Guys. Have you ever had a crush on a girl and referred to her as your bro? Or says she’s like one of the boys?

[Anonymous]

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, not good. Do you dress like a guy or like a girl around them?

[Asker]

What happened was he told me a story and I told him he should go tell his boys. And he replied “you are the boys!”

But I don’t fit a guys-guy AT ALL. I’m super feminine, mature-non party person. I really thought he liked me.

Signs:
-Dressed up for me
-Wore cologne with me
- text me all day
-always wants to hang out alone
- buys me gifts

Im just so lost now. And so sad and upseT

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm, that is confusing. Maybe invite him over to your house one on one and make a move on him. Good luck.

[Asker]

Issue is. I’m already taken. But kinda falling for the friend. It’s just a terrible situation

[Stevefiveo]

Oh, hmm. I guess you are going to have to decide to take that risk. Hopefully, your friend can keep a secret if you make a move. Maybe ask if he can keep a secret and then make your move.

[Anonymous]

No if I refer to her as a bro she's like a relative or friend. If I have a crush on her I don't try to incest her

[Asker]

I figured 😞
My close friend of 5 years told me I’m one of the boys lastnight and I’m heartbroken. I really thought he liked me.

Signs:
-Dressed up for me
-Wore cologne with me
- text me all day
-always wants to hang out alone
- buys me gifts

Im just so lost now. And so sad and upset.

[Opinion Owner]

Those aren't signs those are just normal things people do with close friend or sibling. A sign of liking you is if he says he likes you or tries to make your butt feel happy or something

[Asker]

He did try to always make me happy. I don't know I’m just thrown off. I’m not like a guys-guy AT ALL.

What happened was he told me a story and I told him he should go tell his boys. And he replied “you are the boys!”

But I dint fit a guys-guy AT ALL. I’m super feminine, mature-non party person.

[MTC29]

No, never.

[Asker]

I figured 😞
My close friend of 5 years told me I’m one of the boys lastnight and I’m heartbroken. I really thought he liked me.

Signs:
-Dressed up for me
-Wore cologne with me
- text me all day
-always wants to hang out alone
- buys me gifts

Im just so lost now. And so sad and upset.

[MTC29]

Generally speaking, a man telling a female friend that he thinks of her as being "one of the guys" means that the future does not include romance. I'm sorry.

[Asker]

What happened was he told me a story and I told him he should go tell his boys. And he replied “you are the boys!”

But I dint fit a guys-guy AT ALL. I’m super feminine, mature-non party person.

[UniquelyBasic]

Never

[Asker]

I figured 😞
My close friend of 5 years told me I’m one of the boys lastnight and I’m heartbroken. I really thought he liked me.

Signs:
-Dressed up for me
-Wore cologne with me
- text me all day
-always wants to hang out alone
- buys me gifts

Im just so lost now. And so sad and upset.

[Wise4myage]

Never, lol..

[Asker]

I figured 😞
My close friend of 5 years told me I’m one of the boys lastnight and I’m heartbroken. I really thought he liked me.

Signs:
-Dressed up for me
-Wore cologne with me
- text me all day
-always wants to hang out alone
- buys me gifts

Im just so lost now. And so sad and upset.

[JoeSnedger]

Yes i have

[Asker]

Have you? Why did you call her that?

[JoeSnedger]

Just to feel friendly

[Asker]

But why want to feel friendly?
Did you actually like her?

[JoeSnedger]

Yes i like her

[Asker]

That’s confusing then lol.
I got so hurt and cried when my guy friend called me one of the boys. I took it negative s

[JoeSnedger]

Lol that's just a casual call. My girlfriend sometimes call me bro