good.
Blue/green eyes, with medium/thin eyebrows.
Small/medium size mouth and nose.
Definitively feminine face, angular or smooth.
Chin inline with jaw.
Pale skin, no tan (I don't know why people do this).
Uses little/no makeup.
Not overweight.
Shares at least one core hobby in common.
Wants to contribute to a team and be emotionally co-dependent, not to just be served, or view the relationship as transactional as I'm starting to see more these days.
Intelligent, capable of deep and interesting conversations.
Loyal.
Respectful.
Highly prudent.
Wants kids.
Is not a collectivist.
Motivated towards improvement, hers and mine; I can take soma alone otherwise.

[BCA6010]

When talking about looks alone, my preferences are generally pretty vague because what looks good on one woman won't necessarily look good on another. Some constants though are hair shoulder length or longer, and neither skeletal or obese. Height and weight are numbers and I don't care about them out of context; reasonably healthy and feminine proportions are what matter. Less is more when it comes to makeup, and going to lengths to darken or lighten skin or wearing colored contact lenses comes across as extremely insecure and unattractive.

I'm from the American Midwest and South.

[MTC29]

An independent woman who is well educated and well spoken. She should have a career (not simply a job). Most women in my age are divorced. Let go of the ex-husband! I don't want to hear about the guy. Adult kids? Don't meddle in their lives.

As we age, @Lucid_Dreams you will also age, looks become less important. Even so, fat is never a good thing. A few extra kilos? no one cares. Carrying around 200 kilos? that's a problem.

You are currently old enough to be my granddaughter, but now you can plan ahead.

[Pyrofox]

For me it would be 5' 7"-5'9" dirty blonde hair more brunette than blonde. Has her mindset on eventually being a work at home mom mindset that loves both kids and animals. Completely down to take like camping or travel trips. Is okay getting lost together as well. Understands that there is a time and place to be sexy or professional. And lastly is fully invested in the relationship. On a level that gets all my friends/family to be harassing me to put a ring on her already lol.

[JDAC2209199]

Honestly no, I haven't met her yet, for me mind and personality is key the body follows afterwards as unless they're grotesquely over/under weight I come to love a girls body like it was the best I'd ever laid my eyes on after I know what kinda person she is as that has a huge impact on my perception of them.

[Almost10inch4funlol]

personally for me it’s black, curly hair, dimples, straight teeth, big eyes, about 5’4” tall slim athletic build with a fat booty, long nipples, fat juicy pussy, freckles, goofy And awkward Personality fit lower back, confident in her self, trust worthy, loving with a kind heart but not Naïve and a love of pleasing that matches or exceeds my on love for her orgasms. 😍

[ohshee]

Yes
She has the most beautiful eyes in the world she has the most beautiful heart in the world she's kind she's carrying she's giving she's smart she's intelligent she's wise she's independent she's strong she soft she's tender she's loving she's carrying and she's happy and she can smile and the outside of her is just all an extra bonus

[SkipPerk]

Short, intelligent, ideally thick (what women sometimes call fat, but what men prefer), but I can live with skinny, kind, strong, strong sex drive, intellectual interests, respects that I hate people touching me and it takes me a while to become intimate (I am very intimate, but I must trust someone first).

[TheUniqueOne96]

Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl ↗

[TommyMountainFigure]

Looks are important, but they are not the be all and end all in the pursuit of perfection. I don't think there is any such thing as perfection anyway.
For example.. How many relationships have you read or heard that partners say the other is perfect, then 3 months later they split?
I always tell people to be themselves and not try to be anything different because unless you are prepared to live your life behind a facade? you'll never be happy.

