Guys, would you ever make a negative comment about your partners body?

[Anonymous]

If you didn't like something about the way they looked would you comment?

Today my guy decided to comment negatively about my body. He said that my butt wasn't attractive. That no man would lust after it even if he was paid money to do so.
I cannot see the point of why a guy would decide to tell his partner this

[VanillaSalt]

Lmao your ass is flatter then a freshly paved D. C. road but your personalities more twisted then one… I've said this before… I point out it’s time for a diet many times… she’s fat simple truth. She’s pointed out my pregnancy several times when I get a sugar binge going… we put each other down all the time. Our first language was sarcasm and passive aggressive insults.


It’s not just men that should be able to put themselves down women as well need to take criticism. Mind you were not dating anymore for other reasons but fact is hot is hot not is not truth is truth and this is how it is no sense getting bent about it.


If you really get offended by something that says more about you then the other person.

[God_of_Thunder]

I wouldn't, no. Never in a million years.

Even if she specifically asked for constructive criticism, I would find a polite way to say it, like, "I love your butt, but if it's something you're self conscious about, let's go to the gym together, and tone it up a little bit," or something to that effect.

That last thing my partner needs, particularly as a woman, is to hear me say something harsh about her body. That's kind of a dick move.

[Asker]

I figured most guys wouldn't say something rude to their girl

[spartan55]

@asker
Only the abusers.

[exitseven]

Never would do that. We wrote our own vows and lifted part of it from the Bible where it says tha tI take her "with blemish"
Everyone has something imperfect about them. You should love the whole package.

[spartan55]

And of course you will stay with him too...
I would NEVER make a negative comment about my SOs body. He is abusing you. Eroding your self esteem so you will rely completely on him. Dump him.

[Valso]

No. Commenting on the body is shallow and mean. In the old days when I used to date, when I was with a woman, I was with her because of her wits, not because of her body or her ass (which is just a pillow to sit on, but nvm :P ).

[FilmGuy93]

Nah. It would be a awful idea, unless the issue was significant weight gain or something. All it would do is make her insecure over something minor.

[NathanDavis]

why is he still your boyfriend is a better question to ask... yourself

[Dchrls78104]

In a healthy relationship a man is able to be honest with his woman about her flaws, but he does so respectfully and does not behave like your toxic idiot of a "boyfriend" is doing.

[Bricealan]

My past girlfriend said that a partner told her once that she had: "ugly tits but a beautiful pussy"

[StonePup]

There's a big difference between constructive criticism and just being a jerk. He chose to be a jerk for some reason, maybe he thinks it's some kind of tough love motivation? Either way that was just mean of him to say that.

[Andres77]

Once you start showing disrespect... things are gonna get dicey.
I'm sorry he said that.
That was hurtful.

[Waldoe]

it was hurtful, not helpful... unless it is something that a person can and wants to improve... he sounds like a jerk... I LOVE your ass, and I've never seen it...

[RealMarek]

I would not do this. Your guy is just being a total jerk and is trying to hurt you.

[ANDYB88]

Christ, no! Not if I ever wanted to have sex again 😂

[jerdanro]

I'd kick someone to the curb for that. That's a cruel thing to say.

[noohair]

I can say that he is a certified moron.
Where do want the certificate sent?

[Guardian45]

DTMF! Find a guy who appreciates you as you ARE! F*** HIM!

[notwoke]

I am well aware that women cannot handle even the slightest negative feedback, so no.

[AndrésC64]

He's a dick. Dump him.

[Jamie05rhs]

So dump him.

[OwwyPowwy234]

That would be rude