[Anonymous]

Im not sure anyone can truthfully answer that. Youd be better off making poll with types of women. Like me personally i like short skinny girls. Im 6 ft 4 from usa. I love asain or latina women but all nationalities have beautiful women. My current girlfriend of 8 years and mother of my kids is not my ideal dream girl looks wise because she is kind of thick and has a big butt. I like petite women most. love blondes. personality wise my girlfriend has my heart. Once she stops kink shaming and starts counciling i will be proposing

[Kaamraj]

There is no such thing as perfect, in a relationship both parties compromise and the benefit of the relationship is more than the compromise, so they continue. The "perfect" woman for me, is younger than or 26 (I'm 30), on the looks scale I'm not asking too much, average works for me. But the most important part is that she must put in at least half of the effort that I put in. I am tired of trying to approach and being with women who take me for granted and dont value the efforts I put in.

[AviatorTom]

There is no such things as a "perfect" woman... we guys know that and don't lose sleep thinking about it.

The kind of woman most guys would like to have a meaningful relationship with has these qualities:
1. Intelligent
2. Good looking
3. Willing to try new things

[DarkWinterNights]

Physical is important- I like a woman who is slim or athletic, and I tend to gravitate toward blondes, but it’s mostly personality traits that actually attract me. Being friendly, bubbly and happy will definitely get my attention, but having a kind personality is extremely attractive.

[jamesgoldman]

The most perfect was my first girlfriend so I'll base most of this on her (and yes I do regret not asking her to marry me)
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Red hair, porcelain white skin, deep blue/green eyes like sapphires or emeralds, normal body
I would want her to be intelligent, kind, funny and pretty

[loveslongnails]

No. It would take a long time and I don't have the energy. LOL Let me just say this much - she MUST look gorgeous without any make up - a totally, naturally beautiful girl, inside and out, that I can wake up next to every day and think how lucky I am.

[Yourfriend2021]

There's no perfect woman but I know what I like. The most important thing is what's inside and how she treats me and her beliefs, but there has to be physical attraction. I could send pics of woman I'm attracted too, but that doesn't say anything about what kind of person she is. I'm in USA

[aaaaaaa1]

I tend to like short cute girls🤔
I also like hair length in between shoulders and middle of their backs. Dark hair and dark eyes attracts me very much with the kinda vibe its giving me idk😮 Also, I like when they wear none to light natural makeup and nice outfits but not too showy.👍 With a nice personality too I like kinda shy girls thats gets to be themselves when around their friends.

I'm from Canada 🇨🇦

[Twalli]

So I am going to break this into physical and nonphysical
Physically I want a woman who is more on the petite side. Small boobs and a small ass are extremely attractive, especially on a petite frame. I don't necessarily like a flat ass, but small and round is attractive. Due to my small size I prefer a girl to also be small and short.
From the nonphysical standpoint it's how the girl acts. My girlfriend appeared happy most of the time which made her extremely attractive to me.

[Bluemax]

Well, perhaps not perfect, but perfect for me.

That would be my wife. She was very compassionate. She loved her students and they loved her. She was remarkably intelligent and talented. She was lovely and loving.

[Truthatanycost]

Zero promiscuity of any kind in the past or the present, short height, health conscious, spiritual / godly, discerning, intelligent, nice body, nice face. The no promiscuity, health, and the godliness is a must, everything else can vary some what.

[WilliamPamer446]

Light skin or dark skin black girl, chill, easy going, patient, independant mainly but kinda submissive, communicative, wildin out goofy and fun, different, cool

[Aakash_Hangargi]

she's some actress i saw her somewhere lol and she is noway 19 she is way older

There is no perfect women , women are just women the way they naturally are

[LegendaryIcon]

well, different guys, like different things, it doesn't matter where you're from, it just matters on that SPECIFIC guy

that's why you can't generalise

Why did you use someone elses photo, without their permission?

[htmndg183]

Long wavy hair, some piercings, some tattoos, thick lips, very very tall, medium sized boobs, athletic build with muscle tone. Kinky. Dominant. Career driven. Ambitious. Caring. Sweet. Loving. Blue eyes. Adventurous.

[AncientWisdom]

I look for a pretty woman who is pleasant to be around. Can be hard to find.